Episodios

  • 126: Stories We Tell Ourselves
    Aug 28 2024

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    This was such a fun conversation with renowned trauma expert Janyne McConnaughey... who joins us in this episode to learn more about how internal dialogue matters... a lot! Janyne shares invaluable insights from her professional work and personal healing journey, emphasizing the power of positive self-talk and the concept of metacognition—thinking about our thinking. This episode is designed to inspire better self-care and mindfulness in perceiving and speaking to ourselves, providing practical strategies to foster a more supportive internal narrative.

    We also address the pervasive issue of negative self-talk, particularly in high-pressure environments like ministry. Reflecting on personal experiences, Janyne and I discuss how self-criticism can hinder performance and amplify the fear of judgment. We explore the importance of positive self-affirmation and the acceptance of imperfection (grace!), encouraging listeners to treat themselves with the same kindness they offer to friends.

    Tune in for an episode packed with resources and encouragement for sustainable self-care practices

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  • 125: The power and sustainability found in Holy Friendships
    Aug 14 2024

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    Can holy friendships be the key to preventing burnout in ministry? Join us on the Crabby Pastor podcast as Margie Bryce hosts Michaele LaVigne to explore how deep spiritual connections can sustain and enrich pastoral life. Currently, Michaele contributes to the Spiritual Formation Initiative at Nazarene Theological Seminary, focusing on spiritual direction and coaching. She will be hosting a webinar on August 29 on how to start a holy friendship group (see link below).

    In our conversation, Michaele shares a personal story of feeling isolated in a large congregation and how divine intervention led her to form a spiritually enriching small group with two lay ministers. Using a spiritual formation primer from Renovare, they engaged in diverse Christian practices, ranging from scripture memorization to social justice actions. This journey not only transformed their spiritual lives but also influenced their congregational practices. Discover how structured holy friendships can lead to profound spiritual growth and leadership transformation.

    We also navigate the challenges of establishing holy friendships in ministry, especially for women in leadership roles. Reflecting on biblical examples like Moses and Jethro or Elizabeth and Mary, we discuss the power of these connections. The episode concludes with a critical discussion on recognizing and preventing burnout among ministry leaders, emphasizing the need for sustainable practices and safe spaces where pastors can be honest and supported.

    To register for August 29 webinar, please go to:
    www.nts.edu/holyfriendships

    For more information on Renovare:
    https://renovare.org/

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    49 m
  • 124: ENCORE: Advice for WHEN your call gets messy
    Aug 7 2024

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    Find out how to navigate the complexities of ministry while staying true to your calling with insights from Beth Caulfield, author of "People Throw Rocks at Things that Shine." In this episode, we unpack the inevitable messiness and unexpected hardships that come with following one's spiritual path. Beth provides wisdom on how to remain steadfast, emphasizing that God uses every experience, even the tough ones, to fulfill His greater plan. Drawing inspiration from the Apostle Paul, we discuss the importance of maintaining a close relationship with God and keeping our eyes on Jesus to stay resilient and fruitful in ministry.

    Discover practical tools and heartfelt advice on balancing self-care with spiritual duties. Reflecting on moments of divine encouragement, we highlight the significance of finding personal spiritual disciplines, fostering supportive spiritual communities, and integrating self-care practices to avoid burnout. We also embrace the reality of our "crabby" moments, providing strategies to manage them effectively and sustain a healthy spiritual life. Tune in for an episode brimming with encouragement, practical tips, and spiritual nourishment aimed at helping you thrive in your ministry journey.

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    I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then
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    Blessings on your journey!

    Margie

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    36 m
  • 123: ENCORE: A Little Wisdom from Kathy
    Jul 31 2024

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    Kathy was my spiritual director for about eight years. This means she endured A LOT because she dealt with ME.
    Kathy passed away from Alzheimer's in January 2022. Her illness took her away too early from many who benefitted from her wisdom and wit. Here I'm sharing some of Kathy's best pieces of wisdom as a tribute to her.
    Her influence on the ministry I am called to is profound. For one, I have a spiritual director bent that impacts how I coach others. I hope you find some treasures in this podcast that will be sustaining.

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    Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE.
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    I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then
    CLICK HERE to email me.

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    Blessings on your journey!

    Margie

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    Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE.

    Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.

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    22 m
  • 122: ENCORE: Part 2: From Burnout to Balance
    Jul 17 2024

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    Do you ever feel like the pressure of ministry is weighing you down? This episode is your lifeline! Join me, Margie Bryce, for a soul-refreshing conversation on self-care for ministry leaders. I'm bringing you a wealth of wisdom on building resilience through hobbies, recreational activities, and focusing on single tasks that give your brain a much-needed rest from the pressures of ministry. We'll also talk about the invaluable support of a coach or spiritual director and I'll be sharing a list of suggestions on how to rally that support from your congregations.

    As we unpack a PDF file detailing 50 ways to Support Your Pastor across five dimensions of wellness, we'll redefine what success in ministry looks like - and it's not just about numbers and money. Above all, I'll drop a reminder we all need to hear from time to time: our main job is to pass the baton along to the next generation of followers of Jesus. Get ready to soak in an episode filled with insights and encouragement tailored for those who've answered the call to ministry.

    For more information on the transformative Ministerial Coaching Initiative, generously supported by the Lilly Foundation and facilitated through Point Loma Nazarene's Center for Pastoral Leadership, CLICK HERE.

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    Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE.
    CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE.

    I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then
    CLICK HERE to email me.

    And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too.

    Blessings on your journey!

    Margie

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    Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE.

    Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.

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    22 m
  • 121: ENCORE: Part 1: From Burnout to Balance: A Guide for Ministry Leaders
    Jul 10 2024

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    Are you determined to steer clear of becoming the 'Crabby Pastor,' exhausted and irritable? If so, this episode (which is Part 1 of a two-part series) will help guide you to sustain yourself in the demanding world of ministry.

    We start with a look at 50 Ways to Support Your Pastor Across Five Dimensions of Well-Being: social, physical, financial, emotional, and spiritual—that will fortify your pastoral journey. This is a document available HERE which was produced by Wespath, an agency concerned with pastoral well-being associated with the United Methodist Church.

    As our conversation unfolds, we put a spotlight on the vital art of setting boundaries. Explore the significance of rest, rejuvenation, and self-renewal in your pastoral care routine. Discover the secrets of planning vacations effectively while ensuring seamless pastoral care coverage in your absence. Uncover the emotional fortitude needed in ministry, and harness valuable resources like coaches, counselors, and spiritual guides.

    In conclusion, we emphasize the invaluable concept of renewal leaves. Tune in now to master the art of balancing pastoral responsibilities with self-care, ensuring you never succumb to becoming the 'Crabby Pastor.' Your rejuvenated ministry journey begins here.

    For more information on the transformative Ministerial Coaching Initiative, generously supported by the Lilly Foundation and facilitated through Point Loma Nazarene's Center for Pastoral Leadership, CLICK HERE.

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    This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.

    Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE.
    CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE.

    I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then
    CLICK HERE to email me.

    And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too.

    Blessings on your journey!

    Margie

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    Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE.

    Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.

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    26 m
  • 120: ENCORE: Back from Burnout: Rev. Paul Kuzma
    Jul 3 2024

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    Have you ever found yourself so immersed in the demands of ministry leadership that your own spirit starts to fray at the edges?

    In this episode, we're joined by the insightful Paul Kuzma, a pastoral counselor who has weathered the storm of burnout himself. Together, our conversation weaves personal narratives and practical wisdom into a tapestry of guidance for any ministry leader seeking harmony between their calling and personal well-being.

    Join us as we explore the fullness of life beyond the pulpit – from cultivating friendships outside the congregation to embracing passions that rejuvenate the soul. We'll tackle the high-stakes stresses of pastoral duties and discuss how to strike that essential balance, setting the stage for a ministry that's not only vibrant but sustainable in the long run.

    Whether you're a seasoned minister or just beginning to feel the weight of your calling, there's a message here for you. We're peeling back the layers on pastoral self-care and uncovering how taking a step back can propel you forward, ensuring that your ministry is a reflection of a well-tended heart and spirit.

    Join us for an episode that promises to fortify your ministry and, perhaps, help you steer clear of becoming a Crabby Pastor.

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    This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.

    Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE.
    CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE.

    I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then
    CLICK HERE to email me.

    And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too.

    Blessings on your journey!

    Margie

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    Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE.

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    49 m
  • 119: Back from Burnout ENCORE: Rev. Griffin's Journey to Self-Care and Renewed Calling
    Jun 26 2024

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    While on sabbatical (yes, I'm taking my own advice), we are replaying podcasts where our brave guests tell their journey into and out of burnout. You won't want to miss these as there's always something to learn from others, right?

    Rev. Tanner Griffin courageously shares his battles with burnout and the personal and professional toll it took on his life. Reverend Griffin provides an unfiltered look at the inefficacies within church organizational health and the immense pressures that pushed him to step away from full-time ministry, despite his best efforts at time management and boundary-setting.

    Throughout our conversation, we underscore the critical importance of self-care and Sabbath-keeping in ministry. Despite cultural pressures and busy schedules, the biblical mandate for rest remains essential. Rev. Griffin's insights, along with our discussion on organizational dysfunction and the pressures of being a "fixer," provide a comprehensive examination of the complexities pastors face and the journey toward rediscovering a true sense of purpose and calling. Tune in for an episode that promises to offer valuable lessons in recognizing burnout and prioritizing spiritual rejuvenation.

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    This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.

    Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE.
    CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE.

    I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then
    CLICK HERE to email me.

    And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too.

    Blessings on your journey!

    Margie

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    Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE.

    Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.

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    46 m