• Sex & Money: How to Have Tough Conversations for Relationship Goals | Donkey & The Bee Podcast - Ep 67
    Jan 8 2025

    In this episode of The Donkey and The Bee Podcast, Bret and Laura dive deep into the uncomfortable but essential conversations about sex and money—the two topics that can make or break relationships. Learn how to set meaningful New Year goals as a couple, tackle vulnerable discussions, and align on expectations to strengthen your partnership.

    We share insights from our own experiences, practical tips for breaking the ice, and how to create an open dialogue about meeting your partner’s needs. Whether you're married, in a long-term relationship, or just looking to improve your communication skills, this episode is for you.

    💬 Key Topics:

    Starting the conversation about sexual expectations

    Aligning financial goals as a couple

    How vulnerability leads to deeper connection
    Practical steps to navigate tough relationship topics

    👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more candid conversations and relationship advice!

    #RelationshipGoals #CouplesTherapy #SexAndMoney #DonkeyAndTheBeePodcast #MarriageTips #Communication #PodcastEpisode #RelationshipAdvice #CouplesGoals #NewYearNewUs

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    26 mins
  • CrossFit Your Way to Success: Health, Wealth, and Productivity Secrets | The Donkey and the Bee Podcast - Ep 66
    Dec 4 2024

    Ready to unlock the secrets to health, wealth, and success? In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Brett and Laura Chotkevys explore how CrossFit and fitness principles fuel productivity, enhance discipline, and drive financial growth. They share how building physical strength translates into stronger business strategies, better relationships, and a wealthier mindset.

    Learn how CrossFit builds mental toughness that can be applied to business challenges, the powerful connection between fitness, focus, and financial success, and the habits that help balance health, wealth, and happiness. Whether you're chasing health goals, entrepreneurial dreams, or looking to level up your life, this episode is packed with actionable tips to inspire you.

    Don’t miss this dynamic discussion filled with strategies to elevate your health and wealth journey!

    #CrossFitLife #HealthAndWealthJourney #FitnessAndFinance #LevelUpYourLife #StrengthAndSuccess #EntrepreneurFitness #WealthThroughWellness #FitnessDiscipline #MindsetForSuccess #HealthyHabits



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    12 mins
  • Quitting Our Jobs to Start a Business: Why It Doesn’t Feel Like Work - Ep 65
    Nov 20 2024

    In this episode, Brett and Laura share their journey of starting their own business after quitting their jobs and taking the leap into entrepreneurship. They discuss the fears, risks, and uncertainties that come with leaving the safety of a 9-to-5 job to pursue a passion for building something of their own. Reflecting on how they transformed failure into a learning experience, Brett and Laura offer practical tips and tricks for those considering how to become an entrepreneur. From identifying market opportunities to building a supportive team and taking massive action, they encourage listeners to reframe “work” as a game they can enjoy and thrive in.

    If you’ve ever wondered if there’s more to life than working for someone else, this episode is for you. Learn how to overcome the fear of failure, take that first leap, and start creating your dream career. Whether you’re brainstorming your first business idea or looking for ways to escape the rat race, this episode is packed with insights to help you turn your passion into profit and build a life of freedom and fulfillment. #Entrepreneurship #StartingABusiness

    #QuitYourJob #BeYourOwnBoss #HowToBecomeAnEntrepreneur #FinancialFreedom #SmallBusinessTips #BusinessGrowth #EntrepreneurLife #TakeTheLeap



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    14 mins
  • How One Criminal Hire Almost Took Down Our Business | Protecting Your Business from Disaster - Ep 64
    Nov 13 2024

    In this episode of "The Donkey and the Bee," Brett and Laura reveal how hiring mistakes—including one involving a criminal hire—nearly ruined their business. They share firsthand stories about trusting the wrong people, missing red flags, and the hard lessons learned from employees who nearly destroyed their company. Through these challenging experiences, they’ve developed strategies for protecting their business, from keeping critical areas like payroll and finances under their direct control to conducting deeper background checks and trusting gut instincts when it matters most.

    For anyone in business, this episode is packed with insights on avoiding hiring pitfalls, managing trust, and safeguarding the core of your operations.

    #HiringMistakes #SmallBusinessLessons #Entrepreneurship #BadHires #BusinessTips #TrustYourGut #EmployeeManagement #HiringRedFlags #PayrollControl #TheDonkeyAndTheBee

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    18 mins
  • Keeping Expenses Low | The Secret to Long-Term Business Success - Ep 63
    Nov 6 2024

    In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Brett and Laura discuss the importance of keeping personal expenses low while growing a business. They share personal experiences on resisting lifestyle inflation—even in the face of business success—and highlight the long-term benefits of reinvesting profits back into the business instead of splurging on high-cost liabilities.

    They share practical examples, from choosing affordable housing to managing expenses like vehicles and vacations, and the impact of staying financially disciplined. Brett and Laura also talk about when it might make sense to make large personal purchases and how business growth goals often outweigh short-term luxuries. With insights into business planning, taxes, and building wealth, they explain why keeping expenses low is key to navigating the highs and lows of entrepreneurship.

    Whether you're building a business or seeking financial discipline, this episode is full of advice on achieving your goals without overextending financially. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more discussions on business, life, and finding the right balance!

    #EntrepreneurLife #BusinessGrowth #FinancialDiscipline #KeepExpensesLow #BuildingWealth #EntrepreneurMindset #DonkeyAndTheBee #FinancialFreedom #ReinvestingProfits #LifestyleInflation



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    11 mins
  • Budgeting Like a Business: Steps to Increase Your Income and Savings - Ep 62
    Oct 16 2024

    In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Brett and Laura Chotkevys get into the topic of escaping the middle-class trap and achieving financial freedom. They share two actionable steps that anyone can use to start building their financial future: budgeting like a business and increasing your income. They explain how treating your family finances like a business can help you keep track of your expenses, save more money, and avoid financial pitfalls that often keep people stuck in the middle class.

    The video covers important topics such as why budgeting is key to building financial freedom, and how smart investments can help grow your wealth over time. Brett and Laura also discuss the importance of "family profit" — making sure your income exceeds your expenses so that you can invest the difference. By focusing on budgeting and finding ways to increase your income, you can take real steps toward financial independence.

    If you're looking to save more, invest wisely, or simply manage your family finances better, this episode is packed with insights on how to take control of your financial life and achieve your goals.

    #Savings #HowToInvest #HowToIncreaseIncome #Budgeting #FinancialFreedom #MiddleClassTrap #FamilyFinances #BudgetingGuide #WealthBuilding #MoneyManagement

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    16 mins
  • The Two Most Important Steps To Having A Happy Marriage | Sex And Money - Ep 61
    Oct 9 2024

    In this episode of The Donkey and The Bee, Brett and Laura Chotkevys tackle two major topics that most couples find difficult to discuss—sex and money. With 19 years of marriage under their belts, they get into the reasons why these two areas often become wedges in relationships and how open communication can turn them into strengths. They explore how to get on the same page with your spouse when it comes to sexual expectations, intimacy, and finances, even when it feels awkward or uncomfortable.

    Brett and Laura share personal stories about our own journey, the importance of being vulnerable with your partner, and why having ongoing conversations about sex and money is essential to a successful marriage. From handling expectations around frequency and intimacy to setting financial goals and dealing with spending habits, they give you practical tips on how to navigate these tough topics. It’s time to stop sweeping things under the rug and start creating an honest, open dialogue to strengthen your marriage.

    If you’ve been struggling with communication around sex or finances, this episode will give you the tools to start the conversation and keep your relationship strong

    #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #SexAndMoney #MarriageCommunication #HealthyRelationships #TheDonkeyAndTheBee #MarriageTips #SexInMarriage #MoneyInMarriage #MarriageGrowth

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    19 mins
  • How to Become Healthy and Happy | The Link Between Growth and Success - Ep 60
    Oct 2 2024

    In this episode of The Donkey and the Bee, Brett and Laura explore the critical role growth plays in leading a fulfilling life. Drawing from a recent trip to a small town in Texas for a triathlon, they reflect on the contrast between individuals striving for their best and those stuck in a rut, often battling symptoms of depression. They dive into how stagnation affects happiness and why constant growth is necessary for living a fulfilling life. If you’re feeling stuck or unmotivated, this episode will inspire you to take action.

    Brett and Laura discuss how setting small workout goals can lead to significant improvements not just in physical health, but in other areas like relationships, finances, and productivity. Whether you’re curious about how to be happy, increase productivity, or become healthier, they offer practical tips to start your growth journey today. You don’t have to run a triathlon, but simple steps like working out or making healthier choices can dramatically change your outlook on life.

    Join Brett and Laura as they share their insights on overcoming stagnation, boosting self-confidence, and building a mindset geared toward success. Subscribe for more episodes where we discuss topics like marriage, entrepreneurship, finances, and living your best life!

    #GrowthMindset #MentalHealthMatters #PersonalDevelopment #FitnessGoals #BecomingHealthy #IncreaseProductivity #HappinessJourney #OvercomingDepression #WorkoutMotivation #HealthyHabits

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    17 mins