Everyone, whether neurodiverse or neurotypical, uses some form of masking or filter as a part of their social interactions. In this bonus episode, I share a personal story about my autistic daughter's masking strategy, called 'inside face and outside face', which she uses to manage her social interactions.

00:00 Introduction to Masking in Neurodiverse Relationships

00:45 Understanding Masking: A Personal Story

02:30 Masking as a Filter: A Deeper Dive

03:48 Masking in Different Contexts: Professional vs Personal

04:37 Unmasking at Home: The Safe Zone

08:15 The Impact of Masking on Relationships

08:33 The Role of Scripts in Masking

11:10 The Importance of Authenticity in Relationships

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👩‍💼 Hi, I'm Jodi Carlton, a leading world expert on adult #neurodiverserelationship dynamics and interpersonal #communication. I am a seasoned professional with 20+ years of experience as a #therapist and #relationshipcoach specializing in #autism, #ADHD, #anxiety, #depression, and #abuse. I am #trauma certified and trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy and hypnosis.

MY PERSONAL STORY: Although I have professional counselor education and training, my life experiences in my own neurodiverse marriage, as a parent to my #autisticdaughter and #adhd son, and my relationships with other neurodiverse family and friends have been my personal training ground. I am also a survivor of narcissistic abuse and have experienced the narc abuse cycle in multiple relationships. I have battled and healed from the codependency that results from having an abusive childhood.

QUIZZES: I have developed customized quizzes for you to identify traits of neurodiversity as well as toxic personality traits in partners. Take a free quiz at: http://jodicarlton.com

COMPREHENSIVE RELATIONSHIP EVALUATION: Assesses both partners to highlight unique traits and characteristics in areas such as personality, sensory processing, logic & reasoning, empathy, memory, problem-solving, and more. This data reveals how a couple's differences are affecting their relationship. The purpose is not to identify one partner as "abnormal," but to understand how partners are different from one another.

COACHING: My mission is to help you get clarity about yourself and your relationships to make informed choices, heal from your own pain, and improve your overall quality of life. I coach individuals, couples, and families worldwide using a solution-focused approach that results in life-altering answers and real change.

🎙 PODCAST: Listen to the "YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship" podcast, which has been downloaded in over 70 countries on your favorite podcast platform or watch it here on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSyXJdjUav7pSwpq7nmSdEQZMwiI3eqHR

💁‍♀️ COMMUNICATION COURSE: The world's first program that facilitates life-altering clarity and change for neurodiverse partners and couples who are stuck in a cycle of rehashing confusing and painful conflict and shutdown.

http://CracktheCommunicationCode.com

🌐 Visit me online at JodiCarlton.com to learn more and for more resources.

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Let’s talk about the significance of openly discussing sexuality and intimacy with our partners, particularly in neurodiverse relationships. In this video, I address common hurdles such as misunderstandings, unfounded assumptions, and the way past traumas can cloud our interactions. I stress the importance of reflective listening, nurturing curiosity, and recognizing our partner's unique perspective to foster a stronger connection and enhance sexual satisfaction.

00:00 Introduction to Intimacy Conversations

00:34 Understanding Personal Perspectives on Sexuality

01:33 Cultural and Social Influences on Sexuality

02:29 Challenges of Modern Sexuality and Media Influence

04:02 Navigating Expectations and Roles in Intimacy

06:07 The Importance of Communication and Understanding in Relationships

09:34 Addressing Personal Trauma and Misunderstandings

11:24 Taking Responsibility and Making Positive Changes

12:44 Clarifying Definitions and Expectations in Sexual Relationships

13:45 Conclusion: Hope for Improvement and Change

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👩‍💼 Hi, I'm Jodi Carlton, a leading world expert on adult #neurodiverserelationship dynamics and interpersonal #communication. I am a seasoned professional with 20+ years of experience as a #therapist and #relationshipcoach specializing in #autism, #ADHD, #anxiety, #depression, and #abuse. I am #trauma certified and trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy and hypnosis.

MY PERSONAL STORY: Although I have professional counselor education and training, my life experiences in my own neurodiverse marriage, as a parent to my #autisticdaughter and #adhd son, and my relationships with other neurodiverse family and friends have been my personal training ground. I am also a survivor of narcissistic abuse and have experienced the narc abuse cycle in multiple relationships. I have battled and healed from the codependency that results from having an abusive childhood.

QUIZZES: I have developed customized quizzes for you to identify traits of neurodiversity as well as toxic personality traits in partners. Take a free quiz at: http://jodicarlton.com

COMPREHENSIVE RELATIONSHIP EVALUATION: Assesses both partners to highlight unique traits and characteristics in areas such as personality, sensory processing, logic & reasoning, empathy, memory, problem-solving, and more. This data reveals how a couple's differences are affecting their relationship. The purpose is not to identify one partner as "abnormal," but to understand how partners are different from one another.

COACHING: My mission is to help you get clarity about yourself and your relationships to make informed choices, heal from your own pain, and improve your overall quality of life. I coach individuals, couples, and families worldwide using a solution-focused approach that results in life-altering answers and real change.

🎙 PODCAST: Listen to the "YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship" podcast, which has been downloaded in over 70 countries on your favorite podcast platform or watch it here on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSyXJdjUav7pSwpq7nmSdEQZMwiI3eqHR

💁‍♀️ COMMUNICATION COURSE: The world's first program that facilitates life-altering clarity and change for neurodiverse partners and couples who are stuck in a cycle of rehashing confusing and painful conflict and shutdown.

http://CracktheCommunicationCode.com

🌐 Visit me online at JodiCarlton.com to learn more and for more resources.

📱 FOLLOW ME and SUBSCRIBE:

YouTube: @jodicarlton

Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @thejodicarlton

LinkedIn: Jodi Carlton

This bonus clip highlights a personal story of someone struggling in their relationship with a boyfriend who has Asperger's. Despite receiving counseling, the relationship faces recurring issues such as explosive behavior and silent treatments from the autistic partner.

00:00 Introduction: Meet Jodi Carlton, Neuro Diverse Relationship Expert

00:08 A Viewer's Struggle: Reconnecting with an Asperger's Ex-Partner

00:31 The Cycle of Hope and Disappointment

01:09 Understanding Codependency in Relationships

02:15 The Challenge of Change and Communication

03:33 Educational Advice: Learning About Autism and Improving Communication

04:19 The Importance of Self-Reflection in Neurodiverse Relationships