• 17. RESERVATIONS ABOUT DATING
    Nov 23 2022

    Season 1: Episode 17. Reservations About Dating  

    Traci Whitaker asks the questions along with co-host, George Donikian.

    So, Gary, are there reservations when you go on a first date? Apparently, a few.

    On this episode of Men Talking Frankly, Traci & George talk with Gary who joins them to discuss what he’s wary about when it comes to dating. What do we look out for? Everyone suffers from nerves on a first date, but let’s be authentic.

    Then they explore some of the new vernacular – well new to some of us more seasoned punters:

             Ghosting – is that really new, or is it social media’s attempt to rebrand what we use to say, …” They’re just not into you!” Hear what Gary has to say about this.  

    Then on a more serious note, even though we tend to focus our discussions at the more light-hearted end of the spectrum, on occasion we veer into more serious territory, such as …. ‘Angel Shots’ and what’s it all about. 

    Join Traci & George for our final episode for Season 1. A light-hearted & some not-so-light-hearted conversation with Gary, about first dates and what to be mindful of.

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    18 mins
  • 16. WHAT CONCERNS YOU ABOUT ONLINE DATING
    Nov 16 2022

    Season 1: Episode 16. What Concerns You About Online Dating?

    Traci Whitaker asks the questions along with co-host, George Donikian.

    Good, bad, safe, a sea of bad photos - where do we start. 

    Whilst we have only dedicated one episode to online dating thus far, I am sure we will revisit this again down track. 

    However, on this episode Traci & George chat with their guest Gary, about his experiences with online dating and what more would we like to know about someone, other than just a photo which likely leads to random Likes and Dislikes? 

    Gary finds some of the brief and on occasion, blunt comments devoid of effort, such as: “Don’t just ask me what my weekend was like. It was good thanks.” Or, “What’s your favourite movie?” … very ho-hum. So, stop with the cliches – of course we all like good food and sex!  

    Can you assess values or personality, when do you actually get face-to-face, how much time do you waste?

    So, if you choose not to go online, where do you meet a potential partner. In the meantime, stop scrolling through those endless images and join Traci & George as they have a lighthearted conversation about online dating – warts and all.

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    13 mins
  • 15. MEN'S CONFIDENCE POST DIVORCE
    Nov 9 2022

    Season 1: Episode 15. Men’s Confidence Post Divorce  

    Traci Whitaker asks the questions along with co-host, George Donikian.

    Dr Anthony joins us again on Men Talking Frankly to discuss how he coped after divorce. 

    Divorce and the separation that follows are always stressful. What is important though, is what we learn. Does it get easier as you get older? Do we develop coping mechanisms post-relationship, or as the doctor suggested, immerse ourselves in our work …..which may be a distraction rather than a coping mechanism.

    We ask, what do you wish you had been told about the opposite sex when you were younger. With the benefit of hindsight, Anthony tells us not to look for perfection.

    Join Traci & George, along with Anthony for another candid discussion. 

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    19 mins
  • 14. WHAT IS YOUR CONCEPT OF LOVE
    Nov 2 2022

    Season 1: Episode 14. What is Your Concept of Love? 

    Traci Whitaker asks the questions along with co-host, George Donikian.

    How much of our waking hours do we spend thinking about our love interest? Is it really 85% and if so, how much time does that leave to do anything else!

    On this episode of Men Talking Frankly, Traci & George talk with Gary about the concept of love and he candidly talks about his first time he fell in love. We also explore what butterflies mean to a guy. Whilst some may define a racing heartbeat as a symptom of falling in love, Gary has a more pragmatic view.

    Then in a world of swipe left or swipe right, you might just be surprised as to what our guest has to say about one-night stands. Romance is not dead. There are still gentlemen and true romantics out there. There may even be Twin Flames, albeit I am guessing there may be a few sceptics on this podcast.

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    17 mins
  • 13. COHABITATING WITH YOUR EX
    Oct 26 2022

    Season 1: Episode 13. Cohabitating With Your Ex  

    Traci Whitaker asks the questions along with co-host, George Donikian.

    At times we all crave our own personal space, but cohabitating with your ex!

    On this episode of Men Talking Frankly, Traci & George talk with Richard about his experience cohabitating with his ex-wife. In short, he wouldn’t suggest it. In fact, Richard says the Antarctic was warmer than his household whilst cohabitating!  

    Not surprisingly, complications arose….however in the interest of all parties, he had to suck it up. Pretty sure they all did.

    The conversation opens up to explore sleepovers, ambiguous loss and how to handle sexual urges in the middle of the night! Well maybe not in Richard’s case.

    Join us on Men Talking Frankly, when Richard does exactly that.

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    13 mins
  • 12. IS THE CONCEPT OF 'PROVIDER' STILL RELEVANT
    Oct 19 2022

    Season 1: Episode 12. Is The Concept of ‘Provider’ Still Relevant?

    Traci Whitaker asks the questions along with co-host, George Donikian.

    This week Traci & George chat to Simon, the ‘hunter/gatherer’…about the term provider. He brings a unique perspective! He believes the definition of provider has become too narrow and today it means so much more.

    Women are still asking themselves, “Can we have it all?”, but what about men…. can men have it all? And as we get older, do we really think about our partners providing for us? 

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    10 mins
  • 11. CHANGING BEHAVIOUR
    Oct 12 2022

    Season 1: Episode 11. Changing Behaviour  

    Traci Whitaker asks the questions along with co-host, George Donikian.

    This week on Men Talking Frankly, Traci & George chat to Anthony, who is a renowned medical professional.  That said, we have changed his name because he is a Doctor.

    We discuss whether or not we can change our behaviour and Anthony says, “Yes, we can.” Just as he has learnt to do with each new relationship… and by his own admission, he has had a few.

    We do have to compromise to make our relationships work and even set goals to change our behaviour. What can we do better to improve our relationships?

    Join Traci & George in conversation with Anthony to find out, as he shares his professional opinion, along with a personal perspective.

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    11 mins
  • 10. COURTING. LET'S TALK ABOUT THIS
    Sep 28 2022

    Season 1: Episode 10. Courting. Let’s Talk About This  

     Traci Whitaker asks the questions along with co-host, George Donikian.

    Courting… remember that wonderful time in the early stages of a relationship when a special someone is trying their hardest to sweep you off your feet.

    This week on Men Talking Frankly, Traci & George talk with Gary, a true romantic Italian who reminds us of courting etiquette. It’s not always smooth sailing though, as Gary tells the story about his failed attempt to ‘woo’ a woman… when his romantic gestures came perilously close to being misconstrued as stalking!... “Mi dispiace, signorina!”

    We are also reminded of the pent-up sexual energy after enduring lockdowns, as well as learning a new term – ‘fencing’ - and that doesn’t mean as a combat sport! 

    Another topic on the table this week is – ‘checklists. Do they exist and if so, is the criteria impossible to live up to, as well as ‘red flags’ – those early warning signals that in hindsight may have saved both time and heartache.

    Join Traci & George, as they are entertained and courted by possibly our most romantic guest thus far. Sono innamorato.

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    17 mins