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The Cool Grandpa Podcast

The Cool Grandpa Podcast

By: Greg Payne
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This podcast is about the influence that Cool Grandpa's can have on their grandchildren and families. This podcast contains great stories about the influence that grandpas have had on their grandchildren. We also interview grandpas to learn how they are developing and maintaining powerful connections with their grandchildren.Copyright 2020 Relationships Social Sciences
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  • The Grandpa Effect: Belief, Confidence & Legacy EP -252

    The Grandpa Effect: Belief, Confidence & Legacy EP -252
    Feb 6 2026
    What do your grandchildren believe about themselves because of you? In this solo episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I draw on the timeless wisdom from Chapter One of The Magic of Thinking Big and apply it to one of the most underestimated leadership roles in a child's life: the role of a grandfather. David Schwartz opens his book with a bold claim—success begins with belief. Not intelligence. Not talent. Belief. And when you view that idea through the lens of grandfatherhood, it raises an important question: What beliefs are our grandchildren borrowing from us—intentionally or unintentionally? Using relatable stories (including toddlers, cookies, and baby gates), classroom experience, and real-life grandparent moments, I explore how belief is formed long before evidence appears—and why grandparents are often the safest, most influential voices in shaping a child's self-image. In this episode, you'll explore: Why belief often comes before evidence for children—and why that matters How grandchildren absorb more than our words: tone, reactions, expectations The difference between praising outcomes and speaking identity Why modeling confidence matters more than modeling perfection How negative self-talk ("I'm terrible at this") quietly sets limits for kids Why asking better questions builds independence better than quick fixes What it really means to raise their thinking, not your voice This episode isn't about being a perfect grandparent. It's about being an intentional one—someone who leaves grandchildren with confidence, courage, and belief that extends far beyond childhood. 🔑 Key Takeaways Grandchildren borrow belief from the adults they trust most Confidence is caught more than it is taught Words—especially casual ones—shape lifelong self-image Encouragement grows confidence far better than correction One consistent, belief-building adult can change a child's trajectory 📄 Free Companion Resource Here is your free reflection guide created specifically for this episode: 🧠 Think Big, Grandpa – A Reflection Guide A simple, printable worksheet to help you: Reflect on the beliefs you're reinforcing Reset how you praise, correct, and encourage Speak belief intentionally into your grandchild's life Links Click HERE for your free download or use this link: https://cool-grandpa.us/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/Cool_Grandpa_Think_Big_Workshop_Guide_WITH_LOGO.pdf
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    21 mins
  • Skip Gen Travel with Stefanie Shackelford EP - 251

    Skip Gen Travel with Stefanie Shackelford EP - 251
    Jan 30 2026
    Episode Summary In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I sit down with Stefanie Shackelford, founder of Odyssey Travel, to explore how travel has evolved—and why experienced travel advisors matter more than ever, especially for grandparents planning meaningful trips with their grandchildren. With over 40 years in the travel industry, Stefanie shares how travel planning has shifted from handwritten tickets and phone-book-sized fare manuals to today's digital-first world—while explaining what technology still can't replace: human insight, experience, and relationships. Together, we dive into: The hidden value of working with a professional travel advisor How multi-generational and "skip-gen" travel is reshaping family experiences Why grandparents are uniquely positioned to create unforgettable travel memories How travel agents personalize trips based on family dynamics, budgets, and kids' ages The growing appeal of national parks, cruises, trains, and cultural experiences What to look for when choosing a travel agency—and red flags to avoid Why travel insurance matters more today than ever This conversation is a must-listen for grandparents who want to travel smarter, reduce stress, and build deeper bonds with their grandchildren through shared experiences. If you're a grandparent dreaming about meaningful trips with your grandkids—but don't want the stress of planning—this episode is for you. 👉 Listen now and discover how experienced travel advisors help grandparents create unforgettable, age-appropriate adventures that build lifelong memories. Links Click on this link to visit Odessy Travel: https://www.team-odyssey.com/ Here is Stefanie's email address: sjs@team-odyssey.com You can use this phone number to reach out to Stefanie and Odessy Travel: 707-343-7112 You can watch this fun conversation on YouTube by using this link: https://youtu.be/wfWvWW3Dg1o I would appreciate it if you could support the show. You can support the show through "Buy me a Coffee" and donate a few dollars by clicking HERE. (https://buymeacoffee.com/coolgrandpa) Here is a link to my webstore: https://cool-grandpa.us/shop/
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    44 mins
  • Raising Tomorrow with Kepler Knott - EP 250

    Raising Tomorrow with Kepler Knott - EP 250
    Jan 16 2026
    Episode Summary: In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I sit down with author, father, and former tech entrepreneur Kepler Knott to explore what it means to raise kids in an age of rapid change. Drawing from his book Raising Tomorrow: Talks to Prepare Our Kids for What Lies Ahead, Kepler shares why adaptation, resilience, and values matter more than ever—and how parents and grandparents can guide kids without hovering over them. Together, we discuss how to talk with kids (not at them) about meaning, work, money, technology, relationships, and values. The conversation highlights the unique and powerful role grandparents play in a child's life, offering wisdom, perspective, and unconditional support that kids often hear differently than from parents. This episode is a practical, thoughtful guide for fathers, grandfathers, mothers, and grandmothers who want to raise grounded, resilient kids while preparing them for a future none of us fully understands. Key Topics Covered: Why adaptation and resilience are essential life skills Helping kids develop values through modeling, not lectures The difference between happiness and contentment Technology, attention, and the battle for our kids' focus Teaching money as "stored energy" in a digital world Why boredom, independence, and responsibility still matter How grandparents uniquely influence grandchildren Turning everyday moments into meaningful conversations 🎯 Call to Action for Fathers Fathers: If you're navigating tough conversations about values, technology, work, or identity with your kids, Raising Tomorrow gives you a practical framework to prepare—not preach. Pick one chapter, read it alongside your child, and use it as a starting point for conversations that build trust, resilience, and independent thinking. 🎯 Call to Action for Grandfathers Grandfathers: Your role matters more than you may realize. Kids often hear wisdom differently from grandparents—without the pressure or tension of daily parenting. Raising Tomorrow is a powerful tool to help you guide your grandchildren with perspective, patience, and grace. Use it to reinforce values, spark meaningful talks, and support the parents you love. Links: 👉 Learn more and explore the book at RaisingTomorrow.org You can use this email address to reach out to Kepler: connect@raisingtomorrow.org Here is the link to follow Kepler on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RaisingTomorrowCommunity We talked about and referenced "Moore's Law" about technological advancement. Here is the Wikipedia link about that law. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moore%27s_law We both mentioned the book The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt. Here is the Amazon Link: https://www.amazon.com/Anxious-Generation-Rewiring-Childhood-Epidemic/dp/B0C9N2L56X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2H8M4SK2LVZAW&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.AYLrmEEAErPNx2RGaRJxhOElKKHk5Bxo4woqlvzz-Zl3Nigo6O4PUOIbeK2xnmdbSNLrSJdplfViZYmOC7k_17z-dnG0hWIAMbE7JrzkDaAp8Q8G7ao1enL8d_YmbK4_Cc_-ZGVSa1EglmXK88K0vTgLUqvpQkWntGt-D2CB3aNbzdTEtwxzK1-yR8z8MM33nyESImFRxSAtRzQI2wyFp6ZKhPCO47wyB1eXuGwHUoA.OkSBZteDUVy3GIBReLNavBQDrAB2limybmuAUJVhw9g&dib_tag=se&keywords=anxious+generation+book&qid=1768444451&sprefix=anx%2Caps%2C166&sr=8-1 You can watch this fun conversation on YouTube by using this link: https://youtu.be/-XCyGvQXEJg I would appreciate it if you could support the show. You can support the show through "Buy me a Coffee" and donate a few dollars by clicking HERE. (https://buymeacoffee.com/coolgrandpa) Here is a link to my webstore: https://cool-grandpa.us/shop/
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    50 mins
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