• Are some people pivoting back into the closet?
    Jun 19 2024

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    I know. Weird idea. But sadly, I am hearing many people say these or similiar words to me in private messages or emails. Why? Well that's what I want to talk about a little bit today. I am gonna speak from the heart on this one and I risk upsetting some people. I hope not but I feel like I must stand up for those who feel unheard and unappreciated within the LGBT community. So with that said...here we go...

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    11 mins
  • Reminding You and Me about the everyday "I am."
    Jun 12 2024

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    I think my birthday reminded me of this mistake I was making in my speech, both in person, as well as social media. I noticed that I was saying, "I am old," a lot. Well, today I want to share a thought or two on this habit that most of us fall into and why it matters.

    Grab that beverage, have a seat at my table, and let's talk on today's episode of the "Pivot to Prosper" podcast.

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    14 mins
  • The Power of "WAS" when we have to Pivot
    Jun 5 2024

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    On today's podcast episode, I want to share with you a 3-Step or process of "reframing" our past when it comes to our current pivot. Please understand that these are fairly high altitude steps but they are helpful to think about. What's more, I do offer you three practical things to do to help you in this midst of your pivot struggle. I hope you will find this episode helpful.

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    20 mins
  • Let's talk a little about "worst case scenario" when life happens.
    May 29 2024

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    I know that it is easy for us to look at others and think their life is perfect and they never struggle with difficult or negative thoughts. Their online appearance looks like rainbows and unicorns. But let's be honest here. Most people have those times in life when our minds go to the 'worst case scenario." So I say, let's don't beat ourselves up when we do. That just pushes us into more distress and heartache. Instead, I suggest that we recognize it, feel it, and then strategize it as part of our bigger pivot plan work. What's more, we should obviously remind ourselves that these worse case things rarely happen. But yes, they could. So, let's have a plan in case. So in today's episode, I want to share with you a little story of when I faced this very thing around my health. But you know me, I ain't gonna leave you there. I am also going to suggest some practical things we can do in the midst of these worries. Sound good? If so, let's get into it on this episode of the "Pivot to Prosper" podcast.

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    20 mins
  • Why a new name and a lesson on How to Shed the Judgement
    May 22 2024

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    I know! New name, new look, and new title. In this episode I will try my best to share why the changes to this podcast and even my business. I promise you that a lot of thought and prayer went in to it. If you are a loyal listener, I hope you will stick with me on this new pivot.

    But there is also a tangible lesson in this episode so be sure to stick around for that.

    You ready? Grab that beverage, have a seat at my table, and let's have a chat on this episode of Pivot to Prosper.

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    17 mins
  • Why do SOME Bisexuals cheat within a relationship?
    May 8 2024

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    I want to first be clear when I say that most bisexuals don't. Truthfully, bisexuals are not destined to cheat any more than any other gender. Studies, as well as my own long career, tell us that this is true. But, like any other gender within a relationship, "cheating" can occur. So I thought we would talk a little about why that might happen withing this relationship. I actually had some5ne reach out to me recently who was struggling with this and wanted me to do a podcast on it, so here is my attempt.

    Although reasons are many, in this episode I will share 5 reasons why bisexuals told me they cheated, expanding on number 5 just a bit. In addition, I will offer you 4 things I would suggest could help you save your relationship and even your own mental health. I add the latter because I know that many who stray live with guilt and shame because of it.

    So grab a beverage and let's talk on this episode of "The Bi Guy Podcast."

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    24 mins
  • A Chat with Tim, the "Grumpy Old Gay Rant" Guy from TikTok
    May 1 2024

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    I want to apologize for the sound issues. Unfortunately, I could not fix it in editing. It was a recording issue. I hope you can hear it well enough to get the meat of the chat.

    Although I have a business account on TikTok and do post there consistently, I don't spend a huge amount of time watching videos. Of course, there are times when I watch some. It was on one such occasion that I came across a gay guy on my FYP. His hook at the top grabbed me when it said, "Grumpy Old Gay Rant." Well, I'm bi and not gay, but I certainly connect with the "old" part. So, I watched the video. Truthfully, I appreciated what he had to say, and perhaps even more, I appreciated the way he said it. His video, and others that I then took the time to watch, were filled with sarcastic humor. I was hooked.

    I then decided I must invite him to be a guest on the podcast and Tim agreed. So on today's episode you will hear a casual chat between Tim and I regarding all things LGBT. Remember that these are all our opinions but we do encourage you to listen with an open mind and heart.

    Grab that beverage and join us now for a Grumpy Old Chat.

    To find Tim on TIKTOK, @the_reasons_i_drink

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    50 mins
  • Just being honest when I say, "This kinda ticks me off."
    Apr 24 2024

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    If you have been a listener to the podcast, you know that I am a man with a big heart. So, when I keep having to sweep up certain damage that is caused to people who I work with, I feel I need to at least speak on it.

    So...today...I am doing that. Please remember that it is coming from love.


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    13 mins