In this State of Motherhood Address, I discuss the realities of motherhood, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and community within the Viva la Mami platform. I openly share my personal struggles with mental health, identity pressures, and the challenges of balancing family and entrepreneurship. My conversation touches on cultural expectations, the clutter of physical and mental spaces, and the necessity of self-care and seeking help.

I also encourage others to join in embracing their true selves, acknowledging that it's okay not to be okay, and fostering a supportive environment for sharing experiences.

This State of Madrehood was an Instagram Live. To see the video, check it out here.

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This replay episode explores the importance of establishing boundaries for your well-being as a bicultural Latina mom. We discuss the concept of espacio personal and how it applies to madrehood while acknowledging the cultural nuances of setting boundaries within a collectivist Latino family structure.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• Why boundaries are crucial for your mental and emotional health
• How to communicate boundaries with love and respect using the "Te quiero, pero..." approach
• Strategies for navigating unsolicited advice and setting boundaries with family members (like your mamá stopping by unannounced!)

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Feeling torn between cultural traditions and modern parenting? You're not alone! In this solo episode, we explore the process of building a unique parenting style that aligns with our values as first or second-generation Latina moms. I share strategies for developing a parenting style that honors your Latina heritage while embracing modern values.

We discuss the challenges of balancing traditional cultural values with modern parenting approaches, navigating cultural expectations, and addressing language barriers and societal stereotypes.

This episode offers strategies for identifying core values, educating oneself on parenting styles, communicating with partners, finding community support, and being flexible in parenting approaches. I also share an exercise that can help you blend cultural and modern parenting practices, highlighting the importance of intentional and authentic parenting.

For detailed show notes, visit vivalamami.com/episode93

Resources Mentioned:

• The Four Types of Parenting Article: americanspcc.org/the-4-types-of-parenting-styles
• Chicago Moms Walking Group: Walking Amigas

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In this episode, I tackle the challenge of how moms can prioritize ourselves when time is stretched thin. I identify common barriers, such as cultural expectations and internalized guilt, and share five strategies for self-care, including redefining 'me time', learning to say no, delegating tasks, multitasking strategically, and embracing good enough.

I emphasize that self-care is necessary, not selfish, and encourage you to start small with simple, actionable steps. Additionally, I share information about my coaching program, Balanced Motherhood, designed to help Latina moms create balanced and fulfilling lives.

For detailed show notes, visit vivalamami.com/episode92

Resources shared:

• For quick at-home workouts, get a free trial of Get Mom Strong’s SLAM Program!
• If you’re in the Chicago area, join Rise & Thrive Latinas Book Club!

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In this episode, we welcome Melissa Llarena, who is a business coach, a mami, and author of Fertile Imagination: A Guide for Stretching Every Mom’s Superpower for Maximum Impact. We discuss the importance of nurturing imagination as mamis, pulling inspiration from our cultural backgrounds and personal experiences. Melissa shares her journey from growing up in a chaotic environment to becoming a published author and business coach.

Our conversation covers practical steps for reawakening, playing with, and stretching our imagination, as well as tips for balancing motherhood with personal ambitions. We also address imposter syndrome, leveraging human capital for business success, and redefining madrehood to pursue our dreams alongside raising children.

For detailed show notes, visit vivalamami.com/episode91

Connect with Melissa Llarena

• Website: melissallarena.com
• LinkedIn: @melissallarena
• Instagram: @melissallarena
• Facebook: @melissa.llarenadiaz
• X: @CareerOutcomes

Buy her book on Amazon!

Sign up for Melissa’s FREE LIVE masterclass on either September 23rd or September 24th, 2024: melissallarena.com/masterclass/

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This is part 3 of a 3-part interview series from an IRL community pop-up event in Chicago where I had the honor of interviewing mujeres who wanted to share their madrehood stories.

In this VLM Spotlight episode, we welcome Kate Macon, who shares the many ups and downs she experienced as a Latina mami. Kate talks about how she overcame a traumatic divorce, finding love again, and blending families. She highlights the transformative power of therapy and the pivotal role of her faith in God. Kate passionately discusses the importance of intentional parenthood, forgiveness, and the transformative power of faith.

We also discuss how therapy can break the stigma within the Latino community and emphasize the importance of seeking help for personal growth.

For detailed show notes, visit vivalamami.com/episode90

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This is part 2 of a 3-part interview series from an IRL community pop-up event in Chicago where I had the honor of interviewing mujeres who wanted to share their madrehood stories.

In this episode, we welcome Sonnet Pacheco, owner of Blooming Bellies. She is a seasoned professional in women's healthcare and shares her journey in creating a welcoming 3D ultrasound studio and boutique. Blooming Bellies offers services from 2D to 4D ultrasounds and special keepsakes for expectant families. Her mission is to help families create lasting memories as they bond with their little one in utero.

Sonnet discusses the importance of an inviting atmosphere and family involvement in her business, offering a unique, personalized experience for clients. Additionally, Sonnet shares insights into her background in medical imaging, her vision behind Blooming Bellies, and her experiences in madrehood.

For detailed show notes, visit vivalamami.com/episode89

Follow Sonnet Pacheco and Blooming Bellies!

• Website: bloomingbellieschi.com
• Instagram: instagram.com/bloomingbellieschi
• TikTok: tiktok.com/@blooming.bellies

Listen to Episode 88 with Marisa Ikpoh!

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This is part 1 of a 3-part interview series from an IRL community pop-up event in Chicago where I had the honor of interviewing mujeres who wanted to share their madrehood stories.

In this episode, we welcome Marisa Ikpoh, president and founder of The Give-n-Receive Inc., who shares her journey of creating a free community pop-up boutique in Chicago. Her organization offers gently used clothing and accessories for all ages and genders, regardless of financial status.

Marisa also discusses the importance of teaching her daughters fiscal responsibility and self-confidence while promoting sustainable fashion practices. Finally, she touches on the challenges and successes of running a family-operated nonprofit and her dreams of expanding the initiative with a mobile boutique to reach more communities.

For detailed show notes, visit vivalamami.com/episode88

Follow Marisa Ikpoh and The Give-n-Receive Inc.!

• Website: thegivenreceive.org
• Instagram: instagram.com/thegivenreceive
• TikTok: tiktok.com/@thegivenreceive
• Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555649145327
• LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/marisamoments

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