Would you describe yourself as a glass-half-full or half-empty type of person? Would you say you feel more optimistic or pessimistic most of the time? On today's show, Del and Barry discuss the impact of whether we are an optimist or a pessimist and its effects on our relationships. The phrase "glass half full or half empty" reflects how people perceive situations: optimists see the glass as half full, focusing on what's available, while pessimists see it as half empty, dwelling on what's lacking. It symbolizes the broader attitude towards life—whether one emphasizes possibilities or limitations, positivity or negativity, hope or despair.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Are you a perfectionist? Do you have unrealistci expections for yourself and others? This week, Del and Barry share how the perfection trap is the relentless pursuit of flawlessness, leading to constant dissatisfaction and self-criticism. It creates unrealistic expectations, stifles creativity, and fosters fear of failure. Striving for perfection often results in stress, burnout, and procrastination, as nothing feels good enough. Escaping this trap involves embracing imperfection, focusing on progress over perfection, and valuing effort over unattainable ideals.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Do you live by a rule book of made-up Shoulds? And do you expect others to live by the same shoulds? Shoulds can be harmful because they impose unrealistic expectations, leading to guilt, stress, and self-criticism when we fall short. They often stem from societal pressures or comparisons, stifling our authenticity and creativity. By focusing on "shoulds," we may ignore our true desires and needs, hindering personal growth and happiness. Letting go of "shoulds" allows for greater freedom and acceptance of ourselves and others.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.