Shownotes

• How worshiping the Goddess forces you into a path of surrender

• How Layla and Dr. Kavitha both fell on their faces as spiritual teachers

• Following what’s true for you, instead of what you prefer

• How the 3 types of hangups we experience as humans lead us to a spiritual path

• Surrendering everything you think you want to unlock pleasure in what you have

• How to follow the right-handed path of Sri Vidya (and still have fun ;)

Bio

Dr. Kavitha Chinnaiyan is a practicing cardiologist and Professor of Medicine with more than a hundred peer-reviewed publications, and an International educator in the fields of cardiac imaging, preventive cardiology, and heart disease in women. She is the author of The Heart of Wellness, Shakti Rising, Glorious Alchemy: Living the Lalitā Sahasranāma, and Fractals of Reality: Living the Śrīcakra, a Tantric initiate and adept, and the founder of Svatantra Institute and The Renegade Method™. She strives to integrate spirituality and science to guide others in self-development, professional development, resilience, productivity, wellness, and burnout by weaving together the sciences of modern medicine, wellness, nutrition, longevity, nonduality, Yoga, Tantra, Ayurveda, Vedanta, and the science of happiness. She leads retreats, workshops and pilgrimages to sacred sites, and is an artist and musician.

Timestamps

00:01:30 - Guest introduction

00:01:50 - Dr. Kavitha shares how the Sri Vidya tradition is different from others

00:09:01 - Layla explains what she loves about the Sri Vidya tradition

00:15:23 - How being grounded in tranquility allows you to enjoy your suffering

00:16:51 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:17:49 - Layla’s perspective on the right and left-handed paths

00:27:18 - The power of duality in connection with life

00:34:56 - Following what’s true, instead of following what you prefer

00:40:11 - The 3 types of hangups we experience as humans

00:50:29 - Dr. Kavitha defines liberation

01:01:19 - How to surrender everything you think you’re going to get from life

01:08:31 - Absolute independence is everything

01:16:23 - Layla’s humbling journey through her relational trauma

01;26:07 - What is actually true?

01:35:49 - We respond to others’ vibes and energy

01:45:39 - A deeply powerful moment Layla recently experienced

01:50:22 - Conclusion

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Shownotes

• How Barbara paved the way for Layla to be her sexual self

• Why truly meeting yourself means meeting God

• Divine masculine and divine feminine as an invitation to play your identity

• Creating systemic change through becoming softer and more inclusive

• The ways Tantra makes hard change feel easier and safer

• The top places people find ecstasy in life that isn’t sex or orgasm

• A step-by-step teaching of one of Barbara’s favorite breathwork techniques

Bio

Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra®, an approach to conscious sexuality that adapts and blends a wide variety of sacred sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM. She’s the author of Urban Tantra – the world’s first LGBTQ+-inclusive Tantric sex book, Ecstasy is Necessary and Luxurious Loving.

Her books, workshops and lectures are an eclectic mix of sexual and spiritual practices designed to encourage readers and participants of all genders and sexual preferences to expand their capacity for both pleasure and spiritual fulfillment.

Urban Tantra® is an international community, a philosophy, and an inclusive conscious sexuality practice that supports both personal and professional goals. Barbara is also the founder of the Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program, a comprehensive training program in the practice and application of conscious sexuality and the co-founder of Erotic Awakening, a pioneering series of workshops focusing on the physical, spiritual and healing powers of sex.

Timestamps

00:01:17 - Guest introduction

00:01:50 - Layla’s first introduction to Barbara when she was an undergrad at Stanford

00:03:47 - How Barbara paved the way for Layla to be her sexual self

00:05:26 - How the AIDS epidemic in NYC introduced Barbara to Tantra

00:07:10 - Tantra is so much bigger than just sex

00:10:14 - The real reason Barbara started studying Tantra

00:14:10 - Bringing powerful healing neo-Tantric practices to gay men with AIDS

00:16:11 - Layla shares how Tantra supported one of the hardest experiences of her life

00:17:14 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:21:46 - Meeting yourself in the intensity means meeting God

00:25:19 - How Tantra became so heteronormative

00:28:04 - Your invitation into the VITA™ Coaching Certification

00:31:44 - How divine masculine and divine feminine are an invitation to play your identity

00:37:16 - Creating systemic change through becoming softer and more inclusive

00:41:20 - How is Tantra best helpful for the gender and sex minority?

00:45:59 - Tantra makes change feel easier and safer

00:52:15 - The universal desire to find “something more”

00:56:02 - Layla and Barbara drink MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

10:00:54 - Where people find ecstasy in life that isn’t sex or orgasm

01:02:10 - Barbara teaches one of her favorite breathwork techniques

01:05:00 - One of Barbara’s weirdest Tantric experiences

01:09:24 - Where to find Barbara’s work

01:11:10 - Conclusion

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Shownotes

• Why breasts are so important in sexuality

• What a breast massage actually is and how to give yourself one

• Bibi’s journey from Wall Street to Sex Witch

• The importance of finding your spiritual center

• How to appreciate the moments of stillness in sex and in life

• What a peak climax is and why we perceive intensity as pleasure

• How to redirect your energy to change how you experience life

• Why working with the breasts facilitates deeper sexual energy

• The power of breast work to heal heartbreak, grief and sadness

• Bibi guides listeners through a powerful breast massage practice

Bio

Bibi is VITA™ certified Sex, Love and Relationship coach, certified Erotic Blueprint coach, holistic sexuality international speaker and energetic lovemaking guide.

She has presented her trailblazing, disruptive approach to sexuality throughout the world, having made appearances at events like Mindvalley Summit A-Fest, Summit LA, YPO and EO forums, and been featured in publications like Vogue, Elle Magazine, Marie Claire and Conde Nast.

Her heart-opening and taboo-crushing courses create powerful spaces for conversation and plant seeds for exploration of conscious sexuality. Through her offerings of online courses, group workshops, speaking engagements, lectures and one-on-one work, in both English and Spanish, she has reached over 150,000 people.

Bibi serves clients from around the world, both single individuals and loving couples, in their journeys to transformation.

Timestamp

00:01:21 - Guest introduction

00:02:28 - Bibi manifested her appearance on This Tantric Life using Sex Magic

00:03:55 - Why breasts are the most undervalued gateway to female sexuality

00:04:45 - How Bibi went from communist Poland to Wallstreet to Sex Witch

00:09:06 - Bibi’s experience with reaching her darkest, lowest point

00:11:15 - Bibi’s first experience of sexual awakening

00:14:34 - Sign up for Layla’s email list at LaylaMartin.com

00:16:40 - The energetic orgasm is a universal human ability

00:18:25 - How one of Layla’s clients went from skeptical to sexual awakening

00:21:43 - Once you find yourself, even simple moments can be delightful

00:23:20 - What it means to appreciate the values of sex

00:25:30 - The power of welcoming an orgasm instead of chasing it

00:26:50 - Your invitation into VITA™ Sacred Sexuality

00:32:47 - Pleasure is optional but it’s also a choice

00:33:28 - Layla demonstrates how pleasure happens internally

00:36:50 - Bibi talks about having full body orgasms live onstage

00:37:59 - Layla and Bibi drink MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:40:25 - The Goddess wants you to have both your desires and grit

00:42:24 - Bibi tries MOOD™ Sex Magic

00:44:29 - Why breasts are so important in sexuality

00:48:47 - Bibi wants to make “boob love” more common than boob jobs

00:52:22 - How unexpressed grief and sadness actually leads to performing during sex

00:57:25 - Bibi leads listeners through a guided breast massage practice

01:04:45 - How breast massage can change your relationship to your body and yourself

01:06:45 - The art of having a breast orgasm

01:08:47 - Creating a blended pleasure experience with your breasts

01:09:20 - Bibi’s experience with the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

01:14:08 - The level of responsibility a sacred sexuality teacher holds

01:18:16 - Conclusion