Episodios

  • Your Habits Bodyguard: Why Discipline Beats Motivation
    Oct 29 2025


    You wake up Monday motivated. You train brilliantly. You feel unstoppable. Then Wednesday hits - tired, stressed, back's tight, kids up all night. Motivation? Gone. Sound familiar?

    If you're a driven professional between 35-50 who's tried P90X, kettlebells, personal trainers, and countless programs without lasting results, this episode reveals why you're not the problem - relying on motivation is.

    Today I breaKdown the critical difference between motivation (temporary emotional state) and discipline (systematic consistency). Drawing from 15+ years of training and coaching hundreds of clients, he explains why intelligent professionals need intelligent systems - not just harder workouts.

    In This Episode, You'll Discover:

    • Why motivation is like the weather and discipline is your well-built house

    • The "Habits Bodyguard" framework that protects your commitments when life gets difficult

    • How to build discipline progressively like training a muscle (not forcing misery)

    • The identity shift that creates lasting transformation beyond physical results

    • One specific action you can take today to start building your discipline muscle

    This episode is for you if:

    • You're tired of starting and stopping fitness programs

    • You're skeptical of online programs after past disappointments

    • You want physical capability at 50, 60, 70+ (not just to "look good")

    • You're ready for systems-based transformation, not quick fixes

    • You're struggling with back pain, mobility issues, or declining energy

    • You value authenticity over flashy marketing

    Rob shares his personal journey preparing for big surf sessions at nearly 49, proving that age is data, not destiny. He challenges the fitness industry's reliance on motivation and offers the intelligent alternative: building discipline through manageable, consistent actions that compound over time.

    The Bottom Line: Motivation gets you started. Discipline keeps you going. If you're serious about physical freedom and transformation that lasts, this episode gives you the framework to become someone who shows up—rain or shine.

    Ready to stop negotiating with yourself and start building the discipline that creates real change? This is where it begins.

    Connect with TELOS: Instagram: @‌rob_telos Email: info@yourtelos.com Want to explore working together? Book a consultation to learn how we build discipline systems for driven professionals.

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  • You Don't Lack Potential - You're Just Tuned to the Wrong Frequency
    Oct 22 2025

    Your potential already exists, you just need to remove what's blocking it. In this episode, I break down the 4 types of interference keeping you from your goals and share the decision that changed my life at 35. No magic formulas—just truth about transformation.


    Episode: Your Potential Already Exists - You're Just Removing What's In The WayIn This Episode:

    The Car Park Moment (03:00)

    • How a failed surfing session at 35 became the turning point

    • The difference between hoping and deciding

    • Why that potential was already there

    The Quantum Field Concept (09:55)

    • Every version of you exists as a possibility

    • How to "tune into" the reality you want

    • Einstein's frequency principle applied practically

    The 4 Types of Interference (13:47)

    1. Limiting Beliefs - "I don't have time" / "I'm not disciplined enough"

    2. Subconscious Programming - Beliefs running on autopilot (like my 25 years with alcohol)

    3. Habitual Sabotage - Netflix collapse, weekend wine, all-or-nothing patterns

    4. Low Vibrational States - Operating from stress vs. operating from clarity

    The Power of "I AM" Statements (22:51)

    • How identity drives all behavior

    • Why saying "I'm not disciplined" creates that reality

    • Johnny Sexton's 2018 drop goal mindset

    Practical Visualization Exercise (29:37)

    • Accessing the frequency of your achieved goal NOW

    • Training your nervous system to embody success

    Transformation doesn't happen through programs alone—it happens through decision, embodiment, and consistent action. Your potential exists right now. Remove the interference.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Previous episodes: Physical Energy, Mental Energy, Emotional Energy

    • Michelangelo's marble quote

    • Einstein on frequency

    • David Goggins half marathon story

    Connect: Instagram: @‌rob_telos | Email: info@yourtelos.com | Web: https://yourtelos.com


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    37 m
  • The Cognitive Triangle: How Thoughts Create Your Reality
    Oct 15 2025

    You can have perfect training, nutrition, and sleep; but if your emotional energy is in the tank, you're not executing. Rob Gallagher breaks down the science of emotional energy and gives you practical tools to shift from stress addiction to peak performance. This is fuel for driven men.


    SHOW NOTES

    You've dialled in your training. Your nutrition is on point. You're sleeping well. So why aren't you executing at the level you know you're capable of?

    The answer: emotional energy.

    In this episode, Rob Gallagher reveals why emotional energy is the most untapped power source for high-performers. Drawing from real client transformations and cutting-edge neuroscience, you'll discover:

    • The Cognitive Triangle - How your thoughts create your reality (and how to redirect them)
    • The Vibrational Energy Framework - Why some states drain you whilst others fuel you
    • Breaking the Stress Addiction Loop - How to stop running on adrenaline and cortisol
    • Your Nervous System Explained - Fight-or-flight vs rest-and-digest
    • Practical Tools - The 4-7-8 breathing technique and why walking in nature is non-negotiable

    Featuring real examples from finance professionals and entrepreneurs who've transformed their performance by mastering emotional energy.

    This isn't soft psychology. This is performance engineering.

    Action Step: Pick ONE tool from this episode. Use it consistently for 7 days. Notice the difference.

    IN THIS EPISODE:

    [00:00] Introduction - Why emotional energy is your missing performance edge

    [02:00] The Cognitive Triangle - How thoughts, feelings, and behaviours feed each other

    [07:00] The Vibrational Energy Framework - High, low, and neutral states explained

    [13:00] Breaking the Stress Addiction Loop - Real stories from Ed & Nicky

    [18:00] Your Nervous System - Understanding fight-or-flight vs rest-and-digest

    [22:00] Practical Tools - 4-7-8 breathing & walking in nature

    [26:00] Action Step - One tool, seven days, consistent execution

    KEY CONCEPTS:

    • Cognitive Triangle
    • Vibrational Energy States
    • Stress Addiction Loop (Trigger → Release → Crash → Repeat)
    • Reticular Activating System (RAS)
    • Sympathetic vs Parasympathetic Nervous System
    • 4-7-8 Breathing Technique

    QUOTES:"Your brain cannot distinguish between a real threat and an imagined one."

    "Neurons that fire together, wire together."

    "This isn't soft psychology. This is performance fuel."

    CONNECT:Instagram: @rob_telosEmail: info@yourtelos.comWebsite: www.yourtelos.com



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  • Mental Bandwidth: Why You're Too Drained to Train (And How to Fix It)
    Oct 8 2025

    Struggling to stick to your training plan despite having all the information? The problem isn't your willpower—it's your mental bandwidth.


    In this episode, we dive into why high-achievers find themselves too mentally drained to execute even the best physical training programs.

    Discover the three biggest energy vampires maxing out your bandwidth (poor boundaries, unresolved mental clutter, and no recovery system), plus two immediately actionable strategies to reclaim your mental energy:

    The 10-Minute Shutdown Ritual and protecting your peak morning hours. If you're succeeding everywhere except your physical transformation, this episode reveals what's really holding you back.


    Episode Summary: Physical transformation requires more than a workout plan—it demands mental energy. This episode explores why driven professionals struggle to execute on their fitness goals despite having all the knowledge and strategy they need.

    What You'll Learn:

    • Why mental bandwidth is the missing link in your physical transformation
    • How your brain uses 20% of your total energy (and why you feel exhausted without physical exertion)
    • The "maxed out bandwidth" analogy: why too many open mental tabs crash your system
    • Context switching: the hidden energy drain destroying your productivity and motivation

    The 3 Biggest Energy Vampires:

    1. Poor Boundaries - Why checking work emails in the evening destroys your recovery and keeps you in perpetual work mode
    2. Unresolved Mental Clutter - How avoided conversations, unmade decisions, and looming problems drain energy in the background
    3. No Recovery System - Why doom scrolling isn't rest and comparison syndrome on social media leaves you depleted

    2 Immediately Actionable Solutions:

    Action #1: The 10-Minute Shutdown Ritual

    • Brain dump everything still on your mind at day's end
    • Identify tomorrow's top 1-3 priorities
    • Create separation between work and personal life
    • Allow your brain to actually relax

    Action #2: Protect Your Peak Hours

    • Block off the first 1-2 hours of each morning
    • No phone, no emails, no external demands for the first 30 minutes
    • Focus on YOUR high-value priorities before reacting to others
    • Win by lunchtime by completing what matters most


    Key Insight: "You can have the perfect training program and nutrition plan, but if your mental bandwidth is maxed out, you're not going to execute."

    Why This Matters: Physical transformation isn't just about training and nutrition; it's about having the mental capacity to show up consistently. This holistic approach addresses WHY you're not doing the workouts, not just WHAT workouts to do.

    Challenge: Pick ONE strategy; either the 10-Minute Shutdown or protecting your morning hours; and commit to it for the next month.


    • Episode Quotes:

      • "When we're not managing our mental energy, we're just gonna be flat"
      • "Worry is essentially visualizing something negative happening in the future"
      • "Mental performance drives physical performance"


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    28 m
  • Beyond Willpower: Why Physical Energy is Your Greatest Asset
    Sep 30 2025

    Feeling knackered by 3pm? Operating on adrenaline and caffeine just to get through the day? You're not alone – most people are walking around in energy bankruptcy, making withdrawals from an overdrawn account.

    In this episode, Rob breaks down the Energy Bank Account concept and reveals why physical energy is the foundation for everything else in your life – your mental sharpness, emotional resilience, family presence, and work performance.

    You'll discover:

    • The four key energy deposits: sleep, nutrition, movement, and recovery
    • Why exercise actually gives you energy (not takes it away)
    • How to conduct a practical energy audit in under 5 minutes
    • The biggest mistake people make when trying to improve their energy (hint: it's the "all or nothing" approach)
    • Why Rob has more energy at 48 than he did in his early thirties

    This isn't about perfection or overhauling your entire life on Monday. It's about systematically managing your energy so you can show up as the person you want to be – more patient with your children, sharper in meetings, and capable of living life by design, not by default.

    Remember: You're way more capable than you allow yourself to believe

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  • 5 key principles for a longer, healthier, more fulfilling life
    Jun 18 2025

    In todays episode I sit down with head of nutrition & lifestyle in TELOS John Touhy. John is a strength coach, but also a nutritionist. Who is completing a masters in nutrition.


    We discuss 5 principles we feel are absolutely key to promoting longevity .


    As I push approach the half century, I've no intention of slowing down. In fact, I want ti gain strength & fitness.. and improve overall health. If you are of a similar mindset. You'll enjoy this episode. Pop on your take aways to @rob_telos on instagram. Or info@yourtelos.com & give John a follow @jjtuohy on instagram

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  • Mastering Time: The Key To Living An Aligned Life
    Jun 9 2025

    In todays episode I go over some key principles to consider, if we are to avoid the deathbed regrets so many are moving towards. We have only one lifetime. Wasting time, is wasting life.Listen out for the TELOS system I'm giving away in this episode also. All in a timely 17 minutes.

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  • Elevate your mindset & life through inspiring converstaions
    May 26 2025

    In todays podcast, I share one key for growth and progress. It applies to all aspects of life. It is about who we surround ourselves with . From business, to physicality, to anything you care to mention . We will progress to levels we could not progress to otherwise, if we can have regular inspiring conversations with those similar mindsets & goals. As this is what influences our actions, and its our actions that create our results. All within 20 minutes. Do drop over any comments or questions to infof@yourtelos.com or DM me on instagram @rob_telos

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    18 m