In this eye-opening episode, Ben introduces the game-changing book "Leadership and Self-Deception" and explains why it's his top recommendation for parents struggling with their teens.

Discover:

• Why this book is a must-read for anyone seeking to improve family relationships
• The concept of "being in the box" and how it affects your interactions with your teen
• How self-deception can sabotage your parenting efforts without you realizing it
• Real-life examples of how this book has transformed relationships, including Ben's personal experience
• An alternative book recommendation, "The Anatomy of Peace," for those who prefer a different approach
• The limiting belief that often traps parents and how to break free from it
• An empowering alternative mindset that puts you in control of positive change

Ben shares insights on how shifting your perspective from blaming your teen to focusing on your own growth can lead to dramatic improvements in your relationship. He challenges listeners to embrace the idea that they are the solution to every problem they face with their teen.

If you're ready to break free from unproductive patterns and create a more harmonious relationship with your teenager, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how escaping self-deception can unlock your potential as a parent and transform your family dynamic.

Don't forget to take the Parent Trap Quiz at benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz to identify your parenting obstacles and find quick solutions.

Full show notes at benpughcoaching.com/227

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

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In this empowering episode, Ben challenges the widespread belief that there's a magical, external solution to parenting struggles. Discover why you already possess the wisdom and strength to be the parent your teen needs.

Learn about:

• The societal conditioning that leads parents to seek external solutions
• Why relying on "experts" can sometimes undermine your parental instincts
• The power of recognizing yourself as the hero in your parenting journey
• Real-life examples of parents tapping into their inner wisdom
• Strategies for trusting your parenting instincts and decision-making
• How to access and utilize your unique "parenting superpowers"

Ben shares a touching anecdote about a mom who thought she was hearing his advice, when in reality, she was accessing her own inner wisdom. He offers insights on how to recognize and trust your innate parenting abilities.

If you're tired of feeling dependent on external advice and ready to embrace your role as the true expert in your teen's life, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to become the hero of your own parenting story and tap into the superpowers you've had all along.

Full show notes at benpughcoaching.com/226

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

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In this eye-opening episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, challenges the common parental instinct to shield teens from failure. Discover why allowing your teen to experience setbacks is crucial for their personal growth and future success.

Learn about:

• The societal pressures driving parents to protect teens from failure
• Why failure is a vital component in developing resilience and life skills
• The unintended consequences of constantly "fixing" things for your teen
• Real-life examples of how overprotection can backfire, including a local sexting scandal
• Strategies for empowering your teen to face and learn from their mistakes
• The concept of an "un-ruinable life" and how it can transform your teen's perspective

Ben shares insights on how to shift from being a "fixer" to becoming a supportive guide for your teen. He offers practical advice on how to respond to your teen's failures in ways that build confidence and resilience.

If you're tired of constantly intervening in your teen's challenges and ready to help them develop true independence and resilience, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how embracing failure can be the key to your teen's long-term success and emotional well-being.

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!

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Are you struggling to connect with your teenager? In this insightful episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, tackles the widespread issue of parent-teen disconnection and offers a transformative approach to rebuilding your relationship.

Discover why the disconnect between parents and teens is so common and learn about:

• The societal and cultural factors contributing to parent-teen disconnection
• Why focusing on conflicting values widens the gap between you and your teen
• The power of identifying shared values to strengthen your relationship
• A step-by-step process for building Values-Based Relationships
• Real-life examples of how this approach has transformed parent-teen dynamics

Ben shares a touching personal anecdote about his toddler son connecting over football, illustrating how children naturally seek connection through shared interests. He then explains how to apply this principle to your relationship with your teen.

If you're tired of feeling like you and your teen are speaking different languages and you're ready to foster a deep, loving connection, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to bridge the gap and create a relationship where both you and your teen feel understood and valued.

Full show notes at https://benpughcoaching.com/224

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!

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Are you caught in the trap of blaming your teen for your parenting struggles? In this eye-opening episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, challenges the common myth that your teen's behavior is responsible for how you parent.

Discover why this belief is not only disempowering but also prevents you from becoming the parent you aspire to be. In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why blaming your teen for your parenting issues is a dead-end strategy
• How to shift from reactive parenting to intentional parenting
• The power of taking responsibility for your own actions and emotions
• Practical strategies to maintain composure during challenging situations with your teen
• How to improve your relationship with your teen by focusing on what you can control

Ben shares relatable examples, including a recent incident from a parenting group that highlights this common misconception. He offers insights on how to break free from the cycle of blame and guilt, and instead embrace a more empowering approach to parenting.

If you're tired of feeling like a victim in your parenting journey and ready to take control of your relationship with your teen, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to become the parent of your dreams, regardless of your teen's choices. It's time to stop blaming and start BEing the parent you want to be!

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!

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Are you frustrated by parenting advice that promises to make your teen obey or trust you? In this eye-opening episode, Ben, a former foster parent and experienced coach, challenges the myth of teen control and offers a transformative perspective on parenting.

Discover why trying to control your teen is counterproductive and learn about:

• The T-Chart of Control: A simple tool to identify what's within your influence
• The Consequence Quadrant: A powerful framework for discussing outcomes with your teen
• Real-life examples of parents shifting from control to empowerment
• Practical strategies to let go of control without losing your parental role

Ben shares candid stories from his experience, including a memorable conversation with an anesthesiologist dad about the absurdity of total teen control. He offers insights on how small mindset shifts can dramatically improve your relationship with your teen.

If you're tired of power struggles and ready for a more harmonious approach to parenting, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to empower both yourself and your teen, becoming the supportive parent you aspire to be.

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!

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Are you a parent struggling to set effective boundaries with your teenager? In this eye-opening podcast, Ben, a former high school principal and experienced parent coach, reveals how you can transform your approach to boundaries and consequences, leading to a more harmonious relationship with your teen.

Ben introduces a powerful tool called The Consequence Quadrant, which challenges the common misconception that consequences are all about punishment. He explains how parents often fall into the trap of relying too heavily on negative, enforced consequences, and shares a more balanced and empowering approach.

In this podcast, you'll discover:

• The four types of consequences and how they impact your teen's behavior
• Why focusing solely on negative, enforced consequences can be counterproductive
• How to shift your focus to positive and natural consequences for better results
• Practical strategies for implementing The Consequence Quadrant in your parenting
• Ways to empower your teen to make better choices independently

Ben emphasizes that while you can't control your teen's actions, you can create an environment that encourages responsible decision-making. He shares relatable examples from his own experiences as a parent and from working with numerous families, offering insights into how small shifts in your approach can lead to significant improvements in your relationship with your teen.

Throughout the episodes, Ben provides actionable advice on how to have productive conversations about boundaries and consequences with your teenager. He encourages parents to involve their teens in the process, fostering mutual understanding and respect.

If you're a parent who feels overwhelmed by constant arguments, disrespect, or confusion about enforcing rules, this podcast will provide you with a fresh perspective and practical tools to improve your family dynamics. Tune in now and learn how to build better boundaries with better consequences, becoming the confident and effective parent you aspire to be.

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!

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Are you feeling like you're on the "struggle bus" with your teenager? You're not alone. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the single most significant factor causing friction between parents and teens worldwide.

Drawing from my experience coaching parents across five continents, I reveal why traditional parenting advice often misses the mark. You'll discover:

• Why focusing on changing your teen's behavior rarely works
• The surprising truth about screen time and video games
• How to shift your perspective from controlling your teen to empowering yourself
• The power of defining your parenting identity (and why it's not as simple as you might think)

We'll explore real-life examples, including a personal anecdote about milk cows and teenage responsibility. Plus, I'll introduce you to a game-changing concept that can transform your relationship with your teen almost overnight.

Whether you're a seasoned parent or new to the teenage years, this episode offers fresh insights and practical strategies. You'll walk away with a clear understanding of how to stop struggling and start connecting with your teen.

Don't miss the exciting announcement about our upcoming free parenting class! Tune in to learn how you can choose your own parenting adventure and take the first step towards becoming the parent of your dreams.

Remember, it's never too late to improve your relationship with your teen. Let's start this journey together!

Take the free Parent Trap quiz

If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .

It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.

This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.

TAKE THE QUIZ

Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!

🎧 LISTEN HERE!