• Debunking Common Myths About Dating After Divorce
    Feb 12 2026

    In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down again with Laurie Gerber, a love and relationship coach who specializes in helping people after divorce find new relationships. Laurie shares her own experience of working through challenges in her marriage with coaching, which helped her gain insight into what really matters in keeping a relationship strong. This led her to become a coach herself, with a focus on dating and finding love, especially for women over 50.

    The conversation gets real about the fears and myths that hold people back from dating again, like the worry that there aren’t any good partners left out there. Laurie reassures listeners that this simply isn’t true, and encourages a shift in perspective, if you’re here, so is someone else who’s a good match. She talks about her 3H Method, which makes dating feel more manageable and fun: pay attention to what your head, heart, and “hoo ha” tell you about someone, and don’t get bogged down with endless lists of requirements.

    There’s practical advice on online dating, including how to stay safe and what to watch out for, and tips for handling awkward moments, like figuring out how to politely turn down a match after a video call. Laurie reminds everyone that dating is a numbers game and it’s okay to say “no” if things aren’t clicking. The whole chat is supportive and easygoing, aimed at helping anyone feel more confident about jumping back into the dating world at any point in life.

    About the Guest:

    Laurie Gerber is one of the most engaging and effective life coaches and presenters in the country. After holding several positions at Handel Group® over the last 20 years, including President of HG Life, Laurie is currently licensing The Handel Method® and running Laurie Gerber Coaching, Inc. focusing on LOVE coaching. Laurie has appeared on the Today Show, Dr, Phil, MTV and A & E and been the resident love expert at Match, Zoosk, Jdate, and many more.

    She has been presenting to and coaching individuals, couples, and groups, with a wide range of partners including: the dating sites above, General Assembly, She Tribe, BeSocialChange, IvyConnect, Ellevate, and many more. She has appeared on television shows, podcasts, radio shows, and all over the internet. Check out “The Secret-Free Diet”, her TedX talk on the power of truth telling. When not working from her NYC townhouse, she’s meditating, jogging, or attempting to get cuddles from her 10, 20 and 22-year old kids and husband of 26 years.

    For Laurie’s gift: https://lauriegerber.com/webinar

    To connect with Laurie:

    Website: lauriegerber.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach

    Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach

    Linked in: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber

    About the Host

    Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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  • How Disconnection Leads to Divorce And What To Do To Stop It
    Feb 10 2026

    Sometimes, reconnection rather than divorce is the ideal solution to marriage issues. In this episode, Mardi Winder is joined by Dr. Lee Baucom, noted marriage expert and author, to help listeners consider their choices around marriage, divorce, and the potential for new relationships. As the creator of the Save the Marriage system and a seasoned therapist, Lee brings both personal and professional perspectives to the discussion, reflecting on how witnessing divorce in his extended family inspired his dedication to supporting couples. He shares that while not every marriage can, or should, be saved, taking the time to deeply reflect on such a significant decision is crucial, especially since the effects can ripple outward through families and communities.

    Throughout the episode, Mardi and Lee explore why so many marriages encounter difficulty. Lee explains that most couples, after the excitement and effort of courtship, often unintentionally “pause” their relationship in favor of work, parenting, or other demands, believing they can simply return to their connection later. This well-intentioned strategy, he points out, usually fails, relationships aren’t static, and when crucial connections are neglected, couples often drift apart without realizing it.

    Lee introduces his framework of three core types of connection: physical, emotional, and spiritual. While most people recognize the importance of physical closeness and emotional support, he highlights how the deeper, ongoing sharing of spiritual values, dreams, and fears is often overlooked. The conversation covers practical approaches for rebuilding connections, even when only one partner feels motivated to try. Lee shares how small, low-pressure invitations, such as taking a walk or sharing an everyday moment, can create opportunities for closeness without overwhelming a reluctant spouse.

    About the Guest:

    Dr. Lee Baucom is the creator of the Save The Marriage System, and an expert on thriving in life, as well as in relationships. He is the author of 7 books, the host of a podcast, and a frequent guest across media. He recently launched the Un-Pause App. In his personal life, he has been married for 37 years, has two adult children, and one side-kick dog. In his free time, he paddle boards, hikes, and plays pickleball.

    To connect with Lee:

    Website: http://UnPauseYourMarriage.com

    Podcast: http://SaveTheMarriage.com/podcast

    About the Host

    Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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    28 mins
  • Healing Emotional Wounds After Divorce
    Feb 5 2026

    Today on The D Shift, host Mardi Winder welcomes Robyn Vogel, a psychotherapist, trauma-informed love and intimacy coach, and founder of Come Back to Love. They dive into the essential topic of healing, intimacy, and moving forward after divorce.

    This conversation explores what it truly means to be trauma-informed, moving beyond the buzzword to a compassionate and respectful approach to healing. Robyn brings her own personal story of childhood trauma, profound loss, and years of self-discovery, offering a vulnerable look at how early experiences can unconsciously affect our relationships, particularly when it comes to love, attachment, and intimacy. Through her work, Robyn combines psychotherapy, coaching, and multifaceted healing techniques, encouraging listeners to acknowledge and gently work with the hurt parts of themselves instead of pushing them away.

    Throughout the episode, Mardi and Robyn discuss how repeating relationship patterns can be a window to healing, the importance of personal responsibility and self-awareness, and the challenges of recognizing red flags in intimacy, especially following the end of a significant partnership. They also touch upon societal messages that encourage us to "suck it up," and how these can hinder true healing.

    Listeners are invited to reflect on their relationship patterns, learn how to embrace their unique healing journey, and view difficult experiences as a gateway to transformation. Robyn Vogel shares her free journal and previews her upcoming book, "Come Back to Love: A Path to Healing," providing practical resources for anyone looking to step into a more joyful and connected life after divorce.

    About the Guest:

    MEET ROBYN VOGEL, YOUR TRAUMA-INFORMED LOVE AND INTIMACY COACH Recognized as one of the top teachers of the Heart in her community, Robyn Vogel, founder of Come Back To Love® is known for providing trauma-informed, heart-centered solutions that are designed to ignite a sense of love, expand the spirit, and heal the past.

    In a time of fleeting social media interactions, one-hour coffee dates, and a world that looks like it’s falling apart, Robyn offers hope, genuine human connection, and inner transformation. Participants are enveloped in a warm transmission of Divine Love, absorbing heart-healing wisdom shared by Robyn. Seemingly stuck patterns and wounds from the past can find resolution and peace. Participants will gain a renewed sense of love, connection and intimacy in their lives, and witness the activation of their own intuitive heart. Together, we will experience the power of love in its most transformative form. Robyn has led hundreds of retreats, workshops, and classes with thousands of participants and clients in the US and abroad.

    For Robyn’s gift: https://www.comebacktolove.com/free-come-back-to-love-journal

    To connect with Robyn:

    Website: https://www.comebacktolove.com Intagram:https://www.instagram.com/comebacktolove_robynvogel/ Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/RobynVogel

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robyn-vogel/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RobynVogel

    About the Host

    Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

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    25 mins
  • Coping With Divorce When Addiction Is Involved
    Feb 3 2026

    In this episode, host Mardi Winder welcomes renowned master addiction counselor Amber Hollingsworth, the founder of the Hope for Families Recovery Center and creator of the "Put the Shovel Down" YouTube channel, for a powerful and honest conversation about one of the most sensitive and challenging issues that can affect a marriage: addiction.

    Together, Mardi and Amber tackle the real-life complexities that arise when addiction becomes an unwelcome guest in the family. Amber shares her personal and professional journey, describing how growing up in an addicted family shaped her understanding of these patterns, and how she uses this insight to guide others through the storm. This episode goes beyond the textbook treatment model, revealing the emotional rollercoaster faced by supportive partners: the exhaustion of trying to "parent" your spouse, the guilt that seems unavoidable whether you stay or leave, and the deep changes you undergo as you try to hold everything together.

    Listeners will hear candid advice on recognizing when an environment has become unsafe, setting healthy boundaries, and resisting the urge to make your children confidants in adult struggles. Amber introduces new concepts like "guiltzentiment", the toxic blend of guilt and resentment many non-addicted partners experience, and emphasizes the critical importance of self-care and reclaiming time for yourself, even when it feels impossible.

    Whether you’re considering leaving an addicted spouse, struggling with the impacts on your kids, or just searching for understanding and next steps, this episode provides valuable, actionable strategies and reassurance that your needs matter too. It’s an honest, compassionate look at the real issues behind addiction and divorce, and a reminder that hope, recovery, and self-respect are within reach.

    About the Guest:

    Amber Hollingsworth is a master addiction counselor, founder of Hope For Families Recovery Center, and creator of the YouTube channel Put The Shovel Down. With over two decades of experience, she’s helped thousands of families navigate addiction recovery using innovative, relationship-focused strategies like the Invisible Intervention. Known for her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Amber empowers families to outsmart addiction, set healthy boundaries, and rebuild trust. Her expertise and compassionate style make her a sought-after podcast guest, offering practical advice and hope to families facing the challenges of addiction.

    For Amber’s gift: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/understanding-boundaries-in-addiction

    To connect with Amber:

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCT8PE1v0xFR9zLXOijxM6hg

    IG : https://www.instagram.com/puttheshoveldown/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/addictionrecoveryhope

    Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amber-hollingsworth-833111b8/

    About the Host

    Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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    27 mins
  • Tips To Be Intentional With Divorce Financial Decisions
    Jan 29 2026

    Welcome to another conversation on The D Shift: Redefining Divorce and Beyond! Today, host Mardi Winder welcomes back her friend and nationally-recognized financial planner Leah Hadley. As the founder of Intentional Divorce Solutions and Intentional Wealth Partners, and the host of her own podcast Intentional Divorce Insights, Leah Hadley is no stranger to the emotional and financial turmoil that comes with divorce. In fact, she’s not only helped hundreds navigate this transition, she’s been through it herself.

    This episode is all about demystifying the financial side of divorce, a topic that can feel overwhelming, confusing, and, for many, downright scary. Leah and Mardi dig into the patterns and beliefs about money that often surface during divorce, from the scarcity mindset and fear of not having enough, to letting past experiences and family taboos shape our financial choices. They share the importance of understanding both the numbers and the “why” behind your settlement decisions, and how being proactive and intentional can set you up for long-term security instead of just short-term relief.

    You’ll hear real-life examples of common pitfalls, like the temptation to rush through the process, take a quick lump sum without considering future needs, or avoid tough financial conversations altogether. The episode offers practical, compassionate advice for those feeling out of their depth, including why adding the right professionals to your team isn’t a cost, but an investment in your future.

    Leah also shares a resource for listeners: her “Intentional Money Method Starter Kit” eBook, designed to help you bring clarity and confidence to your financial decisions, whether you’re just beginning your divorce or looking ahead to financial independence.

    About the Guest:

    Leah Hadley is a nationally recognized financial planner and mediator who has spent more than a decade supporting individuals through the financial and emotional complexities of divorce. As the founder of Intentional Divorce Solutions and Intentional Wealth Partners, Leah combines financial expertise with a compassionate, practical approach that helps clients make confident decisions during one of life’s most challenging transitions. Leah is also the host of the Intentional Divorce Insights podcast, where she explores the human side of divorce, money, and reinvention.

    For Leah’s gift of the Intentional Money Method Starter Kit: https://www.watchherthrive.co/intentional-money-method-opt-in

    To connect with Leah:

    Website: https://www.greatlakesdfs.com

    Website: https://www.watchherthrive.co

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intentionaldivorcesolutions/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leahahadley

    About the Host

    Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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  • The Importance of Self Love During Divorce
    Jan 27 2026

    Hey everyone, and welcome back to The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond! On today’s episode, host Mardi Winder welcomes fellow Canadian and self-love guru Nisha Goyal, a certified life coach with more than 25 years’ experience in helping women build a stronger, more loving relationship with themselves.

    This episode kicks off with an honest look at those core beliefs so many of us wrestle with, feeling not good enough, unworthy, powerless, and why women tend to fall into the role of people pleaser. Nisha shares about her own story of burnout, how she realized she wasn’t truly valuing herself, and what it actually takes to flip that script.

    Mardi and Nisha have a down-to-earth conversation about the difference between self-care (no, it’s not just about spa days and chocolates!) and self-love, which goes way deeper. Nisha breaks down how to start treating yourself with the same kindness and nurture that you’d give to a partner, especially when you’re feeling lost after a breakup or divorce.

    They also tackle some big topics, like why being child-free doesn’t mean you have it any easier during divorce, and how societal pressures can make anyone feel like they’re failing, whether or not they fit the usual “wife and mom” box. Mardi and Nisha share strategies for rewriting those old stories in your head, forgiving yourself, and making daily decisions that fill your own cup first.

    About the Guest:

    Nisha Goyal is a Self-Love expert and Certified Life Coach with 25 years of experience in the art of self-devotion. She has transformed her own experience of overcoming burnout into a passion for helping high-achieving women optimize their physical, mental, and emotional well-being. She specializes in teaching women how to date themselves and cultivate unapologetic AF self-love so they can create a life of abundance.

    For Nisha’s amazing gift: https://drive.google.com/file/d/19QkwdsKNmXqZfOD6KyC10RyR-Rh1ec2K/view?usp=sharing

    To connect with Nisha:

    Website: https://nishagoyal.ca/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theselflovemaven/

    LinkedIn:www.linkedin.com/in/nishagoyal

    About the Host

    Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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    30 mins
  • Finding Community After Divorce And Separation
    Jan 22 2026

    In this episode, host Mardi Winder welcomes Cece Shatz, the visionary behind NewStreamingNetwork.com and the Going Solo Network, a global media platform dedicated to supporting those navigating divorce, single life, and relationship transitions.

    Cece opens up about her own journey through divorce and the realization that community and authentic support are essential during tough personal shifts. Drawing from her experience in divorce support groups and her work as a relationship coach, she shares how the Going Solo Network grew from a single podcast into a multi-channel resource reaching audiences on radio, podcasts, live video, and streaming platforms like Roku. The network features diverse content: practical advice on rebuilding after divorce, fun lifestyle programming, and expert discussions, all aimed at helping individuals heal, grow, and embrace new possibilities.

    Together, Mardi and Cece discuss life lessons, breaking patterns, and the transition from focusing on others to prioritizing personal growth. They emphasize the importance of building a support team, including coaches, financial planners, and strong social connections, to navigate the emotional and practical challenges of major life changes. At the heart of the conversation is a message of hope: by connecting with authentic voices and reflecting on your own journey, you can step out of the past and consciously design a future that excites you.

    If you’re in the midst of a divorce, redefining what it means to be single, or simply searching for guidance on personal transformation, this episode is packed with real stories, actionable tips, and inspiration.

    About the Guest:

    Cece Shatz, fondly known as the Doyenne of Relationship Building, is the Founder of NEWStreamingNetwork.com and WGSN-DB Going Solo Network Radio, Podcasts, and TV. A media visionary, author, and relationship coach, Cece empowers others to “Own the Mic” — helping them share their authentic voices, build meaningful connections, and inspire others to live their best lives. Through her expansive global network on TV, Podcasts and Radio - 50+ media platforms, she guides entrepreneurs, experts, creatives and listeners in transforming their stories into impact that uplifts and empowers.

    To connect with Cece:

    Website: https://www.newstreamingnetwork.com/

    Website:https://www.goingsolonetwork.com/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cece.shatz/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SinglesTalkRadio YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@WGSNDBGoingSoloNetwork

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

    Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

    Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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  • Expert Mortgage Tips For Your Divorce Process
    Jan 20 2026

    Welcome back to The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond! Today, host Mardi Winder welcomes a truly unique expert to discuss one of the most impactful, yet often confusing, aspects of the divorce process: your home and your mortgage. Joining us is Stacey Ellison, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional and divorce mortgage planner, whose career has been devoted to helping divorcing individuals navigate the complex intersection of family law, real estate, and mortgage lending.

    In this candid conversation, Stacey Ellison reveals how the home often sits at the emotional and financial crossroads of divorce, and why decisions around mortgages are rarely as straightforward as most people believe. Drawing from her extensive experience, Stacey Ellison sheds light on common myths, for example, the misconception that you can simply “remove a spouse from a mortgage”, and unpacks why mortgage guidelines can drastically change when divorce enters the picture.

    Together, Mardi and Stacey discuss real-world mistakes she’s seen, such as unrealistic timelines for refinancing, misunderstandings about lending requirements, and the risks of leaving both spouses tied to a property after separation. The episode covers scenarios ranging from couples with multiple properties to those facing market value vs. appraisal discrepancies, and why having a team of professionals, including lawyers, accountants, and mortgage experts, is the key to building a realistic, sustainable plan.

    You’ll hear about the importance of running accurate numbers, the power of pre-planning and backup strategies, and why leaving things to chance can lead to costly and stressful complications down the road. Whether your divorce is collaborative or adversarial, this episode is packed with practical advice and expert tips to help you protect your assets, avoid common pitfalls, and set yourself up for a secure new beginning.

    About the Guest:

    Stacey Ellison is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional and Divorce Mortgage Planner with a deep understanding of the financial complexities that arise during and after divorce. With over 30 years of experience in the mortgage industry, Stacey brings a unique blend of technical knowledge and compassionate guidance to individuals navigating one of life’s most challenging transitions. Since earning her CDLP® designation in 2020, Stacey has worked closely with family law attorneys, mediators, financial planners, and other divorce professionals to provide strategic mortgage guidance tailored to each client’s needs.

    Her role is to ensure that both parties in a divorce understand their options when it comes to home equity, mortgage qualification, and long-term housing goals. Whether helping a client determine if they can keep the marital home, qualify for a new mortgage, or explore equitable buyout solutions, Stacey provides clarity, structure, and confidence in the decision-making process. Her goal is to help divorcing homeowners make sound financial choices that support both their immediate needs and long-term stability.

    To connect with Stacey:

    Instagram: @divorcemortgagesolutions

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyCDLP

    Linked in: linkedin.com/in/stacey-ellison-694052a

    Divorce Lending Assoc: divorcelendingassociation.com/offices/stacey-ellison.cfm

    About the Host:

    Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

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    27 mins