Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas for managing money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Carl Richards for the first of a two-part series. Carl is a Certified Financial Planner™ and bestselling author known for turning complex money ideas into simple, powerful insights. He created The Sketch Guy column for The New York Times, where for a decade he used nothing but cardstock and a Sharpie to help readers rethink their relationship with money.

Carl built and sold a successful investment firm and has spoken at financial events around the world. His books, including The Behavior Gap, The One-Page Financial Plan, and his latest, Your Money: Reimagining Wealth in 101 Simple Sketches, have reached a global audience and been translated into multiple languages. Through Behavior Gap Radio and his newest project 50 Fires, he continues to explore how money intersects with meaning, relationships, and a well-lived life. Enjoy the show!

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction
03:18 You’ve said this book is “not advice, it’s an invitation to conversation.” Why do you think conversations about money matter more than instructions?
07:14 What do most people still get wrong about financial planning today?
13:38 In your experience, what’s the most common emotional pattern that causes money fights in relationships, and how can couples shift from “you’re wrong” to “we just see money differently”?
25:39 Conclusion of Part 1

Purchase Carl's book on Amazon, or folks can head to their favorite local bookstore: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Money-Reimagining-Wealth-Sketches/dp/1804091715

Listeners can save an additional 5% with code YourMoney5 at checkout. https://bulkbooks.com/products/your-money-reimagining-wealth-in-simple-sketches

Follow Carl on social media:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/thinkingcarl/
https://x.com/behaviorgap
https://www.instagram.com/behaviorgap

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as a Certified Financial Therapist, Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.

For today’s episode we welcome Andy Murphy, the founder of The Secure Dad®, a family safety resource he launched in 2016 to help parents feel more confident protecting the people they love. Through practical, accessible guidance on home security, situational awareness, emergency preparedness, and online safety, Murphy has expanded The Secure Dad from a personal blog into an award-winning podcast, books, and other family safety resources.

Andy shares insights on how AI has transformed scams, making them more sophisticated and organized, and offers practical advice on how to recognize and protect against these threats, especially for older adults and families.

Enjoy the show.

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction
2:38 You told me something before we recorded that I think is really important: “Scamming is an unfair fight.” What do you mean by that?
4:03 So what are a few scam spotting schemes / red flags?
5:57 When someone falls for a scam, we often hear, “How could they possibly have believed that?” What are scammers doing psychologically that can cause otherwise intelligent, financially responsible people to make a decision they normally wouldn’t make?
8:12 Take us inside a scam. What are the most common red flags that should make someone stop and think, “Something isn’t right here”?
10:43 A lot of people listening to this podcast aren't just protecting themselves and their kids anymore—they're also beginning to worry about aging parents. Why can protecting our parents from scams be so difficult?
16:32 Suppose my mom or dad calls me tomorrow and says, “I think I may have just been scammed.” What's the first thing I should say—and what are the first things we should do?
19:40 If every family listening adopted just one new habit this week that would significantly reduce their chances of becoming a scam victim, what would you want that habit to be?
21:27 Where can our listeners learn more about you and your work?

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

This is part two of a real world facilitation of the Fair Play system. In our first episode, we learned about Brian and Lucy McAffee’s home dynamics. You likely found that, when it came to the division of labor and obstacles couples face, that some of their challenges are challenges you face in your family. We then discussed the guiding principles of the Fair Play system and started working through it.

This is part two of the two part series.

Today’s episode, from start to finish, is a real world facilitation of the Fair Play system.

Lucy McAfee is the host of The ManFlu podcast and founder of Boys Who Care. Her husband, Brian McAfee, is a professional sports gambler. They live in Lake Tahoe with their two sons. You can find more from Lucy and The ManFlu podcast on Instagram @lucypmcafee.

As a reminder from our first episode, we left off at the point where Lucy had selected five Fair Play cards, household tasks if you will, based on the following criteria:

• They were low stakes tasks, allowing Lucy to be more comfortable handing them off.
• They were tasks she did not enjoy.
• They were regular tasks, not one-offs like cleaning the gutters.

Brian is now beginning to select the three tasks he will own from Lucy’s selections.

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