The Crabby Pastor

By: Rev. Dr. Margie Bryce
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  • Nowhere in Scripture does it say: Jesus booked like a lunatic to Bethany. And yet, many ministry leaders buy into the lifestyle that leads to life-draining pathways of disillusionment and burnout. This podcast champions the cultivation of a self-care mindset AND a kenotic leadership style. This is NOT a denomination issue, it's a SPIRITUAL issue! Join me as we have an honest conversation on how you can refocus and realign yourself to intentionally cultivate a sustainable lifestyle. Cause... if you don't... you, too, can become The CRABBY Pastor.
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  • 126: Stories We Tell Ourselves

    126: Stories We Tell Ourselves
    Aug 28 2024

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    This was such a fun conversation with renowned trauma expert Janyne McConnaughey... who joins us in this episode to learn more about how internal dialogue matters... a lot! Janyne shares invaluable insights from her professional work and personal healing journey, emphasizing the power of positive self-talk and the concept of metacognition—thinking about our thinking. This episode is designed to inspire better self-care and mindfulness in perceiving and speaking to ourselves, providing practical strategies to foster a more supportive internal narrative.

    We also address the pervasive issue of negative self-talk, particularly in high-pressure environments like ministry. Reflecting on personal experiences, Janyne and I discuss how self-criticism can hinder performance and amplify the fear of judgment. We explore the importance of positive self-affirmation and the acceptance of imperfection (grace!), encouraging listeners to treat themselves with the same kindness they offer to friends.

    Tune in for an episode packed with resources and encouragement for sustainable self-care practices

    Support the Show.

    This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.

    Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE.     CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE.

    I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then     CLICK HERE to email me.

    And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too.

    Blessings on your journey!
    Margie

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    Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE.

    Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
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    51 mins
  • 125: The power and sustainability found in Holy Friendships

    125: The power and sustainability found in Holy Friendships
    Aug 14 2024

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    Can holy friendships be the key to preventing burnout in ministry? Join us on the Crabby Pastor podcast as Margie Bryce hosts Michaele LaVigne to explore how deep spiritual connections can sustain and enrich pastoral life. Currently, Michaele contributes to the Spiritual Formation Initiative at Nazarene Theological Seminary, focusing on spiritual direction and coaching. She will be hosting a webinar on August 29 on how to start a holy friendship group (see link below).

    In our conversation, Michaele shares a personal story of feeling isolated in a large congregation and how divine intervention led her to form a spiritually enriching small group with two lay ministers. Using a spiritual formation primer from Renovare, they engaged in diverse Christian practices, ranging from scripture memorization to social justice actions. This journey not only transformed their spiritual lives but also influenced their congregational practices. Discover how structured holy friendships can lead to profound spiritual growth and leadership transformation.

    We also navigate the challenges of establishing holy friendships in ministry, especially for women in leadership roles. Reflecting on biblical examples like Moses and Jethro or Elizabeth and Mary, we discuss the power of these connections. The episode concludes with a critical discussion on recognizing and preventing burnout among ministry leaders, emphasizing the need for sustainable practices and safe spaces where pastors can be honest and supported.

    To register for August 29 webinar, please go to:
    www.nts.edu/holyfriendships

    For more information on Renovare:
    https://renovare.org/

    Support the Show.

    This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.

    Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE.     CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE.

    I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then     CLICK HERE to email me.

    And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too.

    Blessings on your journey!
    Margie

    🦀 🦀 🦀

    Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE.

    Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
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    49 mins
  • 124: ENCORE: Advice for WHEN your call gets messy

    124: ENCORE: Advice for WHEN your call gets messy
    Aug 7 2024

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    Find out how to navigate the complexities of ministry while staying true to your calling with insights from Beth Caulfield, author of "People Throw Rocks at Things that Shine." In this episode, we unpack the inevitable messiness and unexpected hardships that come with following one's spiritual path. Beth provides wisdom on how to remain steadfast, emphasizing that God uses every experience, even the tough ones, to fulfill His greater plan. Drawing inspiration from the Apostle Paul, we discuss the importance of maintaining a close relationship with God and keeping our eyes on Jesus to stay resilient and fruitful in ministry.

    Discover practical tools and heartfelt advice on balancing self-care with spiritual duties. Reflecting on moments of divine encouragement, we highlight the significance of finding personal spiritual disciplines, fostering supportive spiritual communities, and integrating self-care practices to avoid burnout. We also embrace the reality of our "crabby" moments, providing strategies to manage them effectively and sustain a healthy spiritual life. Tune in for an episode brimming with encouragement, practical tips, and spiritual nourishment aimed at helping you thrive in your ministry journey.

    Support the Show.

    This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.

    Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE.     CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE.

    I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then     CLICK HERE to email me.

    And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too.

    Blessings on your journey!
    Margie

    🦀 🦀 🦀

    Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE.

    Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
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    36 mins
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