Shownotes

• Why breasts are so important in sexuality

• What a breast massage actually is and how to give yourself one

• Bibi’s journey from Wall Street to Sex Witch

• The importance of finding your spiritual center

• How to appreciate the moments of stillness in sex and in life

• What a peak climax is and why we perceive intensity as pleasure

• How to redirect your energy to change how you experience life

• Why working with the breasts facilitates deeper sexual energy

• The power of breast work to heal heartbreak, grief and sadness

• Bibi guides listeners through a powerful breast massage practice

Bio

Bibi is VITA™ certified Sex, Love and Relationship coach, certified Erotic Blueprint coach, holistic sexuality international speaker and energetic lovemaking guide.

She has presented her trailblazing, disruptive approach to sexuality throughout the world, having made appearances at events like Mindvalley Summit A-Fest, Summit LA, YPO and EO forums, and been featured in publications like Vogue, Elle Magazine, Marie Claire and Conde Nast.

Her heart-opening and taboo-crushing courses create powerful spaces for conversation and plant seeds for exploration of conscious sexuality. Through her offerings of online courses, group workshops, speaking engagements, lectures and one-on-one work, in both English and Spanish, she has reached over 150,000 people.

Bibi serves clients from around the world, both single individuals and loving couples, in their journeys to transformation.

Timestamp

00:01:21 - Guest introduction

00:02:28 - Bibi manifested her appearance on This Tantric Life using Sex Magic

00:03:55 - Why breasts are the most undervalued gateway to female sexuality

00:04:45 - How Bibi went from communist Poland to Wallstreet to Sex Witch

00:09:06 - Bibi’s experience with reaching her darkest, lowest point

00:11:15 - Bibi’s first experience of sexual awakening

00:14:34 - Sign up for Layla’s email list at LaylaMartin.com

00:16:40 - The energetic orgasm is a universal human ability

00:18:25 - How one of Layla’s clients went from skeptical to sexual awakening

00:21:43 - Once you find yourself, even simple moments can be delightful

00:23:20 - What it means to appreciate the values of sex

00:25:30 - The power of welcoming an orgasm instead of chasing it

00:26:50 - Your invitation into VITA™ Sacred Sexuality

00:32:47 - Pleasure is optional but it’s also a choice

00:33:28 - Layla demonstrates how pleasure happens internally

00:36:50 - Bibi talks about having full body orgasms live onstage

00:37:59 - Layla and Bibi drink MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:40:25 - The Goddess wants you to have both your desires and grit

00:42:24 - Bibi tries MOOD™ Sex Magic

00:44:29 - Why breasts are so important in sexuality

00:48:47 - Bibi wants to make “boob love” more common than boob jobs

00:52:22 - How unexpressed grief and sadness actually leads to performing during sex

00:57:25 - Bibi leads listeners through a guided breast massage practice

01:04:45 - How breast massage can change your relationship to your body and yourself

01:06:45 - The art of having a breast orgasm

01:08:47 - Creating a blended pleasure experience with your breasts

01:09:20 - Bibi’s experience with the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

01:14:08 - The level of responsibility a sacred sexuality teacher holds

01:18:16 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• What is infinite receiving and how to have for yourself

• Why the greatness in you is a reflection of the greatness in others

• How experiencing pain opens you to a whole new level of pleasure

• Key steps to overcoming toxic conditioning and programming

• Why the ecosystem is more efficient when we learn to receive

• How to update your nervous system to live in the present

• The importance of allowing yourself to be held and supported

Bio

Suzy Ashworth is a Success Coach, Sunday Times Bestseller and international keynote speaker who teaches conscious entrepreneurs how to live a life of greater abundance and co-creation.

She’s a mom of 3 beautiful humans, a 7-figure serial entrepreneur, Hay House author and among a tiny percentage of black female entrepreneurs to hit $1M in annual revenue.

Suzy was raised by foster parents, another experience that offered her a different lens through which to view life, seeing past limitations and into possibility. This powerful perspective allows her to make shifts and leaps in both her own life and the lives of her clients.

Her true purpose and gifts lie in helping entrepreneurs live into their fullest potential, allowing them to enjoy more of what they love and create the empowering changes they stand for in the world.

Timestamp

00:01:31 - Guest introduction

00:03:17 - Suzy’s new book, Infinite Receiving

00:05:25 - What infinite receiving is and how you can have it

00:08:32 - Acknowledging injustice while making money and charting your destiny

00:10:51 - Asking yourself, “Why not me?”

00:12:11 - Being the circuit breaker of your own thoughts

00:14:25 - Sign up for Layla’s email list at LaylaMartin.com

00:15:52 - Introduction to the 4 Pillars of Receiving

00:18:27 - Why is it so hard to fully own your greatness?

00:22:02 - One of the biggest blessings of Suzy’s life

00:25:27 - Your invitation into the VITA™ Coaching Certification

00:28:16 - Suzy’s conditioned frame of reference for her whole life

00:32:00 - Layla’s experience learning to receive

00:35:59 - Every human is f**king magic

00:40:07 - Through the pain is a whole new level of pleasure

00:42:19 - Your life doesn’t become great by having no difficulty

00:45:36 - Layla’s decision to live her truth

00:49:41 - Suzy and Layla drink MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:57:01 - Suzy’s experience with heartbreak and love

01:02:19 - How deep heart work makes you more magnetic

01:05:43 - Layla’s experience with integrating inner work with Ayahuasca

01:13:00 - The profound healing available to you inside partnership

01:15:49 - Suzy’s experience of sexual empowerment through VITA™ Coaching

01:23:54 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• The moment Henika realized she was disconnected from her body
• The power of Tantra to guide you back home to yourself
• How worshiping the darkness of the Goddesses expands devotion
• The deepest gift Tantra gave to Layla
• Channeling your sexual energy into different areas of your life
• How to embody the energy of the Goddesses

Bio

Henika is the founder of the School of Sensual Arts, which invites you into deeper sensuality and intimacy so you can experience more connection, aliveness and joy in yourself, your relationships and your life.

She creates experiences, community and education based on authentic Tantra and yoga philosophy from her lineage along with therapeutic art and psychology. This unique blend offers expression to all the unspoken parts of ourselves which long to be known, heard and accepted.

Henika is a first generation Indian Woman born in England who grew up in a household abundant in the ancient Indian arts and spirituality. After experiencing numbness and depression following a series of personal losses, she left the corporate world and returned to her roots, spending several years living and studying in Asia, India and the Far East.

She returned to England and began her studies in arts therapy and clinical psychotherapy for individuals and couples, and now creates spaces for deeper connection to self, sensuality and spirit through Tantra yoga, bodywork, embodiment and art.

As an indigenous practitioner, she is also a thought leader on the topic of cultural appropriation of Tantra and yoga and provides education on driving more cultural appreciation in the wellness world through her workshops, programmes and social media.

Her book SENSUAL will be published on May 21st, 2024, by Hay House and is now available for pre-order from all major bookstores and online outlets.

Here is the bio and links

• Order a copy of Henika's book SENSUAL: https://schoolofsensualarts.co.uk/sensualbook
• Book an experience at School of Sensual Arts: https://schoolofsensualarts.co.uk/
• Follow Henika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/henika.x/
• Follow Henika on TikTok: www.tiktok.com/henika.x
  Follow Henika on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@henika.x/featured
  

Timestamp

00:00:00 - Episode highlights

00:01:18 - This Tantric Life with Layla Martin episode opener

00:01:55 - Introduction to Henika Patel

00:03:33 - What are the

00:03:33 - Henika’s journey and exploration of classical Tantra traditions fused with neo Tantra traditions

00:10:33 - What is classical Tantra? And why it is a difficult tradition to articulate an answer…

00:15:08 - Connect with Layla - join email list: https://laylamartin.com/join-list/

00:22:20 - Tantra is misunderstood…in the west it is associated with sex and in the east it is black magic

00:26:44 - Celebrating Navaratri (9 nights in celebration of the supreme goddess)

00:29:55 - What role does sexuality play in the teachings of Tantra?

00:34:02 - VITA™ Coaching Certification - https://vita.laylamartin.com/vitacoaching

00:36:26 - Brain scans during meditation and orgasm

00:42:16 - Orgasm is an active form of meditation and meditation is a still form of sex

00:51:33 - MOOD Supplements: https://shopmood.com

00:53:07 - Feeling the goddess inside of yourself

00:58:24 - See life as play

01:00:10 - Learn key blocks to sensuality read Henika's book SENSUAL: https://schoolofsensualarts.co.uk/sensualbook

01:03:08 - This Tantric Life with Layla Martin closing