Oh friends, you won't want to miss this episode. Morgan and Andrea are back this week (with an amazing re-air) with top Dallas family law attorney, Rebecca Armstong, find her here! talking about the things you SHOULD and SHOULDN'T do after you file for divorce.

First off, do you have the DCC???

If not, you 100% need this tool so you don't totally screw up in your divorce process. It will save you THOUSANDS of dollars!!

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Rebecca, Morgan and Andrea answer:

-What 3 things should you do after you file for divorce?

-What 3 things should you absolutely NOT do after you file for divorce?

-Do I need a therapist if I'm going through a divorce?

-Can being in therapy be used against me if I'm going through a divorce?

-Why should I go to an annual checkup at the doctor during a divorce?

-Can I record my spouse during an argument and use it during divorce proceedings?

-Will my spending habits be scrutinized during a divorce?

-What advice did Oprah give Andrea about her own divorce?

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Let's talk about co parenting, shall we??

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How do you know if it's time to leave your marriage??​​

Is your marraige worth saving??

How the hell do you do that and who the hell is going to help you figure that out???

Ever wondered if you would benefit from Discernment Counseling? The founder of discernment counseling, Dr. Bill Doherty, joins us on the podcast to find out . Not only did Dr. Doherty develop a specific type of counseling for couples where one is considering divorce, he's also been on Oprah not just once, but twice! From Harpo to How Not To Suck At Divorce, Dr. Doherty is moving up in the world, that's for sure. (hahahhaa)

Discernment counseling is when one person is leaning OUT of the relationship and considering divorce and the other person is leaning IN and wants to try to make things work. This type of counseling gives people clarity and confidence based on a deeper understanding of what has happened in the marriage.

Dr. Doherty answers the questions:

1 What is discernment counseling?

2 Does discernment counseling solve problems in the marriage?

3 What are the differences between couples therapy and discernment counseling?

4 How long is discernment counseling?

5 What are the three paths of discernment counseling?

6 How do I know if we should try couples therapy or discernment counseling?

Stay until the end because Dr. Doherty blows the lid off traditional therapy and tells us he favorite type of wine (you won't believe his answer).

You can find Dr. Bill Doherty and search for a local discernment counselor at

http://www.discernmentcounseling.com

*Do you have our DCC?? If you're considering divorce, you should!!

https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course

And don't forget about Our Family Wizard. It's our #1 app for coparents who are looking to not suck at this process! Check them out here:

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Remember, you got this and we got you.

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How do you know when your marriage is over?

How do you know if it's just a phase or if something that was once there will never really come back?

Did you "try hard enough" to "save your marraige" and what does that even mean???

At what point can you confident that divorce is the right decision for you???

What we have learned in our professional careers as a family law attorney and hosting this podcast is that sometimes hearing other people's stories help you relate more to your own. So today, we are re airing an episode from the second season of our show which features someone's personal story about when they knew their marriage was offically over.

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And if you're ready to begin the divorce process, you NEED the DCC! It's our one of a kind, Divorce Crash Course. This course literally holds your hand through all of your major decisions. You'll avoid MAJOR mistakes and save up to THOUSANDS of dollars because you're getting advice from one the most sought after divorce attorneys in the country!! For $97, this course will change your life. And we mean that. Check it out here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course

We welcome guest and retired husband, Mike Draper, to the show as he shares his story of when he knew it was over and what life after divorce is really like for a single dad. Check out Magic Mike, (I'm sorry), I mean Mortgage Mike on IG @mortgage_mike

As always we're keeping it real and keeping the levity because this process is tough enough. But you are never alone. You got this and we got you.

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If you need support with coparenting- or maybe you just want some extra insight into what coparenting will look for you- look no further than Our Family Wizard. You can get specialized information that WE created with OFW just for our listeners here: http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck

And don't worry, we are back with fresh episodes in just a few weeks!!