• I'm a Sociopath with Autism | Anti-social personality disorder (ASPD) and autism - Episode 33
    Jul 16 2024

    In this episode, psychologist Dr. Becky Spelman sits down with Cassy, who courageously shares her life story and struggles as a psychopath living with autism. Cassy opens up about the unique challenges she faces due to her dual diagnoses, offering an intimate look at her daily life and the impact of her conditions on her relationships and personal growth.

    Cassy's story explains the often misunderstood world of psychopathy and autism, challenging common prejudices and misconceptions. She discusses how these conditions intersect and the strategies she has developed to navigate the complexities of her mental health. Through her openness, Cassy provides a nuanced perspective on the realities of living with multiple mental health conditions.

    Throughout the interview, Cassy reflects on her personal journey, emphasising the importance of self-awareness, acceptance, and the support systems that have been crucial in her life.

    Her insights offer a deeper understanding of the intricacies of mental health and provide hope and inspiration to others facing similar challenges.

    This episode not only elevates the experiences of those living with psychopathy and autism but also serves as an inspiring testament to the power of empathy, resilience, and the human capacity for change. Tune in to hear Cassy's story and gain a new perspective on mental health and resilience.

    Dr. Becky Spelman is a top Psychologist in London, Becky is the Clinic Director for Private Therapy Clinic which has clinic's based all around central London including; Harley Street, Wigmore Street, Bank, Earls Court & Canary Wharf. Becky uses Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Mindfulness to treat a range of difficulties with a particular interest in Borderline Personality Disorder and the difficulties that go with this condition such as relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, social anxiety, fear of public speaking, fear of intimacy, interpersonal difficulties, anger, body image issues, eating disorders and addictions.

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  • I am a narcissist with BPD | Psychologist interviews a Narcissist with Borderline Personality - Episode 32
    Jul 3 2024

    In this video psychologist Dr. Becky Spelman interviews Kylee Rackham who is a diagnosed Narcissist who also has Borderline Personality Disorder, Kylee unveils their personal healing journey from the effects of medical trauma during their childhood years, which led to profound trust issues and the development of their personality disorders. With openness and insight, Kylee discusses the overlapping symptoms of BPD and NPD, along with her transformative experience with therapy.

    In this compelling episode, we challenge the prejudices and misconceptions about personality disorders, especially in the context of romantic relationships. Kylee offers a unique perspective on the obstacles and triumphs of dating with a personality disorder, debunking the myth that people with these conditions cannot change or establish stable relationships,
    Reflecting on their personal growth, the importance of self-awareness, and the delicate decision of disclosing one's diagnosis, Kylee provides invaluable insights for anyone aiming to understand the complexities of mental health. Immerse yourself in an episode that not only elevates the experiences of those living with personality disorders but also serves as an inspiring testament to the power of empathy and the human capacity for change.

    🕒 Timestamps:
    (00:00) - Navigating Trauma and Personality Disorders
    (11:57) - Misconceptions About Dating Sociopaths
    (20:29) - Navigating Narcissism and Trauma Recovery
    (30:38) - Challenges of Relationships and Friendships
    (34:09) - Navigating Relationships With Personality Disorders
    (45:14) - Content Distribution and Appreciation

    This episode is a valuable resource for those seeking to deepen their understanding of BPD and NPD, as well as for individuals on their own recovery journey. Whether you're personally impacted by these disorders, a supporter, therapist, or just a curious listener, this podcast offers compassionate insights and guidance for fostering stronger relationships and promoting personal growth.

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  • How I Escaped From the Scientology Cult | Psychologist Interviews a Scientology Escapee - Episode 31
    Jun 10 2024

    In this video, Claire Headley shares her harrowing journey from being born into Scientology to ultimately escaping its grasp. Claire unveils her personal experiences of growing up in the Church, shedding light on the profound impact Scientology had on her life, relationships, and mental well-being. With courage and honesty, Claire discusses the challenges she faced within the organization and the transformative process of breaking free.

    In this compelling episode, we challenge the misconceptions and prejudices about those who leave high-control groups, particularly focusing on the resilience and strength required to rebuild one's life after such an experience. Claire offers a unique perspective on the psychological and emotional obstacles she overcame, debunking myths about the impossibility of recovery and establishing a new life post-Scientology.

    Reflecting on her personal growth, the importance of self-awareness, and the intricate process of healing, Claire provides invaluable insights for anyone aiming to understand the complexities of escaping a high-control group. Immerse yourself in an episode that not only elevates the experiences of former Scientologists but also serves as an inspiring testament to the power of human resilience and the capacity for change.

    This episode is a valuable resource for those seeking to deepen their understanding of the impact of Scientology, as well as for individuals on their own recovery journey from high-control groups. Whether you're personally impacted by such experiences, a supporter, therapist, or just a curious listener, this podcast offers compassionate insights and guidance for fostering stronger relationships and promoting personal growth.

    Claire's socials: @claireheadley

    Dr. Becky Spelman is a top Psychologist in London, Becky is the Clinic Director for Private Therapy Clinic which has clinic's based all around central London including; Harley Street, Wigmore Street, Bank, Earls Court & Canary Wharf. Becky uses Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Mindfulness to treat a range of difficulties with a particular interest in Borderline Personality Disorder and the difficulties that go with this condition such as relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, social anxiety, fear of public speaking, fear of intimacy, interpersonal difficulties, anger, body image issues, eating disorders and addictions.

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  • Male Pattern Baldness Anxiety | My Hair Loss And Regrowth Story - Episode 30
    May 31 2024

    In Today's Podcast Dr. Becky Spelman talks to Ben Hayes who talks about male pattern baldness anxiety. Ben explains when he was as young as 12 years old he worried about hair loss. Ben goes onto explain at the age of around 16 Ben became fixated on the idea of hair loss and constantly worried he would loose his hair at a young age.

    Ben explains he would perform a lot of checking behaviours and around the age of 21 he would notice other men's hair lines or baldness and he describes that it became an obsession. Ben decided to visit a dermatologist and was prescribed minoxidil to use topically on his crown and his temples.

    Ben's Instagram:
    @benrhayes
    https://www.instagram.com/benrhayes/?igshid=1ta9jgj1qkh76

    Dr. Becky Spelman is a top Psychologist in London, Becky is the Clinic Director for Private Therapy Clinic which has clinic's based all around central London including; Harley Street, Wigmore Street, Bank, Earls Court & Canary Wharf. Becky uses Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Mindfulness to treat a range of difficulties with a particular interest in Borderline Personality Disorder and the difficulties that go with this condition such as relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, social anxiety, fear of public speaking, fear of intimacy, interpersonal difficulties, anger, body image issues, eating disorders and addictions.

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    For further help with this topic you can contact us here:
    info@theprivatetherapyclinic.co.uk/

    BUSINESS INQUIRIES becky@privatetherapyclinic.com

    WEBSITE: https://theprivatetherapyclinic.co.uk/
    INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyspelman/
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    FACEBOOK https://www.facebook.com/BeckySpelman/
    LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccaspelman/

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  • The Truth About Multi-Level Marketing (MLM) Pyramid Schemes | Psychology Behind Network Marketing - Episode 29
    May 30 2024

    In Today’s podcast Dr. Becky speaks with Josie Naikoi known on YouTube as ‘Not the Good Girl’. Josie talks about her experience working for three different multi-level marketing companies, Josie reached the top 1% during her time working for these companies, which meant she was one of the few people who were making a profit.

    At Josie’s highest point of success, she made $106,000 a year, however, she had not been advised correctly on how to pay the correct taxes which lead her into a battle with the IRS. Josie also explains that as well as this stressful situation involving the taxes she also realised she was working all the time and was not allowed to take any time off, this lead Josie to realise she would never have a healthy working life whilst continuing to work for multi-level marketing companies.

    When Josie left Multi-Level Marketing, she realised that the business of multi-level marketing is a ‘commercial cult’ where there is an unhealthy level of negativity within these organisations. Josie also discusses that she was never allowed to voice her opinions as these would go against the beliefs of the companies. Josie highlights the similarities between Multi-Level Marketing and cults and also discusses how these companies brainwash individuals and how it is actually very hard for these people to actually earn a living through Multi-Level Marketing.

    It was a difficult decision for Josie to leave this industry due to the high level of income she was earning, however, she was able to recognise that she was unhappy in this business. When Josie finally managed to break away from multi-level marketing she was then blocked and unfriended by many of her previous colleagues within multi-level marketing. Josie now speaks out against Multi- level marketing to help raise awareness of the realities of this industry and to help others also break free from network marketing.

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  • I am a narcissist with BPD | Psychologist interviews a Narcissist with Borderline Personality - Episode 28
    May 29 2024

    Psychologist Dr. Becky Spelman interviews Kylee Rackham who is a diagnosed Narcissist who also has Borderline Personality Disorder, Kylee unveils their personal healing journey from the effects of medical trauma during their childhood years, which led to profound trust issues and the development of their personality disorders. With openness and insight, Kylee discusses the overlapping symptoms of BPD and NPD, along with her transformative experience with therapy.

    In this compelling episode, we challenge the prejudices and misconceptions about personality disorders, especially in the context of romantic relationships. Kylee offers a unique perspective on the obstacles and triumphs of dating with a personality disorder, debunking the myth that people with these conditions cannot change or establish stable relationships,
    Reflecting on their personal growth, the importance of self-awareness, and the delicate decision of disclosing one's diagnosis, Kylee provides invaluable insights for anyone aiming to understand the complexities of mental health. Immerse yourself in an episode that not only elevates the experiences of those living with personality disorders but also serves as an inspiring testament to the power of empathy and the human capacity for change.

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    47 m
  • Living with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) | High Functioning Autism - Episode 27
    Mar 4 2021

    In Todays video Dr. Becky speaks with Alix Generous who speaks about her diagnosis with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). Alix discusses how she experienced abuse during her childhood and how she was also bullied at school.

    Alix was 12 years old when she was diagnosed with Autism. Alix explains in detail her sensory overload struggles which could lead to a strong negative reaction, but explains she has become more tolerant to it as she has got older. Alix also discusses her previous experience with therapy and how she found this difficult as she began to feel vulnerable again. Alix also talks about meeting her husband and forming social and romantic relationships with a diagnosis of Autism.

    Alix has become a voice online for mental health awareness and Autism. Alix held a TedX talk where she discussed openly about her Autism diagnosis and she credits her unique mind with her success in dealing with the complex issues.

    Link to Alix's TedX talk: https://youtu.be/tzQDewp48MU​
    Alix's Website: https://www.alixgenerous.com/home/​
    Alix's Instagram: @generousalix
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  • How egg freezing effected my mental health - Dr. Becky Spelman documentary - Episode 26
    Dec 15 2020

    #Fertility #EggFreezing #MentalHealth
    In this documentary podcast Dr. Becky Spelman documents her egg freezing process at Gennet City Fertility clinic. Becky discussed the process of the egg freezing process and is seen visiting various practitioners from the clinic. She provides valuable insight into the emotions she experiences through the treatment as she starts to take the hormonal injections. The egg freezing process is not completely a smooth process for Becky and she shared some mistakes she makes along the way and offers some tips and advice to others considering having the treatment.

    This documentary was a collaboration with Gennet City Fertility clinic who sponsored Dr. Becky’s treatment.

    You can find out more about the fertility clinic here:
    https://www.city-fertility.comDr. Becky Spelman is a top Psychologist in London, Becky is the Clinic Director for Private Therapy Clinic which has clinic's based all around central London including; Harley Street, Wigmore Street, Bank, Earls Court & Canary Wharf. Becky uses Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Mindfulness to treat a range of difficulties with a particular interest in Borderline Personality Disorder and the difficulties that go with this condition such as relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, social anxiety, fear of public speaking, fear of intimacy, interpersonal difficulties, anger, body image issues, eating disorders and addictions.

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    29 m