• Living in a city, a curse, or a blessing?
    Jun 29 2025
    Many people like to live anonymous in the city.
    I was growing up in a big family (my mother got 5 kids (2x twins) within 3 years) in a small suburb…
    The people rejected us because of being Atheists… and watched us, bullied us, abused us…
    The solution was to escape in a town where nobody knows you….
    Is the solution to live anonymous really what we want?
    Is it not better to live in a suburb, even people think and feel different?

    What is if you feel lonely in a city?
    It is up to you what you make out of your situation.
    You can also feel to be alone in a relationship, family, or in the crowd.
    But somehow you are not alone in a city, even you are alone!
    So you can choose to go out easily and to sit in a bar….You have many options that you don’t have in a village.
    You can choose to go to a variety of …
    Seminars.Clubs. Hobbies.Participate in many activities.Meet very different people.In the night you can go to discotheques, music concerts, bars…
    Still, life in a city is anonymous.
    You want freedom.
    You want to change your perspective, your life…
    So the trip to change is to be first anonymous.
    You want to try out new things and without that stupid gossip that you do hate…
    After some time you want some familiar places where you meet the same people.
    And you don’t want all the time something new…
    And then you are in a place as before.
    Again the people define you and your freedom is over until you leave that group…
    You have to start to be anonymous again…
    That is the problem with our life. The people put you in a basket and hinder you from trying out something new.
    It is just to be like a crab in a basket with many other crabs… The other crabs will hinder you from going out of the basket … so that you get eaten …
    And that is the chance to live anonymous to be free….
    To live anonymous because you don’t like people or you are depressed will not bear any positive fruit.

    My Video: Living in a city, a curse, or a blessing? https://youtu.be/qf3dqLYWXeQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Living-in-a-city-a-curse-or-a-blessing.mp3
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  • Does Chasing Dreams Make You Happy?
    Jun 28 2025


    A dream is just a dream, nothing more than a dream…
    If you realize a dream, will you be happier?
    Will this accomplishment matter on your deathbed?
    My answer is NO.
    Fifty years ago, the authorized representative of my father’s firm, Mr. Pfeiffer, wanted a Mercedes 600.

    My father said, “I don’t care; you can get the car you want.”
    My father didn’t care about cars and even drove our junk cars.
    After Mr. Pfeiffer got this fancy car, he said, “After six weeks, the car will be dematerialized…”

    He meant that our minds will no longer feel excited, joyful, or attached to any object we possess after some time, no matter what it is.
    Because I won’t care anymore about driving the Mercedes 600, and then I can happily drive my wife’s VW Golf.
    My father had already dematerialized luxury; he was one step ahead.
    Both of these individuals were materialistic…
    For them, it was more important to chase their dreams than to derive anything from them.
    The realization of dreams was not important; what mattered was moving forward, enjoying the journey, and learning the lessons.
    That is the wisdom of materialistic people…And that is the wisdom of spiritual and religious people…
    I hope this will also become your wisdom.
    Only now can you be happy!Only now can you love!Only now can you enjoy!
    You can never postpone your happiness, love, or joy.

    Enjoy your journey!
    If you feel like you’re not enough, consider therapy, as I did, instead of chasing dreams.
    Look inside and discover your purpose in life instead of setting goals that have nothing to do with your purpose.

    A purpose will give your life meaning and fulfillment.
    Ask yourself:What is my purpose in life?Why am I here?

    Your purpose will change over time!
    For instance, you might not have had a girlfriend, but later you start a family with kids…

    For sure, your purpose will change.So you have to ask these questions again and again.

    My Video: Does Chasing Dreams Make You Happy? https://youtu.be/-wsS5rlp3qsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Does-Chasing-Dreams-Make-You-Happy.mp3
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  • Why are going men to sex workers?
    Jun 27 2025
    Every woman like to know!
    There is a TED talk about that…
    If you think that sex is the most important thing to go to a sex worker you are dam wrong!
    The boys are growing up in the belief:
    Boys should not cry.Boys should be independent.Boys should not be weak, should be strong always.Boys should be over cool and not showing feelings…
    A man who can’t cry use bullets!A man who cannot share intimacy is always lonely.A man who can’t speak openly over his feelings in situations is a candidate for suicide… (males make 4 times more suicide than females)A man who has no compassion becomes a drug-addicted or a violent person!
    Still, many parents have not found out that boys have feelings and problems like girl …
    A girl gets 4 times more hugs than a boy!!!! Why?And today we have so much violence because of the parents, who have not given enough love to their sons.All we need is love this also includes males!!!!
    For what are then sex workers?
    Average sex intercourse needs 5 minutes… Why are men booking hours if they can afford that, to be together with a sex worker?
    A man wants to show how he is, and this is for many men only possible through sex. And if they have slept with a woman, the ice is broken, and they can share their feelings.
    The opposite is valid for a woman, she wants first the intimacy to have sex with a man.
    The men are going to a sex worker:
    To share their feelings.To speak about their problems.To get intimacy.To build up a rapport.To feel worthy.To connect with a human being.To be as they are without hiding… without to be somebody…To get accepted and not rejected.Fear of rejection. Relationship problems.No Sex or too less sex with their spouse.To have easy sex.
    And women think if a male is shy or afraid of rejection, this guy is not worthy! So what, women have the same problem to connect with an unknown person like most of the males. Still, they think that shy men are not worthy, even they are not better… That is good for the sex workers!
    The females are missing out for the best spouses,… I know so many good guys that can’t find a girlfriend because of their wrong or missing seduction techniques… And the same is true for women… Should we wait for the next 1000 years until the females can go for the best spouse instead to wait and nothing is happening?

    My Video: Why are going men to sex workers? https://youtu.be/J5DmblWSe5YMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-are-going-men-to-sex-workers.mp3
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  • New Sleep in method with Taping
    Jun 26 2025
    ntroduced as a TED talk from a professional drummer.
    Today the sleep deprivation becomes a worldwide epidemic, and it looks so that the smartphone is one cause of it!
    In the USA we have:
    1.) 35% of adults are sleep deprived.2.) 85% of teenagers are chronicle sleep deprived.
    Why do we need to sleep sound and long enough?
    Sleep deprivation causes:
    1.) Heart attack.2.) Stroke.3.) Put up weight.4.) Premature death.5.) Stress and stress-related diseases.
    The problem why we can’t sleep in is that we can’t stop our thinking.
    90% of our thinking is caused by fear… Because our mind wants to protect us and looks for danger, worries, problems,… Even, we usually don’t face any life threats the mind is taking our problems too seriously!
    How to get our mind to stop thinking when we want to sleep?
    The brain loves pattern, and if the brain discovers one, it follows that pattern.
    Like to nick with your head in rhythmic of the music.
    When the brain follows this rhythmic, then we slow down the rhythmic to slow down the mind…
    And this exercise also works for meditation when we are aggregated …
    This procedure needs 3 to 5 minutes and has 3 phases.
    I will introduce here two variations. One without counting, one with counting.

    Method A without counting:
    1.) For at least 30 seconds bring down your hand to your lap and tap your tights with alternating left and right-hand strokes with the tempo of 60 to 90 beats/minute. Try your best to beat your unique tempo evenly!
    2.) With the taping, you breathe slowly deeply in and out. 90seconds to 180seconds.
    3.) You decrease slowly the taping rhythmic to the half-speed, while you breathe deep in and out. 60 to 90 seconds.
    Method B with counting
    1.) For at least 30 seconds bring down your hand to your lap and tap your tights with alternating left and right-hand strokes with the tempo of 60 to 90 beats/minute. Try your best to beat your unique tempo evenly! You count loud or remote with every beat 1, 2, 3, 4 and start again with 1, 2, 3, 4 like you have learned in making music. Or you can use 4 different syllables like Tick, tack, tock, tuck…for counting or a sacred mantra,…
    2.) With the taping, you breathe slowly deep in and out. You use the counting from 1 to 4 for breathing in, and you count from 1 to 4 for breathing out. 90seconds to 180seconds.
    3.) You decrease slowly the taping rhythmic to the half-speed, while you breathe deeply in and out. 60 to 90 seconds.

    My Video: New Sleep in method with Taping https://youtu.be/vHbUCRWcQBQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/New-Sleep-in-method-with-Taping.mp3

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  • Episode 1 inspirational
    Jun 25 2025
    What is missing?
    Inspirational Stories that give you power and faith to go through your crises.
    When we use our crises to connect with God, we will win in any case…
    Every crisis is the best chance to develop faith in God so that we gain peace in our mind.
    Hardships are really serving us … Find any hero or a great person who became not stronger and better through hardships…
    One of these days…It was November, raining, cold and dark in Bremen/North-Germany… During my work, I got a telephone call from my lawyer… You have lost your lawsuit against your landlord, you have to leave your apartment this month… And I thought I never can lose this lawsuit because I had 11 whiteness … The reason was simple, corruption… Injustice as usual …
    After the work, I was desperate; I rode my bike back home during the rain. I had to cross a junction, pushed the button of the traffic light; waiting for the green signal… And then I intended to cross the road with the green light, but I could stop… The cars ignored the traffic light, and the cute girl behind me tried to cross the junction with her bike …
    She flew 5 meters through the air, and the car could stop in the right moment so that she got not under the wheel…
    I ran immediately to the girl, pulled her from beneath the car to the pedestrian. Gave her my coat and tried everything to relive her… I could feel her pulse and looked that I calmed her down, and I was as lovely as I could be…
    In the meantime, the police were coming, and the emergency car came and took her to the hospital…
    The Police interrogated me… After an hour, pitch wet, I arrived at the home and was crying like crazy… I thanked God that I was not hurt in the accident.
    During that month, I also lost my job… and became bankrupt through the lost lawsuit. I found temporary shelter at my friends and then I moved 8 times in 2 years from one apartment to the next.
    What happens with the girl? I don’t know… The police could not reach me because I was not registered for 2 years…
    Everything looked terrible,
    So, I could not find a new job, became unemployed, and I used this time to meditate every day 10 hours….
    Actually, God gave me time to rest and to meditate, and the government had to pay for it… That was very good…




    My Video: Episode 1 inspirational https://youtu.be/kRPZjrrFx24My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Episode-1-inspirational.mp3
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  • When Is a Man a Man?
    Jun 24 2025

    It’s so crazy to be a man.I just listened to that famous old German hip-hop song: “Männer” by Herbert Grönemeyer…And it’s so true…This song is an eye-opener and will change your perspective on male ego trips.
    Men take you in their armsMen give securityMen cry in secretMen need a lot of tendernessOh, men are so vulnerableMen are just irreplaceable in this world
    [Verse 2]Men buy womenMen are constantly under powerMen flirt like crazyMen lie on the phoneOh, men are always readyMen captivate with their money and their nonchalance
    [Chorus]Men have a hard live, but take it easyHard on the outside and soft on the insideAlready trained for men as a childWhen is a man a man?When is a man a man?When is a man a man?
    [Verse 3]Men have musclesMen are terribly strongMen can do everythingMen get a heart attackOh, men are lonely fightersHave to go through every wall, have to go on and on
    When is a man a man?When is a man a man?When is a man a man?
    [Verse 4]Men fight warsMen are already drunk when they are yet babiesMen smoke a pipeMen are terribly cleverMen build rocketsMen do everything very, very precisely
    When is a man a man?When is a man a man?
    [Verse 4]Men get no childrenMen get thin hairMen are human beings tooMen are a bit strangeOh, men are so vulnerableMen are just irreplaceable in this world

    My Video: When Is a Man a Man? https://youtu.be/2OQGJebpMggMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/When-Is-a-Man-a-Man.mp3
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  • How to understand Religion?
    Jun 23 2025
    I came across with people who reject Religion or Religious scriptures that they never have understood!
    It needs no intelligence to reject something. A wise person finds wisdom everywhere and in every scripture! By Sri Aurobindo
    If you want to understand any Religious Scriptures, you have to read them with an open mind without any prejudices… The Bible has so many metaphors that we can’t understand in the first place… Read slowly and again and again … People who are looking for faults will never gain anything… Srimad Bhagavatam: Faultfinder are the worst! We are focused on learning something, and if we have found wisdom, we stop reading and try to integrate this wisdom in our life!

    Every Religious scripture is:
    1.) not perfect, 2.) not totally correct,3.) and changed over centuries (even true for the Quran… there exist 3 versions).
    SO WHAT, WE CAN TAKE OUT THE THINGS THAT ARE NOT SO CORRECT! And practice the rest WITHOUT harming anybody!
    A big part of the Western Spiritual Scene rejects Psychology and the Christianity… If we don’t understand our own psychology, we can’t really understand any Religious scriptures!
    Because Psychology shows us:
    1.) Where are we wrong? 2.) What do we wrong?3.) Why do we it wrong!4.) Why do we fail?5.) Why can’t we understand the religious scriptures?6.) Why do we need to live our sexuality?7.) Why is the bad consciousness the worst?8.) Why should we enjoy our life instead to blame others for our suffering?…
    Christianity, Hindu, and Islam teach us why we should connect with God?
    The Buddhism, Hindu, and Tao teach us how we can enjoy our life more with their wisdom and spiritual techniques, like Meditation, Qigong, Yoga…
    All Religions exploit the people with their goals/“spiritual suffering” :
    1.) Paradise/Heaven2.) Hell/Karma3.) Moksha4.) Nirvana5.) Enlightenment
    And all of these Religious goals/”spiritual suffering” never have existed… The strategy is and was selling dreams and delivering B. S. . And today the Internet business use the same strategy to avoid suffering (Hell/Karma) and to find the solution (Paradise). …
    If we avoid the traps (mention above) of the Religions and practice the Religions, we will have a positive outcome in any case.
    God exists, and the greatest thing is to surrender to God!If we can’t relax and want bliss/inner peace… we should also meditate.If we want health and bliss, we should practice Qigong or Yoga…
    And most of all people are just discussing and comparing Religious wisdom instead to practice Religion!
    You can’t get anything done if you don’t do it… Discussion about Religion leads to nothing and is just a waste of time!!!!Do it!
    My Video: How to understand Religion? https://youtu.be/CCJqCTwxXz4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-understand-Religion.mp3
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