Episodios

  • 175. Becoming the director of your mind: How to handle negative thoughts
    Feb 27 2026

    Think more positively.

    Your thoughts create your reality.

    Just don’t sweat the small stuff.


    All great advice - but hard to implement when you’re in the habit of feeling like a victim to your brain and the stories it tells you.

    So in today’s episode I’m going to help you shift from being in the passenger seat, to being back in the driver’s seat of your brain...

    So that you can create the kind of experience of your relationship and life that you truly want to have.


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Download my Secure Reframes Guide HERE
    • Enquire about 1:1 coaching spots for March



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    26 m
  • 174. Are we incompatible? Or is this just my anxious thoughts?
    Feb 20 2026

    Do you ever wonder if you and the person you’re dating are actually just incompatible?

    Maybe you know you have some mind drama and insecurities to clear up - but also question if… maybe I’m just with the wrong person?

    If so - this episode is for you!


    March 1:1 coaching spots

    Email me directly at rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com to get all the details and book a free 30 min consult!



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    24 m
  • 173. The fear of being cheated on
    Feb 13 2026

    Are you terrified of being cheated on? If so - today’s episode is for you.

    I’m talking all about the deeper beliefs fuelling the fear of being cheated on.

    Some will resonate with you, others won’t.

    But if the fear of being cheated on is something that keeps you up at night - this episode is going to help you truly understand why that is.

    And what needs to change to overcome it.


    Mentioned in this episode:

    • Get in touch about 1:1 coaching opportunities - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com



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    30 m
  • 172. How to actually feel more secure
    Jan 30 2026

    Most of us are familiar with what it’s like to feel insecure.

    And you may find yourself wishing or saying out loud that you want to work on feeling more secure.

    Most of us go about creating feelings of security all wrong - which is why it doesn't work.

    So in today's episode I'm talking about:

    • Where people go wrong when they try to feel more secure
    • What being more secure actually means
    • And the one thing to work on to build genuine feelings of security


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Secure Connections 101 - 12 week group coaching programme details
    • Sign up for Secure Connections 101 NOW
    • Email directly to ask questions or enquire about 1:1 coaching



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    21 m
  • 171. "Triggered by my partner watching porn" (Real-life coaching)
    Jan 23 2026

    I want to give you a little insight as to what coaching can look like for real life people - with real life relationship struggles.

    And so I’m using the example of a past client of mine who felt triggered when she found out her partner watches porn.

    Even if you can’t relate to that specific anxiety - I encourage you to listen anyway...

    Because you're going to learn how to:

    • Separate facts from stories
    • Clean up your own fears and insecurities
    • And show up to relationship triggers as your most secure, intentional self


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Sign up to my 12 week group coaching programme / Get more details

    Use discount code 'SC10' for 10% off before midnight GMT on Friday 23rd!

    • Find out more about 1:1 coaching - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com



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    29 m
  • 170. Are you stuck in the Validation Cycle?
    Jan 16 2026

    Do you find yourself becoming obsessed with people that are hot and cold towards you - while ignoring the people that are consistently available and there for you?

    Do you feel like your romantic relationship or even friendships are the focus of your entire world - and if there could be a problem in one of them - it’s like your entire world is crumbling and you can’t focus on anything else?

    Do you often feel jealous and on edge in relationships? Like your brain is just scanning for signs that you’re about to be rejected?

    If so - you’re likely stuck in the validation cycle - and I’m going to talk about why it’s happening and how to finally create a different experience of relationships.


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Overcome Your Fear of Rejection - Free masterclass
    • 12 week group coaching programme - DETAILS
    • Contact me directly about 1:1 coaching opportunities



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    28 m
  • 169. How to actually change your patterns in 2026
    Jan 9 2026

    When you feel anxious or insecure, do you jump straight to action?

    Perhaps re-reading your messages? Checking when they were last online? Or messaging your group chat?

    Do you keep repeating the same anxious patterns over and over - and do you keep vowing to yourself you’re going to stop but - never the less, the patterns keep repeating?

    If so - you’re likely missing a vital skill. I’m going to teach you all about it in this episode.


    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Enquire about 1:1 coaching - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
    • Questioning Your Thoughts Cheat Sheet
    • Sign up for my Overcome Your Fear of Rejection masterclass



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    20 m
  • 168. Signs of self abandonment in relationships
    Jan 2 2026

    Do other people’s happiness tend to get put before your own?

    Does the thought of being alone terrify you? And do you feel like you cling to relationships with others in an attempt to feel safe?

    If so - you might be stuck in the habit of self abandonment.

    Let’s talk about it!


    Email directly about 1:1 coaching - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com

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    19 m