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Refs Need Love Too

By: David Gerson
  • Summary

  • An honest perspective from the 3rd team on the pitch... the referees. Through humor, analysis and education, we are slowly changing how people view referees and officials in all sports. We care and have a love for the game as much as any player or coach. Sometimes even more. Youth soccer (proper football) is a multi-billion $ industry in the US. Tremendous money is spent on players, competitions, travel etc., but almost nothing spent on developing the next generation of referees. I hope that this Podcast inspires, educates and humanizes the next generation of referees for their own development and appreciation from the players, coaches and spectators they need to work alongside.

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Episodes
  • COPA America Pain, Beautiful EUROS and Book Reviews
    Jul 4 2024

    Ever wondered why refereeing styles differ so dramatically between South American football and European football? Join me, David Gerson, as I share my experiences from attending Copa America matches in Atlanta and contrast them with the officiating observed at the Euros. We'll discuss the critical role of referees, the electrifying yet challenging atmospheres, and how key decisions, particularly those involving red cards, can dramatically alter match outcomes. Along the way, I'll emphasize the indispensable need for players, fans, and coaches to adapt to these diverse refereeing styles and respect the game’s officials.

    Unlock the secrets to effective referee communication and game management, drawing from Mark Klatenberg's insights and "The Social Ref" by a recreational league referee. Discover how clear communication, confident body language, and a dose of humility can transform a match. We’ll explore practical tips on maintaining focus and effectiveness on the pitch, the art of selective listening, and the necessity of understanding various perspectives. Whether you're an aspiring referee or simply a football enthusiast, these nuggets of wisdom will deepen your appreciation for the craft of officiating.

    Step into the shoes of a professional referee with an exploration of Mark Klatz's tumultuous career in the Premier League. From enduring immense scrutiny and pressure to facing personal sacrifices and double standards, we'll discuss the real-life challenges referees encounter at the highest levels. Hear about a heated match incident involving coach dismissal and referee abuse, and understand the critical importance of reporting such behavior. Finally, I'll share my thoughts on supporting referees and fostering a culture of appreciation for their vital role in the game. Tune in for a comprehensive and heartfelt look at the highs and lows of being a soccer referee.

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    42 mins
  • High Stakes and High Spirits: The Thrills of NYC Soccer Officiating and Other Ref Adventures
    Jun 22 2024

    What happens when a seasoned referee takes on the concrete pitches of New York City for the first time? Buckle up as I share my thrilling refereeing adventures, starting with a heartwarming reunion with high school friends and a deep dive into the world of New York soccer. Navigating the ins and outs of officiating in NYC, I provide valuable tips for referees looking to expand their horizons, from coordinating with the Eastern New York Referee Association to managing the logistics of an interstate trip. My experience offers a roadmap for seizing new opportunities and overcoming the jitters that come with officiating in unfamiliar territory.

    Meet Jenna and Adham, two extraordinary young referees who left a lasting impression with their ambition and professionalism. In this episode, I recount our collaborative efforts at Randall's Island, a venue where respect and sportsmanship shone brighter than the city's skyline. Amidst the unique quirks of refereeing in New York—unmarked corners and the preference for cash payments—we forged a camaraderie that transcended the pitch. Plus, a delightful interaction with Jenna's family adds a personal touch to an already enriching experience, highlighting the human connections that make refereeing so rewarding.

    But the adventure doesn't stop there. Picture this: a serendipitous high school reunion amidst 1100 peers, an impromptu subway detour, and the electric atmosphere of the Copa America opening match. Sporting our referee kits, we mingled with fans, caught the eye of international media, and even snagged a spot on the jumbotron—all while witnessing Messi's magic up close. This whirlwind day, filled with unexpected connections and unforgettable moments, encapsulates the exhilarating highs that come with the referee's journey. Tune in for a tale of passion, perseverance, and the beautiful game that brings us all together.

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    42 mins
  • The Journey of a Young Female Soccer Referee with guests Scott and Katie Millsap
    Jun 15 2024
    Can a 16-year-old girl command respect on the soccer field as a referee? Today, we’re thrilled to welcome Katie and Scott Millsap from the YouTube channel "Reffing with the Sappers" to share their incredible journey into officiating. Scott started refereeing to bond with his son, while Katie, initially motivated by potential earnings, discovered a passion for the sport she’s never played. Listen as they recount the joys and challenges they've faced, from dealing with difficult coaches and parents to the unique family bonding experiences that refereeing has provided.

    Katie's experiences as a young referee shine a light on the hurdles young officials face. Despite concerns about her safety and treatment on the field, Katie has developed strategies to command respect and manage difficult situations. Hear how she handles public dissent, sets boundaries with coaches, and maintains her composure under pressure. Scott shares his insights on what it takes to succeed as a referee, emphasizing politeness, resilience, and the maturity that Katie has gained through her experiences.

    We also delve into the broader impact of refereeing, from game analysis and continuous learning to the importance of mentorship and positive behavior in youth sports. Scott and Katie discuss the critical role of constructive criticism and the negative impact of poor coaching. Katie’s aspirations to reach national levels as a young female referee highlight the importance of resilience and mentorship in officiating. Join us as we celebrate the Millsap family's contributions to the sport and discover how you can support and connect with their initiatives to improve the refereeing community.

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    46 mins

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