Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Ann Silvers, a mental health counselor and author. On today’s episode we discuss the lessons learned from one of her books, Abuse OF Men BY Women: It Happens, It Hurts, and It's Time to Get Real About It.

Enjoy the show.

Questions Answered

00:00 Introduction

00:40 Usually when we are talking about partner abuse we think of men abusing women. What made you write about partner abuse when men are the target instead of the source?

05:18 It’s surprising that a woman is writing about the abuse of men. How frequently does it occur?

10:38 How do you define partner abuse? And what kind of abuse are you talking about?

13:07 What kind of reaction do you get when you talk about women abusing men?

15:08 You talk about forms of partner abuse I had never really thought of before.

a. Can you give us some examples of financial abuse?

b. What do you mean by legal abuse?

c. You mentioned spiritual abuse. What is that?

24:55: Why do people use any power they have to abuse their spouses?

30:51: How do men get pulled into these types of relationships?

36:04 What is one piece of simple actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?

Additional Resources and Information

Contact: Ann Silvers, M.A. 253-853-7049, Ann@annsilvers.com, http://www.annsilvers.com

Abuse OF Men BY Women: It Happens, It Hurts, and It's Time to Get Real About It: Abuse OF men BY women: It happens, it hurts, and it's time to get real about it: Ann Silvers M.A.: 9780983433873: Amazon.com: Books

How Many Men are Abused by Women? – Ann Silvers, MA

How Women Financially Abuse Men – Ann Silvers, MA

How Women Legally Abuse Men – Ann Silvers, MA

What is Spiritual Abuse in Marriage and Relationships? – Ann Silvers, MA

8 Red Flags the Pregnancy is a Trap – Ann Silvers, MA

Baby Traps: Fake Positive Pregnancy and Paternity DNA Tests – Ann Silvers, MA

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Dr. Brenda Volling who is a developmental psychologist and award-winning educator and researcher at the University of Michigan.

Her research focuses on early social and emotional development with infants, toddlers, and preschoolers, parent-child interaction, and family relationships. Dr. Volling works primarily with young fathers during the perinatal period and the transition to fatherhood and studies men’s mental health, father-child relationships, and co-parenting. Her research has been showcased on CBS Sunday Morning, the BBC, the Washington Post, the New York Times, and Parents magazine.

On today’s episode we discuss the essential role fathers play in the early years of a child’s development. Enjoy the show.

Questions Answered

00:00 Introduction
01:15 From a 20,000 foot view, can you share a bit about your research on the role of fathers for infant development?
13:56 What steps should fathers take to prepare for their first born?
25:13 What outcomes have you found with fathers who form a strong bond with their children as infants?
32:43: What can fathers do as caregivers that is most meaningful for their child's development?
40:14: Where can folks turn to learn more about you and your work?
41:25 What advice do you have for our listeners that is simple and actionable?

The Volling Lab: https://sites.lsa.umich.edu/volling-lab/our-team/

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Dr. Jason Frishman who has been working for 25 years to support individuals, groups, families, organizations and businesses. He believes that our lives are adventurous, and we can and should be an active, engaged author of our own adventure stories!

Dr. Frishman is a practicing licensed therapist. He is a Psychologist and Doctorate with specific training in Collaborative, Narrative, and Adventure therapies. He is the Founder of JourneyMen, which inspires committed, well-balanced men to successfully journey through life with responsibility, meaning and intention.

For today’s episode we will discuss the common mental struggles men face and strategies to overcome them.

Enjoy the show.

Questions Answered

00:00 Introduction
01:05 As the founder of Journeymen, what inspired you to focus on addressing the mental health challenges specific to men?
04:37 Can you share some insights into the common mental struggles that men often face in today's society?
10:00 In your experience, what are some of the key reasons men may hesitate to seek help for their mental health, and how can this barrier be overcome?
26:55 Can you discuss the importance of fostering emotional intelligence in men and how it contributes to their overall mental well-being?
30:05 What are the coping mechanisms that men employ, and are there healthier alternatives that you recommend?
33:59 What role do relationships and social connections play in supporting men's mental health, and how can individuals cultivate these supportive networks?
40:16 Are there specific mindfulness or self-care practices that you recommend for men to incorporate into their daily lives to promote mental well-being?
50:00 Where can our listeners learn more about you and your work?

www.JourneyMenFoundation.com

Top 10 Fastest Ways DADS can CONNECT with Their Kids https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfmq-j2esfmrp_NlvrP0Tn40hKbfLrbtUL0TXWGsx4kizSqUQ/viewform

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

For more than two decades, master money coach Mikelann Valterra, MA, AFC®, has helped folks transform their relationship with money. A highly respected expert in financial psychology, she is the author of Rise Above the Money Fog and has been quoted in national publications, including Forbes, USA Today, and Business Insider.

Mikelann is an Accredited Financial Counselor (AFC®) and holds a master’s in psychology and consciousness studies.

On today’s episode, we will discuss the money fog, and what it means to you and your partner.

Enjoy the show.

Questions Answered

0:00:00 Introduction
0:01:15 Where does your passion for financial psychology come from?
0:07:12 What has been the biggest change in financial psychology over the past 25 years?
10:18 What is a money fog?
12:26 Can you explain your acronym, FOG?
13:47 What are some of the hidden impacts of the money fog?
16:41 What is the origin of the money fog?
22:22 What is your favorite story of someone who rose above the money fog?
24:48 Where can listeners go to learn more about you?
25:33 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?

Resources

Seattlemoneycoach.com

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Adrienne Hines, Ohio's renowned bankruptcy expert with nearly three decades of experience. Adrienne has redefined bankruptcy, transforming it from a daunting concept into a tool for financial wellness and dignity. She's more than a lawyer; she's an ally who combines sharp legal expertise with deep empathy, guiding those in financial distress towards stability.

Adrienne uses TikTok to challenge bankruptcy myths and promote financial literacy. Her innovative approach earned her the 2023 Best Bankruptcy Advice Award at the FinTok Awards by Debt.com.

In today’s episode we'll talk about all things bankruptcy in marriage, ranging from how to prevent it, when it is appropriate, and many things in between. Enjoy the show.

Questions Answered

0:00:00 Introduction
0:01:05 How does bankruptcy work and what are the differences between Chapters 7 and 13 bankruptcy?
0:04:48 How long does bankruptcy take?
0:07:53 Do you lose your retirement in any type of bankruptcy?
0:12:51 What are some common questions or concerns your social media followers and clients have regarding bankruptcy and marriage? How do you address these concerns?
0:14:46 Can your spouse file bankruptcy without it including your own personal assets? If so, can you explain how this works?
0:20:36 What are the common origins of bankruptcy?
0:24:28 Is it possible for your spouse to file bankruptcy without including the personal assets accumulated in marriage?
0:26:12 Fast Facts Game

• Can bankruptcy stop a foreclosure?
• Can bankruptcy stop eviction?
• Can bankruptcy stop wage garnishment?
• Is the following possible in the bankruptcy process?
  • Filing bankruptcy without losing house
  • Filing bankruptcy with a student loan
  • Filing bankruptcy to stop foreclosure
  • Filing bankruptcy to keep your car
  • Filing bankruptcy to eliminate credit card debt
  • Filing bankruptcy to eliminate student loans
  • Filing bankruptcy to eliminate medical debt
  • Filing bankruptcy to eliminate private student loans
  • Filing bankruptcy to eliminate your car loan

0:30:05 What is one simple lesson you want listeners to walk away with this episode?
0:32:30 Where can people go to follow you?

Follow @theladylikelawyer on all platforms https://www.theladylikelawyer.com/

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Sean Mullaney who is the President of Mullaney Financial & Tax, Inc. Through Mullaney Financial & Tax, Sean provides advice-only financial planning for a flat fee. Sean writes the Plutus Award winning blog FITaxGuy.com on the intersection of tax and financial independence and has been quoted in media outlets including The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and MarketWatch.

Today we will discuss how spouses can use retirement savings to reduce their taxes. Enjoy the show!

Note: The discussion is intended to be for general educational purposes and is not tax, legal, or investment advice for any individual. Brian, Dr. Bruce, and the Modern Husbands podcast do not endorse Sean Mullaney, Mullaney Financial & Tax, Inc. and their services.

Questions Answered

0:00:00 Introduction
0:01:00 How does a traditional 401k reduce an investors tax burden when investing?
0:05:48 What is the difference between a traditional IRA or 401k and an IRA? And what are the differences between a Roth 401k, Roth IRA, and Spousal IRA? What is a spousal IRA?
0:14:04 What are some of the misconceptions around some investing option terms?
0:16:32 Why would someone choose to invest in some sort of IRA rather than a traditional tax shelter where the investor receives a tax deduction when they contribute?
0:23:23 How can it help parents who don't work outside of the home?
0:26:04 Should people contribute to traditional retirement accounts or Roth retirement accounts?
0:28:57 One simple piece of advice based on the conversation
0:30:12 Where listeners can learn more from Sean about tax tips.

Additional Resources

Sean Mullaney YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SeanMullaneyVideos
Spousal Roth IRA: https://www.modernhusbands.com/post/the-spousal-ira
Sean Mullaney on X: https://twitter.com/SeanMoneyandTax

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Dr. David Smith who teaches at the Johns Hopkins Carey Business School.

A former Navy pilot, Dr. Smith led diverse organizations of women and men culminating in command of a squadron in combat and flew more than 3,000 hours over 30 years including combat missions in Iraq and Afghanistan.

As a sociologist trained in military sociology and social psychology, he focuses his research in gender, work, and family issues including bias in performance evaluations, retention of women, dual career families, military families, and women in the military.

Dr. Smith is the co-author of Good Guys: How Men Can Be Better Allies for Women in the Workplace.

On today’s episode, we discuss how husbands can be better allies for their wives who work outside the home

Enjoy the show.

Questions answered during the show

0:00:00 Introduction
0:01:11 Some listeners might not be convinced that women face gender specific obstacles at work. How can you convince those listeners otherwise?
0:06:16 Beyond doing the right thing for their wives, how would husbands and families benefit from women receiving support from home and in the workplace to thrive in their careers?
0:12:28 Let’s assume you want to do more than help your wife, but you want to help all women in the workplace. Could you name two or three key things excellent male leaders, allies, and mentors for women actually do?
0:17:50 A lot of men are concerned about the inequities their wives face in the workplace and are committed to fixing systems that hold back women they care about. What can be done from home by supportive husbands?
0:23:54 Where can listeners learn more about you and where can they purchase your latest book?
0:24:36 What is one simple and actionable piece of advice that you would like to share with our listeners based on today’s discussion?

Resources

Workplace Allies https://www.workplaceallies.com/
Professional Background: Dr. David Smith https://carey.jhu.edu/faculty/david-smith-phd
Good Guys: How Men Can Be Better Allies for Women in the Workplace
https://www.amazon.com/Good-Guys-Better-Allies-Workplace/dp/1633698726

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Kathy Stokes, a nationally recognized leader in the consumer fraud arena. As Director of Fraud Prevention Programs with AARP, Kathy leads AARP’s social mission work to educate older adults on the risks that fraud represents to their financial security. Since 2019, she and her team have vastly expanded AARP’s leadership in this space, including the creation of a new victim support program, a multi-year campaign to end the use of gift cards in fraud, and the formation of a national effort to fundamentally transform how our country addresses consumer fraud. Kathy currently serves on the advisory council to the Board of the International Association of Financial Crimes Investigators and on the advisory council to the Senior Issues and Diminished Capacity Committee of the North American Securities Administrators Association.

For today’s topic, we will discuss modern fraud prevention strategies that are practical and can help keep your family safe.

Enjoy the show.

Show Notes

0:00:00 Introduction
0:01:30 How can husbands and fathers effectively communicate with their families about the risks of consumer fraud without causing unnecessary fear?
0:07:13 What are the common tactics fraudsters use that families should be aware of to protect themselves?
0:19:07 Are there specific financial security measures that folks should prioritize to safeguard their families from potential fraud?
0:22:45 How can families navigate the balance between convenience and security in their online financial transactions and interactions?
0:28:47 What resources or tools do you recommend for those who want to stay proactive in protecting their own parents who are likely elderly from the ever-evolving landscape of consumer fraud?
0:32:18 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want our listeners to walk away knowing from today’s episode?

Resources

AARP Fraud Watch Network
AARP Fraud Watch NetworkTM is a free resource for all. With AARP as your partner, you’ll learn how to proactively spot scams, get guidance from our fraud specialists if you’ve been targeted, and feel more secure knowing that we advocate at the federal, state, and local levels to protect consumers and enforce the law.
https://www.aarp.org/money/scams-fraud/about-fraud-watch-network/

AARP Fraud helpline: 877-908-3360

AARP: Get Tips to Avoid Scams & Fraud
Get tips to spot and avoid scams like identity theft, investment fraud and holiday scams, as well as ongoing updates from resources like Watchdog Alerts and a scam-tracking map that provides real-time alerts from law enforcement in your state.
https://www.aarp.org/membership/benefits/finance/fraud-watch-network/

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