Say it Sister...

By: Lucy Barkas & Karen Heras Kelly
  • Summary

  • Lucy and Karen, two 40-somethings, are always chatting about life, and all that it has to throw at them, and now want to share their raw, honest conversations with you. Their journey of self-discovery and healing is something many of us can relate to. We all possess a unique power within us, but life’s trials often knock us off course. They have the tools, the courage to speak up and simply say it as it is, so you might feel seen, and understood and gain practical tools and techniques for self-discovery and personal growth during the changes we experience.

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Episodes
  • Balancing Professional Success with Personal Struggles
    Sep 27 2024

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    Is patriarchy still holding you back in your career?
    Have you ever wondered how women manage to shatter the glass ceiling in male-dominated industries? Join us on this episode of the Say it Sister podcast as Lucy shares the gritty details of her career in the energy sector, highlighting the obstacles women frequently encounter. Meanwhile, Karen provides a fascinating contrast with her experiences in PR and communications, where the leadership landscape remains male-heavy despite the majority of the workforce being female. Together, we dive into how our role models have shaped our journeys and the ongoing struggle to preserve our identities, including the personal decisions around changing or keeping our names after marriage.

    We don't stop there. We explore the often ignored yet critical challenges women face both at work and in their personal lives—divorce, miscarriages, heavy periods, domestic abuse, menopause, and perimenopause. Through heartfelt stories, we underline the urgency of acknowledging these issues and fostering supportive environments. We also emphasize the transformative power of heart-centered workplace relationships, where intuition, empathy, and genuine human connection take precedence. Tune in as we advocate for a shift from traditional, rigid business interactions to a more compassionate and effective work culture.

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    36 mins
  • Navigating Patriarchy's Past and Building a Balanced Future
    Sep 20 2024

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    Have you ever wondered how ancient societies viewed gender roles and how those perceptions have evolved into today's patriarchal norms? Join us, Lucy and Karen, as we embark on a historical journey to uncover the origins of patriarchy and its sweeping influence on society. We'll walk you through early human settlements where gender balance was the norm and trace the seismic shift to male-dominated systems around 2000 years ago. Delving into crucial events like the witch trials of the 15th to 17th centuries, we reveal how these dark chapters have left a lasting mark on our modern world.

    How do patriarchal structures continue to shape our lives, and what strides have we made to counteract them? We'll dissect the ongoing challenges women face, from gender bias in schools to the necessity of adopting masculine traits to gain authority. Celebrating significant victories in women's rights, we also cast a critical eye on the areas where progress is still needed, such as pay equality and reproductive rights. Our conversation doesn't just stop at history; we confront contemporary issues head-on, urging the importance of ongoing dialogue and activism.

    Breaking free from patriarchal constraints isn't easy, but it's a journey worth taking. Listen as we challenge harmful stereotypes, share personal stories of defying societal expectations, and offer actionable steps to reclaim your wild and creative self. Whether it's embracing the joy of hobbies, finding strength in community support, or reflecting on our own behaviors, we aim to inspire you to take small, meaningful steps towards a more balanced and collaborative world. Tune in and join us in this transformative conversation, and remember, sometimes the kitchen is for dancing!

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    41 mins
  • Creating Safe Spaces: Empowerment Through Self-Discovery and Nature
    Sep 11 2024

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    What if feeling safe could open up a world of relief and readiness for life? In this transformative episode of the Say it Sister podcast, Karen and Lucy take you on an enlightening journey into the profound concept of safety. We kick things off by discussing how identifying, feeling, and building a sense of safety can profoundly impact our lives. Karen offers her invaluable wisdom on recognizing when we don’t feel safe and the crucial importance of taking action. Meanwhile, Lucy shares a heartfelt and eye-opening personal experience from a pro-peace rally, highlighting the significance of acknowledging our nervousness and always having a backup plan. We emphasize the power of trusting our instincts and sharpening our "antennae" to navigate life's various situations, ultimately helping women reclaim their power and create safe spaces where they can truly thrive.
    If you need support or are ready to open up about your experiences, please connect on the Say it Sister private Facebook Group or can also contact:

    - A doctor or practice nurse at your GP surgery

    - A voluntary organisation, such as Rape Crisis, Women's Aid, Victim Support, The Survivors Trust or Male Survivors Partnership

    - The 24-hour freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline, run by Refuge, on 0808 2000 247


    As conversation deepens as we explore connecting with our ancestors and embracing holistic practices to heal generational wounds and bolster self-reliance. Through engaging in nature-based activities like hiking, wild camping, and foraging, we discover a renewed sense of safety and trust in our abilities. We also delve into the liberating aspects of aging, focusing on self-acceptance and feeling safe and authentic in our own bodies. We wrap up with a heartfelt discussion about finding safety in nature and the importance of listening to our bodies. Join us, as we encourage you to use your voice, be it through journaling, speaking, or singing, and find your own grounding rituals. This episode is a call to reconnect with nature and ourselves, creating a foundation of safety and empowerment in our lives.

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    28 mins

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