What is the true cost of letting fear dictate your life?

In this compelling episode of "The Art of Winning," Ashton navigates the pervasive impact of fear on our lives and how it often prevents us from achieving our true potential. Through personal anecdotes and powerful quotes from Stoic philosophers, Ashton challenges listeners to reevaluate their relationship with fear, urging them to prioritize their goals and take consistent action towards their dreams. The episode is a motivating call to understand and overcome fear, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and successful life.

[00:01 - 03:28] Understanding Fear: A Mental Construct

• Fear is an excuse we give ourselves for not pursuing our dreams
• Understanding fear rather than fighting it is the key to freedom
• People often fear failure, which prevents them from even trying

[03:29 - 06:20] Overcoming the Fear of Failure

• Personal stories of initial failures and eventual successes
• Embracing failure as a necessary step towards success
• The importance of prioritizing what truly matters to overcome fear

[06:21 - 09:21] Fear in High-Stakes Situations

• A story from a mission in Afghanistan illustrating fear and priority
• The difference between those who face fear and those who succumb to it
• Prioritizing the safety and mission over personal fear

[09:22 - 12:25] The Fear of Not Living Up to Potential

• The greatest fear should be not living up to one's potential
• Taking consistent action is key to overcoming fear
• The importance of clarity and commitment in achieving goals

[12:26 - 14:43] The Power of Persistence

• Success is inevitable with persistent action and learning
• Reframing fear and focusing on priorities
• The motivational power of Stoic philosophy quotes

Connect with Ashton!

Website: Valkere Investment Group

LinkedIn: Valkere Investment Group

Want to learn more about creating multiple streams of income, wealth protection, financial freedom, or real estate investing? Join our investor club, check out our blog, get our free ebook on investing, or join us for our monthly Real Estate Investing Made Simple virtual meetup. Take the first to your wins in life and head on to http://www.valkeregroup.com.

Key Quotes:

"Fear is a construct of the mind. It's simply the excuse we give ourselves for not achieving our dreams." - Ashton Levarek

"Overcoming fear is not about being brave; it's about prioritizing what is important." - Ashton Levarek

"You cannot win if you do not try, and you can never fail if you do not quit." - Ashton Levarek

How does embracing traditional masculine and feminine roles contribute to a thriving family dynamic in today's world?

In this episode, Ashton delves into the concept of true masculinity and its crucial role in fostering a balanced and thriving family life. He challenges modern perceptions of gender roles and emphasizes the importance of men stepping into their roles as providers and protectors. Through personal anecdotes and insights from the book "The Way of the Superior Man," Ashton illustrates how embracing traditional masculine and feminine roles can lead to a harmonious and prosperous family environment. He also shares his journey from military life to achieving financial freedom, underscoring the transformative power of being present for one's family.

[00:01 - 04:21] The True Masculine

• True masculinity involves being a provider and protector
• Masculine energy creates a safe space for family growth
• Rejecting the notion of toxic masculinity

[04:22 - 08:50] The Balance of Roles in Marriage

• Providing and protecting allow women to embody their full feminine energy
• Role balance leads to better parenting and relationship harmony
• The significance of emotional support and presence

[08:51 - 12:26] Overcoming Marital Challenges

• Communication and understanding are vital in resolving conflicts
• Emotional sharing strengthens both partners
• The impact of military life on family roles

[12:27 - 16:11] Pursuing Financial Freedom

• Financial freedom allows for greater family presence
• Both parents being home fosters better child development
• The role of financial stability in personal and family growth

[16:12 - 19:05] Resources and Final Thoughts

• The importance of financial education and planning
• Support for veterans transitioning to civilian life
• Encouragement to pursue financial freedom for family well-being

Connect with Ashton!

Website: Valkere Investment Group

LinkedIn: Valkere Investment Group

Want to learn more about creating multiple streams of income, wealth protection, financial freedom, or real estate investing? Join our investor club, check out our blog, get our free ebook on investing, or join us for our monthly Real Estate Investing Made Simple virtual meetup. Take the first to your wins in life and head on to http://www.valkeregroup.com.

Key Quotes:

"The more comfortable I am as the protector and provider, the more I protect and provide for my family." - Ashton Levarek

"When I am the strong man, I provide and protect. I pave the way for my family." - Ashton Levarek

How do military experiences shape the resilience and entrepreneurial mindset of veterans, and what can we learn from their unique journeys?

Today, Ashton explores the inspiring story of Kevin Laliberte, an Air Force veteran turned successful entrepreneur. Kevin shares his journey from the battlefield to business, discussing how his military experiences have shaped his approach to entrepreneurship. He talks about his various ventures, including Surf Brigade, a nonprofit providing surf therapy to veterans, and MavDoc, a company helping patients navigate the healthcare system. Kevin also delves into the importance of having a strong narrative, purpose, and community in life, and how these elements are crucial for veterans transitioning to civilian life.

[00:01 - 16:08] Introduction to Kevin Laliberte

• Importance of understanding one's narrative and projecting the right image
• Kevin's journey from New Jersey to the Air Force
• The impact of 9/11 on Kevin's career path

[16:09 - 32:11] Military Career and Transition

• The significance of being a Tactical Air Control Party (TACP) member
• Lessons learned from the battlefield applied to business
• The challenge of transitioning from military to civilian life

[32:12 - 48:28] Entrepreneurial Journey

• Leveraging military skills in entrepreneurship
• The importance of a strong narrative in business
• Balancing multiple ventures and maintaining focus

[48:29 - 01:04:05] Surf Brigade: Purpose and Community

• The therapeutic benefits of surfing for veterans
• Addressing narrative, purpose, and community in the program
• The role of surf therapy in veterans' mental health

[01:04:06 - 01:23:29] MavDoc and Healthcare Navigation

• Helping patients navigate the complex healthcare system
• The importance of having medical experts guide patient care
• Special focus on supporting veterans with their medical needs

Connect with Kevin!

Website: https://www.mavdoc.com/kevinlaliberte

LinkedIn: Kevin Laliberte

LinkedIn: Surf Brigade

Connect with Ashton!

Website: Valkere Investment Group

LinkedIn: Valkere Investment Group

Want to learn more about creating multiple streams of income, wealth protection, financial freedom, or real estate investing? Join our investor club, check out our blog, get our free ebook on investing, or join us for our monthly Real Estate Investing Made Simple virtual meetup. Take the first to your wins in life and head on to http://www.valkeregroup.com.

Key Quotes:

"Whatever you're trying to win at, you have to know what victory looks like." - Kevin Laliberte

"You need to understand what you're projecting to others and make sure that what you're projecting is the way you actually want people to perceive you." – Kevin Laliberte