In this eye-opening episode, Ben introduces the game-changing book "Leadership and Self-Deception" and explains why it's his top recommendation for parents struggling with their teens.

Discover:

• Why this book is a must-read for anyone seeking to improve family relationships
• The concept of "being in the box" and how it affects your interactions with your teen
• How self-deception can sabotage your parenting efforts without you realizing it
• Real-life examples of how this book has transformed relationships, including Ben's personal experience
• An alternative book recommendation, "The Anatomy of Peace," for those who prefer a different approach
• The limiting belief that often traps parents and how to break free from it
• An empowering alternative mindset that puts you in control of positive change

Ben shares insights on how shifting your perspective from blaming your teen to focusing on your own growth can lead to dramatic improvements in your relationship. He challenges listeners to embrace the idea that they are the solution to every problem they face with their teen.

If you're ready to break free from unproductive patterns and create a more harmonious relationship with your teenager, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how escaping self-deception can unlock your potential as a parent and transform your family dynamic.

Don't forget to take the Parent Trap Quiz at benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz to identify your parenting obstacles and find quick solutions.

Full show notes at benpughcoaching.com/227

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

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In this empowering episode, Ben challenges the widespread belief that there's a magical, external solution to parenting struggles. Discover why you already possess the wisdom and strength to be the parent your teen needs.

Learn about:

• The societal conditioning that leads parents to seek external solutions
• Why relying on "experts" can sometimes undermine your parental instincts
• The power of recognizing yourself as the hero in your parenting journey
• Real-life examples of parents tapping into their inner wisdom
• Strategies for trusting your parenting instincts and decision-making
• How to access and utilize your unique "parenting superpowers"

Ben shares a touching anecdote about a mom who thought she was hearing his advice, when in reality, she was accessing her own inner wisdom. He offers insights on how to recognize and trust your innate parenting abilities.

If you're tired of feeling dependent on external advice and ready to embrace your role as the true expert in your teen's life, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to become the hero of your own parenting story and tap into the superpowers you've had all along.

Full show notes at benpughcoaching.com/226

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!

🎧 LISTEN HERE!

In this eye-opening episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, challenges the common parental instinct to shield teens from failure. Discover why allowing your teen to experience setbacks is crucial for their personal growth and future success.

Learn about:

• The societal pressures driving parents to protect teens from failure
• Why failure is a vital component in developing resilience and life skills
• The unintended consequences of constantly "fixing" things for your teen
• Real-life examples of how overprotection can backfire, including a local sexting scandal
• Strategies for empowering your teen to face and learn from their mistakes
• The concept of an "un-ruinable life" and how it can transform your teen's perspective

Ben shares insights on how to shift from being a "fixer" to becoming a supportive guide for your teen. He offers practical advice on how to respond to your teen's failures in ways that build confidence and resilience.

If you're tired of constantly intervening in your teen's challenges and ready to help them develop true independence and resilience, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how embracing failure can be the key to your teen's long-term success and emotional well-being.

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!

🎧 LISTEN HERE!