Today our guest is Emily, a 23yr old student living in Austin, TX who has recently found her way out of a once-promising relationship.

Once she choses someone, Emily’s love is sincere and full. However, in her recent relationship, she experienced an initial overwhelming barrage of love signals from her partner only to have that attention and validation sharply decline once she made the move to live with her partner.

Emily teaches us about the dangers of the up-front love-bomb and how to look for signs of insecurities and emotional instability in a new relationship. She reminds us that the packaging does not always match the product, that it is important to wade into getting to know someone gradually while making sure both of you feel validated and heard.

It can be heartbreaking to find yourself in a relationship where you start off in limerence and then it fades. What do you do? What happens when conversation and validation sharply decline? What happens when your person takes away the attention after flooding you with affection initially?

Emily tells her story and shares her truth on this episode and invites us to come along with her as she re-examines her experience.

Today’s guest is Kaden, a 25yr old self-taught computer engineer who grew up in a small town in Alaska before moving to Austin, TX in his early 20s.

Lately, Kaden stumbled across an online group that believes they are the powerless victims of a brutal dating culture and that the only strategy is not to play, but in the end he rejects these groups and remembers his deep desire for intimacy and mutual companionship.

Kaden shares with us the confusion that many of us feel when trying to navigate love and the inner questions of “why am I not enough for this person,” “why do I feel overlooked by all the ‘good’ partner options,” and “should I just give up and resign to me being alone and that being enough?”

Through his journey through opening up his marriage in his early 20s, closing out his marriage in a crushing divorce, and desire to make sense of the seemingly senseless world of modern dating, Kaden shows us that our desire to find patterns in the world, to understand the why of being alone or frustrated can sometimes overshadow the deeper and harder questions of “how can I be less afraid,” and “is it wrong to just want to love someone and be loved?”

The answer? Listen with us as we discuss those very questions.

August 23rd, 2020

Today we visit with Stephanie, or Krimmie, as her friends and family call her.

Krimmie shares with us her stories of attempting to navigate the labyrinth of online dating as she continues to run into dead ends and dead beats.

From deceptions to dingle picks, Krimmie reminds us of the difficult struggle to find a true companion, but also of the incredible worth and value that the right person can have in our lives.

August 14th, 2020

When we last left off, Sandy had recently had her son at the age of of 20, caught her then boyfriend sexting with another woman, found out that he was still sexting with another woman while she was in labor, kicked him to the curb, moved back home, and began putting her life and heart back together.

Join us for the laughter and love of her journey from heartbreak to happy home on this episode.

August 14th, 2020

On this episode we are joined by Sandy, a young mother of 25 who had her son at 19 and had her heart broken at 20.

She shares her story of searching for her place in life after high school, falling for a boy she knew would let her down, and picking herself up after her trust had been betrayed one too many times.

Her personal strength and journey to self-discovery are just the beginning as she finds love again years later… just down the hall.

August 14, 2020 - *WARNING: This episode contains explicit language and terrible audio quality*

I got the following text from a friend last weekend about being on the show:

"Hey hey! Do you have anyone who had never been in a relationship? Like, ever in her 32 years of life?"

Join me as Sarah and I visit about her tumultuous journey through heartbreak and longing as, over the years, she falls in love with friends, loses hope, reaches for connection and finds strength within herself that she didn't know existed.

I apologize for the terrible audio on my part in this episode and hope you enjoy it anyway!

August 13th 2020 - Mandie starts to dive deep into her own feelings on when to follow her intuition with a partner regarding emotional shifts and when they might be emotionally distancing and how to communicate her preference with a new partner to not get physical quickly.

Join us as we explore a moonlight romantic encounter with a man and then tries to unravel the events that unfolded throughout that evening and the next day.

How do we deal with emotional dissonance? How do we deal with immediate feelings vs a slow burn?

Does getting physical quickly ruin relationships? (Spoiler: probably)

August 12th 2020 - Mandie, a style consultant from Austin, TX, talks about how important it is to feel comfortable and powerful in your own skin, your own clothes, and in your dating life.

How much should we prioritize gut instinct or intuition on attraction? How should we communicate where we are in the attraction process? Are we asking people to stick to our schedule and are we even telling them that we might have a schedule on which we want a relationship to progress?

How important is texting and should we talk about how the other person prefers to communicate?

Join us for part one of this interview with Mandie and think through these questions with us!