In this practical conversation, Mardi Winder and Rosalind Sedacca, a recognized certified divorce coach and founder of the Child Centered Divorce Network, talk about how to build a healthy coparenting mindset. As January marks Child Centered Divorce Month, the episode centers on the essential topic of how parents can approach divorce and co-parenting, with their children's well-being as the highest priority.

Reflecting on her personal journey, Rosalind Sedacca shares how her own experience as a parent going through divorce shaped her understanding of child-centered co-parenting. She reveals that the lack of resources and guidance in the 1990s inspired her to create a network that supports families long before, during, and long after divorce. Rosalind recounts the heartening moment when her son expressed gratitude for the way his parents handled their separation, highlighting the lasting impact of thoughtful co-parenting.

Throughout the episode, Mardi and Rosalind discuss practical strategies for successful co-parenting, stressing the importance of trust and respect, and treating the co-parenting relationship as a business-like partnership focused on raising happy, healthy children. They explore how to navigate disagreements and difficult moments, including using positive communication, practicing empathy, and maintaining cooperation, even when personalities and habits differ.

Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own reactions and expectations, with both speakers emphasizing that change in others is unlikely, but that self-awareness can ease co-parenting challenges. Importantly, Rosalind introduces resources available to parents during Child Centered Divorce Month, including a complimentary six-part video series filled with expert advice on shielding children from the negative effects of divorce.

About the Guest:

Rosalind Sedacca, CDC is a Divorce & Parenting Coach and Founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network. She is the author of How Do I Tell the Kids About the Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook Guide to Preparing Your Children – With Love! To get her free ebook on Post-Divorce Parenting, and learn about her coaching services, programs, and other valuable resources on divorce and parenting issues, visit https://www.childcentereddivorce.com.

To download Rosalind's free video series: https://www.childcentereddivorce.com/ccdmonth

To connect with Rosalind:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RosalindSedacca

LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/rosalindsedacca

Twitter: https://twitter.com/RosalindSedacca

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosalindsedacca/

You Tube: https://bit.ly/3HjrtGX

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

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Today, Mardi Winder welcomes psychotherapist Oona Metz to share her expertise on supporting women through the emotional journey of divorce. With decades of professional experience and personal insight from her own divorce, Oona describes how she recognized the profound need for safe, supportive spaces where women could process the unique challenges of leaving a marriage. This realization led her to create in-person divorce support groups, which quickly grew in popularity as participants found camaraderie, hope, and strength in sharing their experiences together.

The conversation explores the emotional realities women face during divorce, such as feelings of shame and divorce stigma that can linger despite changing social norms. Oona and Mardi talk about the societal and religious expectations that often place extra pressure on women, making it harder to leave unhealthy relationships. They address the misconception that enduring a troubled marriage is best for children, highlighting new research and heartfelt stories that illustrate how children can thrive when conflict and tension are replaced with peaceful, supportive environments, even if that means living in separate households.

Throughout the episode, Oona shares her approach to creating confidentiality and trust within support groups, while acknowledging the importance of professional facilitation. She emphasizes that the emotional complexities of divorce, including anger, sadness, relief, and even longing, are all valid, and being surrounded by others at different stages can offer both comfort and perspective.

As the episode draws to a close, Oona Metz introduces her upcoming book, Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women, designed to help women feel understood and equipped to move forward. Packed with relatable stories, practical advice, and reflective exercises, the book is positioned as a companion for anyone facing divorce.

About the Guest:

Oona Metz is the author of Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women. She is a psychotherapist who specializes in treating women navigating divorce. She leads three weekly divorce support groups for women and trains mental health clinicians to lead them as well.

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/oona-metz-licsw-cgp-6a14a41b/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womennavigatingdivorce/

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About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

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In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Marcia Mantell to talk about one of the most important and often overlooked parts of life after divorce. your financial future. Marcia brings years of experience helping women understand retirement planning, Social Security, and how to rebuild confidence around money, especially when a divorce changes everything you thought your future would look like.

Together, Mardi and Marcia talk about why so many women feel uncertain when it comes to long-term planning and how divorce can leave you feeling like you are starting over. Marcia explains in clear, practical language what women often miss when they are focused on simply getting through the legal settlement and why it matters to look further ahead. She also explains the Social Security formula and how the system offers an option for women or men who have spent years out of the workforce due to children or other issues.

Together, they explore how to ask better questions, how to work with financial professionals, and how to step into money conversations with more clarity instead of fear or doubt. Marcia also shares insight into the unique challenges of divorce later in life and what women need to know about Social Security timing, benefits, and creating a sustainable plan for the years ahead. Throughout the conversation, listeners are reminded that it is never too late to get informed, make empowered decisions, and build a future they feel secure in.

This episode is both reassuring and practical, offering thoughtful guidance for anyone who wants to feel more confident, prepared, and at peace about what comes next financially after divorce.

About the Guest:

Marcia Mantell is the founder of her own small business, Mantell Retirement Consulting, which is celebrating 20 years this year. Marcia is known for taking the complicated retirement, Social Security, and Medicare rules and translating them into language we can all better understand. And she’s the author of 4 retirement books, a long-time blogger, a media columnist, and a podcast guest. Whether writing about or talking about retirement, she takes the opportunity to share as many helpful tips and tricks as possible. It’s all about making a successful transition into retirement.

To connect with Marcia and access her complimentary resources: https://boomerretirementbriefs.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marciamantell/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=boomer%20retirement%20briefs

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

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In this solo episode, Mardi Winder takes a closer look at why so many New Year’s resolutions fail and why they can actually leave us feeling more discouraged than motivated. Instead of pushing yourself into another year of unrealistic expectations, she invites you to explore the five big problems with traditional resolutions and what to do differently, especially if you are rebuilding your life after divorce.

She shares how resolutions often come from pressure instead of intention, how they focus on perfection rather than progress, and why they rarely consider emotional healing or real-life circumstances. Mardi also shares how resolutions can trigger shame when life gets complicated, and how they sometimes distract us from the deeper work of creating lasting change. Throughout the conversation, she encourages you to move away from “fixing yourself” and toward setting compassionate, meaningful goals that actually support your wellbeing.

This episode is about giving yourself permission to choose a gentler, more sustainable approach to growth. You will hear practical ideas for creating direction without the guilt of broken promises, and ways to stay aligned with your values instead of chasing someone else’s version of success.

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

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In this episode, Mardi Winder and Ron Platt explore the essential role of support and resources for individuals and families navigating divorce. The focus centers on the National Association for Single and Divorced Families, co-founded by Ron Platt, which takes a comprehensive approach to supporting not only those currently experiencing divorce but also single parents and anyone transitioning through family change.

Drawing from his extensive experience in insurance and real estate, and his personal journey as a foster parent, Ron shares the motivations behind establishing the association. He highlights the gaps he witnessed in the systems designed for families, from the struggles within foster care to the challenges faced by his former business partner in escaping an abusive marriage. This firsthand understanding helped shape a service that strives to make the process of divorce less isolating and overwhelming for everyone involved.

The discussion covers a variety of practical resources available through the association, from discounted childcare and mental health support to unique solutions such as child support insurance, a product that helps ensure alimony and child support payments continue even if the payer loses their job involuntarily or becomes disabled. Affordable membership gives individuals the flexibility to choose only the services they need without additional obligation.

Throughout the conversation, Ron and Mardi emphasize the importance of advocacy, community, and having a strong foundation during times of transition.

About the Guest:

Ron Platt is the Co-Founder of the National Association for Single and Divorced Families. They provide an umbrella of products, services, support, and resources for people who are getting a divorced, currently divorced or have a single-family household. They also have the proprietary rights to Support Insured, which is the only insurance product that guarantees child support and alimony protection if the payor dies, becomes disabled or involuntarily unemployed.

To connect with Ron:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NASDF.org/

Website: https://www.NASDF.org

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nasdforg/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ronald-platt-a6b49016/

TikTok: NASDForg

YouTube: NASDFORG

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Estefana Johnson, a seasoned mental health clinician and director of clinical training at Arise Alliance Institute, to explore the complex connections between trauma, loss, and the process of healing. Through stories from her own unexpected path into behavioral health and clear explanations, Estefana shares a perspective on trauma that centers on unresolved loss, whether it is the loss of agency, safety, hope, or meaningful relationships.

Together, they discuss how trauma manifests when the brain cannot process challenging experiences and how people often find themselves stuck, responding to past pain rather than present reality. Estefana Johnson explains how this can create recurring patterns that shape responses to everyday situations, both at home and at work. She introduces listeners to Critical Memory Integration (CMI), an approach designed to guide individuals beyond managing symptoms toward real resolution by helping them understand the deeper signals their bodies and emotions send, and make sense of experiences that feel overwhelming or inaccessible.

The conversation also explores the concept of generational trauma, or as Estefana Johnson prefers, "generational data," and how our bodies can inherit survival adaptations from previous generations. Listeners are encouraged to be compassionate with themselves, seek support when facing discomfort, and realize that the search for clarity and healing begins with honest self-inquiry. Estefana Johnson leaves us with a hopeful message: the power to move forward and heal is within each of us, waiting to be discovered.

About the Guest:

Estefana Johnson, LCSW, brings over 20 years of experience in trauma and mental health care. She began her career as a Behavioral Health Technician in 2001 and later taught in Japan before moving into roles in residential treatment, medical social work, and clinical leadership.

As Director of Clinical Training at ARISE Alliance Institute, she develops and delivers curricula in trauma-focused care and interventions like Critical Memory Integration (CMI™), while also practicing clinically at Lighthouse Psychiatry & TMS in Gilbert, Arizona. Estefana is actively involved in research on therapeutic uses of psychedelics and is passionate about advancing innovative, healing-centered approaches. A first-generation child of immigrants, she is committed to supporting foster and adoptive youth, leading programs that provide education and care rooted in resilience and recovery.

To connect with Estefana:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estefanajohnsonlcsw/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ariseallianceinstitute/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AriseAllianceInstitute/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5MyzV9KBg0eJ0uY88N-zCw

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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Today, host Mardi Winder has a fun and uplifting chat with Jenny Elinora, a creative empowerment coach and musician whose work centers on supporting women over 50 as they rediscover their voices and creative aspirations. Jenny shares her personal story of reclaiming creativity late in life, describing how her own divorce became a turning point that led her to publicly embrace singing, songwriting, and the arts for the first time at age thirty-three. She explains how societal expectations and cultural messages often stifle creativity, especially for women, but emphasizes that the impulse to create is innate and can manifest in many forms beyond the traditional arts, whether in entrepreneurship, caregiving, or daily living.

Throughout their exchange, Mardi and Jenny touch on the importance of play, joy, and curiosity as doorways to reconnecting with one’s sense of self after significant life shifts, such as divorce. Jenny encourages listeners to believe in their own creativity and provides practical suggestions for gently reawakening creative energies, starting with small, playful experiences each day. She also candidly discusses the effects that nurturing creativity can have, including greater confidence, renewed focus, and, in some cases, bold life changes.

The episode concludes with Jenny Elinora offering a resource, a collection of creative sound meditations, for listeners who are interested in taking their first steps toward a more expressive and fulfilling life. It is an engaging and supportive conversation, filled with practical encouragement for anyone seeking to reconnect with their creative spark during or after divorce.

About the Guest:

Jenny Elinora is a creativity empowerment coach and musician dedicated to helping women over 50 rediscover their voices and live their creative dreams. With decades of performance experience and a deep understanding of how trauma impacts creativity, Jenny’s mission is to inspire women to boldly reclaim their creative power. Her own journey reflects the challenges and triumphs of the women she helps.

Silenced by early criticism and life’s traumas, Jenny didn’t find her voice until age 33 and only released her first solo project at 50. Along the way, she’s written, performed, recorded and produced 30+ original songs, and earned recognition such as Vermont's Tammie Award for Best Rock Album. Through her holistic approach— somatic practices, sound healing, community support and creative coaching— Jenny has helped 100+ women overcome self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and creative stagnation to help them reconnect with their authentic self and share their brilliance with the world.

For Jenny’s gift: https://meditation.growyourwholevoice.com

To connect with Jenny:

Website: https://growyourwholevoice.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jelinora

Instagram: https://www.intagram.com/yourcreativewholevoice

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/projectjelinora

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

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Welcome back to The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond, where we tackle the real-life challenges that come with major transitions. Today, we're focusing on one issue that everyone faces, and that is your finances. Whether you’re going through a divorce, juggling single parenthood, or just want to rethink your relationship with money, this episode is full of guidance and support.

Host Mardi Winder welcomes Micah Roberts, CEO and Chief Empowerment Officer of Empowering Financial Coaching, LLC. Drawing from her own experiences of navigating messy divorces and financial resets with her husband, Micah Roberts has made it her mission to create a safe, shame-free space for people to work through the emotional and practical aspects of money management.

Listen in as Micah discusses how emotions, family expectations, and societal pressures often complicate our financial decisions. She shares her step-by-step approach for aligning budgets with personal values, tuning out the noise, and learning to spend money intentionally and without guilt. You'll also hear about building supportive communities, where vulnerability is honored and asking for help is encouraged.

This episode goes beyond dollars and cents. It’s about giving yourself permission to spend mindfully, reframing what budgeting means, and adjusting plans as life happens, whether you’re managing tight finances, dealing with unexpected costs, or learning to navigate newfound financial freedom. Join us for practical strategies, honest reflections, and empowering advice to help you redefine success and take charge of your financial future after divorce and beyond.

About the Guest:

Micah Roberts serves as the Chief Empowerment Officer (CEO) of Empowering Financial Coaching, LLC, bringing a wealth of experience from her background in education, ministry, and coaching. Inspired by her own financial challenges and triumphs—and the support that made a difference—Micah co-founded Empowering Financial Coaching alongside her partner, Charles Roberts. Together, they are dedicated to serving as accountability partners and cheerleaders for their clients. Their coaching program is designed to help individuals and families discover personalized strategies to achieve financial empowerment and lasting success.

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To connect with Micah:

Website: empoweringfinancialcoaching.com

Instagram: @empoweringfinancialcoaching

Facebook: empoweringfinancialcoaching

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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