Episodios

  • 179. Am I ‘too much’? - When to share your emotions vs when not to
    Mar 27 2026

    How often have you asked yourself: Am I too much?

    Is texting twice too much? Is initiating seeing them again too much?

    Do you often worry that being open and honest about your feelings means you’re ‘too much’?

    If so - this episode is for YOU!


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Find out about coaching with Rebecca - email: rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
    • Download the your free Self Esteem Building Kit - HERE


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    19 m
  • 178. Your brain is lying to you: How your mind determines your reality
    Mar 20 2026

    We’ve all been told a thousand times that our thoughts create our realities...

    But when life feels hard, our partners seem uncaring, or the world feels like a hopeless place… it can be an easy thing to forget.

    So in today’s episode - I want to help you understand exactly how your brain shapes and distorts your experience of reality...

    So that you can start to notice the impact of it in your own life, and start calling bullsh*t on the narratives that are keeping you stuck.

    Ready? Let’s dive in!


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • 1:1 coaching with Rebecca - get the details
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    14 m
  • 177. 5 uncomfortable truths about “one-sided” relationships
    Mar 13 2026

    Maybe it’s a friend you've known for years - and you feel like you’re the one always reaching out to check in or arrange plans.

    Or maybe it’s someone you’ve been on a few dates with and you feel like it’s always you confirming the next date night.

    Or perhaps it’s a family member who always calls you to vent about their problems, but the minute you need support and want to talk - they’re suddenly unavailable.

    Whatever the relationship - we have ALL experienced some form of one-sided relationship.

    So in today’s episode, I’m going to be outlining 5 uncomfortable truths about one-sided relationships that no one will be straight with you about...

    AND I’m going to help you manage your mind in whatever situation you’re facing, so you can approach the relationship as your most secure self.


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Secure Reframes Guide - FREE
    • Enquire about 1:1 coaching - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
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    27 m
  • 176. How to move forward after betrayal
    Mar 6 2026

    If you’ve ever experienced betrayal in a relationship - you’ll know first hand how painful it can be.

    And I’m dedicating today’s episode to talk about it. Covering things like:

    • Handling the shock of betrayal
    • Why the brain obsesses over needing to know every detail
    • The meaning we make about ourselves and the future
    • Should you stay or leave?
    • How trust is rebuilt (and why self-trust matters most)


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Processing Emotions Meditation
    • Enquire about 1:1 coaching - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
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    37 m
  • 175. Becoming the director of your mind: How to handle negative thoughts
    Feb 27 2026

    Think more positively.

    Your thoughts create your reality.

    Just don’t sweat the small stuff.


    All great advice - but hard to implement when you’re in the habit of feeling like a victim to your brain and the stories it tells you.

    So in today’s episode I’m going to help you shift from being in the passenger seat, to being back in the driver’s seat of your brain...

    So that you can create the kind of experience of your relationship and life that you truly want to have.


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Download my Secure Reframes Guide HERE
    • Enquire about 1:1 coaching spots for March



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    26 m
  • 174. Are we incompatible? Or is this just my anxious thoughts?
    Feb 20 2026

    Do you ever wonder if you and the person you’re dating are actually just incompatible?

    Maybe you know you have some mind drama and insecurities to clear up - but also question if… maybe I’m just with the wrong person?

    If so - this episode is for you!


    March 1:1 coaching spots

    Email me directly at rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com to get all the details and book a free 30 min consult!



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    24 m
  • 173. The fear of being cheated on
    Feb 13 2026

    Are you terrified of being cheated on? If so - today’s episode is for you.

    I’m talking all about the deeper beliefs fuelling the fear of being cheated on.

    Some will resonate with you, others won’t.

    But if the fear of being cheated on is something that keeps you up at night - this episode is going to help you truly understand why that is.

    And what needs to change to overcome it.


    Mentioned in this episode:

    • Get in touch about 1:1 coaching opportunities - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com



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    30 m
  • 172. How to actually feel more secure
    Jan 30 2026

    Most of us are familiar with what it’s like to feel insecure.

    And you may find yourself wishing or saying out loud that you want to work on feeling more secure.

    Most of us go about creating feelings of security all wrong - which is why it doesn't work.

    So in today's episode I'm talking about:

    • Where people go wrong when they try to feel more secure
    • What being more secure actually means
    • And the one thing to work on to build genuine feelings of security


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Secure Connections 101 - 12 week group coaching programme details
    • Sign up for Secure Connections 101 NOW
    • Email directly to ask questions or enquire about 1:1 coaching



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    21 m