Episodios

  • 61 | Fostering Meditation | Demetrius Napolitano

    61 | Fostering Meditation | Demetrius Napolitano
    Aug 19 2024
    In this brave and transparent conversation, Fostering Meditation founder Demetrius Napolitano shares how his experiences in foster care and detention systems caused him trauma and how he was able to foster various seeds of light and hope to heal himself, make meaning, and support others. We discuss: *typical trauma reactions to abandonment *the impact of the environment on healing *race and belonging *spirituality *yoga in schools *Three and a Half Acres Trauma-Informed YTT *trauma-informed considerations for meditation *and so much more... When he was under a year old, Demetrius Napolitano was placed in New York City's foster care system. He was adopted at ten and then put back into foster care three years later before getting adopted a second time at 20. After experiencing 30 different placements, he transitioned from the system when he was 22. During his time in foster care, he was physically, verbally, and sexually abused; placed on psychotropic medications to treat depression, ADHD, and PTSD; and he experienced a short stay inside juvenile detention and a psychiatric hospital before deciding to take charge of his life. After graduating from St. John's University with his associate's in business management, he graduated from New York University with a bachelor's in political science. In 2019, after being introduced to the practice of meditation, he started a GoFundMe, raised over $17,000, and traveled to India to study further how to use Yoga and Meditation to help him heal from the complex trauma he incurred from the foster, criminal and mental institutions. Once Demetrius returned from his healing journey in June 2020, he founded Fostering Meditation (FM) to help young people nurture their mental development through the same tools he would later call "The Five Steps 2 Wellness": Meditation, Yoga, Expressive Writing, Community, & Nutrition. Demetrius envisions brining FM to youth within and without the foster care system nationally, creating more communities of people breathing, meditating, and healing together! Support Demetrius at www.fosteringmeditation.org Instagram -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Lara Land is a trauma-informed yoga teacher trainer, forest therapist, death doula and mindfulness coach. Lara is the founder of Three and a Half Acres Yoga (THAY) nonproft. THAY trains yoga teachers in trauma-sensitive yoga and places them in organizations that serve survivors. Their next training is September 27th- 29th. Connect with Lara at www.laraland.us or on Instagram. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your support is deeply appreciated! Find me, Lara, on my Website / Instagram You can support this podcast with any level of donation here. Order The Essential Guide to Trauma Sensitive Yoga: How to Create Safer Spaces for All Opening and Closing music: Other People's Photographs courtesy of Daniel Zaitchik. Follow Daniel on Spotify.
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  • 60 | What is a Death Doula? | Henry Fersko-Weiss

    60 | What is a Death Doula? | Henry Fersko-Weiss
    Aug 5 2024
    In this connected conversation with Henry Fersko-Weiss, the creator of the first End-of-Life Doula program in the United States, we discuss what it means to be a Death Doula. Rather than focus on the technical services a Death Doula can provide, Henry and I dive into the spiritual and generational support that can come from this uniquely powerful role in the dying person's life. We talk about legacy work, about agency in the dying process, and about why and when you might want to hire a Death Doula. In addition, Henry and I speak at length about the Death Doula training and how going through it has helped me and so many others to live life more meaningfully, gratefully, and expansively. Henry Fersko-Weiss is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) as well as a death doula. He has worked with hundreds of dying individuals and their loved ones as a hospice social worker, volunteer coordinator, and manager. As a doula he has been at the bedside of a great many people as they journeyed through the dying process. He has also maintained a private practice for 25 years, focused on helping people face death and grieve their losses. In 2003, while working at a large hospice in New York City, Henry created the first end-of-life doula program in the U.S. to serve people in the months before death, through the final days of life, and to guide loved ones into the early days of their grief. The training he developed then was based on what he learned from birth doulas and his experience with the dying. Henry is the author of Finding Peace at the End of Life, A Death Doula’s Guide for Families and Caregivers. Henry has a number of trainings coming up which can be found on his site. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Lara Land is a trauma-informed yoga teacher trainer, mindfulness coach, death doula, forest therapist, and crisis counselor. Follow Lara: Website / Instagram. Lara is leading her next trauma-informed yoga teacher training through the nonprofit Three and a Half Acres Yoga virtually from 9/27-9/29. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Opening and Closing music: Other People's Photographs courtesy of Daniel Zaitchik. Follow Daniel on Spotify.
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    59 m
  • 59 | Therapeutic Journaling | Kate Thompson

    59 | Therapeutic Journaling | Kate Thompson
    Jul 22 2024
    In this very special and meaningful episode with Kate Thompson, we discuss the role of journaling in healing wounds and softening the impacts of trauma. Kate shares in such depth, the unique benefits of journaling and recommendations for how to incorporate it into ones health practice. She shares her favorite journal prompts including two beautiful poems. Through her invitation, I share I very personal poem called "Cherry Tomatoes"* that I recently wrote to process a trauma. Kate also advises therapists who would like to include journaling the healing resources they share with clients. We talk about existential and narrative therapy in particular and how journaling supports these theoretical frameworks. Kate Thompson, MA, CJT is a BACP (British Association of Counseling and Psychotherapy) senior accredited Supervisor & amp; Counsellor who trained at The Center for Journal Therapy. Her first degree was in English Literature after which she taught and lectured for several years before re-training. he is a registered psychotherapist in Colorado as well as a journal therapist and writer. Kate is a faculty member at The Therapeutic Writing Institute and The New School of Psychotherapy. Her publications include: Therapeutic Journal Writing: an introduction for professionals, Writing Works: a resource handbook for therapeutic writing workshops and activities, and Writing Routes: a resource handbook of therapeutic writing. She works with adults both online and in person to help them to tell their story and understand their life. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your support is deeply appreciated! Find me, Lara, on my Website / Instagram You can support this podcast with any level of donation here. Order The Essential Guide to Trauma Sensitive Yoga: How to Create Safer Spaces for All Opening and Closing music: Other People's Photographs courtesy of Daniel Zaitchik. Follow Daniel on Spotify. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- *"Cherry Tomatoes", by Lara Land will appear in the summer 2024 issue of Maintenance of the Species, a journal devoted to practices of care. It will be available for purchase online at www.bushelcollective.org
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  • 58 | Exploring Boundaries | Sharon Martin

    58 | Exploring Boundaries | Sharon Martin
    Jul 8 2024
    In this thorough episode with Dr. Sharon Martin, we explore the different types of boundaries people have and how to determine if yours are healthy. Sharon breaks down the questions you should ask yourself in order to decide if the boundaries you are setting are the right ones for you and if they are working or need to be adjusted. We suggest doable ways for reforming your boundaries and what to do before you set new ones in place to ensure success, how to evaluate if your boundaries are working and a process for adjustment. Sharon details boundary considerations within personal relationships, with children, and at the workplace and gives special attention to how to implement these boundaries in a safe and long lasting way. Sharon Martin, DSW, LCSW is a psychotherapist and author specializing in codependency recovery. For the past 25 years, she’s been helping adult children recover from difficult childhoods, overcome feelings of unworthiness, and learn to set boundaries. Dr. Martin is the author of The CBT Workbook for Perfectionism and The Better Boundaries Workbook. She also writes the popular blog Conquering Codependency for Psychology Today and has been featured in various media outlets including PsychCentral, Web MD, Women’s World, Therapy Chat, and the Adult Child Podcast. For more information, visit her website: LiveWellwithSharonMartin.com. Instagram. Facebook. YouTube. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your support is deeply appreciated! Find me, Lara, on my Website / Instagram You can support this podcast with any level of donation here. Order The Essential Guide to Trauma Sensitive Yoga: How to Create Safer Spaces for All Opening and Closing music: Other People's Photographs courtesy of Daniel Zaitchik. Follow Daniel on Spotify.
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  • 57 | Let's Talk Anxious Attachment | Chris Rackliffe

    57 | Let's Talk Anxious Attachment | Chris Rackliffe
    Jun 24 2024
    In this enlivening episode with Chris Rackliffe, we discuss the four attachment styles with a deeper examination of the anxious style. We discuss how to determine your attachment style and how to become more securely attached. We talk about social media and texting habits and how those play into attachment. We also discuss what your romantic history might be telling you about your attachment style, common triggers for the anxious personality type, and what anxious and avoidant attachment types have in common. We also investigate how anxious and avoidant attachment types can build better relationships, our feelings through this process, and concrete ways to work on and practice better communication. Chris shares the biggest trap with folks when it comes to healing, the one question you should ask yourself to regulate your nervous system right now, and his favorite practices for self-healing. Chris Rackliffe is a trauma healer, mental health advocate, anxious attachment style coach and author of the self-help book, It's Good to See Me Again; How to Find Your Way When You Feel Lost. Chris has worked with hundreds of people around the world to help them heal their anxious attachment style and grow more secure. With a B.S. in Psychology from the University of Miami- and an honorary Ph. D in the "School of Life". Chris can be found at https://www.crackliffe.com/ and at @crackliffe on Instagram and TikTok -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your support is deeply appreciated! Find me, Lara, on my Website / Instagram You can support this podcast with any level of donation here. Order The Essential Guide to Trauma Sensitive Yoga: How to Create Safer Spaces for All Opening and Closing music: Other People's Photographs courtesy of Daniel Zaitchik. Follow Daniel on Spotify.
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  • 56 | Narcissism Unmasked | Adriana Bucci

    56 | Narcissism Unmasked | Adriana Bucci
    Jun 10 2024
    In this important episode with Adriana Bucci, we discuss narcissistic personality disorder. Adriana walks us through the signs that you are dealing with a narcissist. We detail what the narcissist wants and how they go about getting it. Adriana unpacks the specific cycle the narcissist takes their targets on and the emotional states they put you through to gain control. She explains the layers of this abuse and how it culminates in a trauma response for its targets. We go through the signs that you are suffering from repressed trauma, the connection between chronic pain and previous trauma, learned hopelessness and so much more. Plus, the only three boundaries you can have with a narcissist. And how to start getting away from a narcissist including techniques that you can use immediately to change their behavior towards you. Adriana is the founder of Let's Get Your Shift Together. After nearly 3 decades of enduring narcissistic abuse and 4 years of dealing with severe chronic pain, she made the choice to embark on her own healing journey. Doing her inner work not only helped her heal from the physical pain, but it also helped her heal from the narcissistic abuse she endured from being raised by a narcissistic mother, other close relationships, and even colleagues/toxic workplaces. She is a certified professional life coach, mind-body fitness coach, stress management coach, and SafeSpace trauma informed practitioner. Her goal is to empower survivors of narcissistic abuse to heal, set boundaries, and live life on their own terms! Links: https://linktr.ee/letsgetyourshifttogether Main website: https://www.letsgetyourshifttogether.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letsgetyourshifttogether/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letsgetyourshifttogether Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/letsgetyourshifttogether YouTube: https://youtube.com/@LetsGetYourShiftTogether?si=Y0rxxB2QqcYA2N8p -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your support is deeply appreciated! Find me, Lara, on my Website / Instagram You can support this podcast with any level of donation here. Order The Essential Guide to Trauma Sensitive Yoga: How to Create Safer Spaces for All Opening and Closing music: Other People's Photographs courtesy of Daniel Zaitchik. Follow Daniel on Spotify.
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  • 55 | Disordered Eating, Performance, Exposure Response Prevention | Alicia Racine

    55 | Disordered Eating, Performance, Exposure Response Prevention | Alicia Racine
    May 27 2024
    In this riveting episode with Alicia Racine, we go deep into a number of important therapeutic topics. We cover the incredible overlap between developing oneself as an artist and as a therapist. The root of most eating disorders and the kinds of therapeutic interventions that work best for folks with an ED. The crucial element of the therapeutic process that is often missed and how that causes eating disorders to return. The difference between eating disorders and disordered eating. Modalities such as brain spotting, EMDR, DBT, and Exposure Response Prevention. Trauma and policing. Co-occurrence of OCD and trauma and the current therapeutic standards. Going to the places that scare us. And so much more! Alicia Racine is an accomplished performance artist and therapist, who has worked with several demographics including people diagnosed with schizophrenia, eating disorders and more recently, high profile clients dealing with traumas ensued by the media. During her time working with eating disorders, she created a group that supported women and their relationship with food called Sexy Delicious Healthy. She hosted a retreat in Bali for those struggling with Eating Disorders and served as a board member for the International Association of Eating Disorder Professionals (iaedp), Los Angeles chapter. Her private practice began with a focus on ed until the pandemic where she could no longer practice her two-session weekly method of talk therapy and exposure meals. During the pandemic, she created a consulting program that placed hundreds of people in therapy with a clinician that matched them. Her self-imposed criteria included economics, treatment style, expertise in their diagnosis, temperament match, and cultural appropriateness. As a lifelong performer, Alicia is currently using humor to make mental health more accessible, She creates fun and often irreverent meditations that are aware of their own woo wooness, and is about to launch a mental health podcast where she collaborates with stand-up comedians. She is also insanely passionate about supervising associate clinicians in her group practice. Alicia has a Tedx talk coming out within the next few months created for the Gex z population. Website - Instagram -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your support is deeply appreciated! Find me, Lara, on my Website / Instagram You can support this podcast with any level of donation here. Order The Essential Guide to Trauma Sensitive Yoga: How to Create Safer Spaces for All Opening and Closing music: Other People's Photographs courtesy of Daniel Zaitchik. Follow Daniel on Spotify.
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  • 54 | Ask Me Anything | Angela & Yana

    54 | Ask Me Anything | Angela & Yana
    May 13 2024
    In this special second-anniversary episode of Beyond Trauma, Lara is joined by Three and a Half Acres Yoga Trauma Informed Teachers Angela and Yana as we flip the script and take questions from the audience for host, Lara Land. Lara bridges the gap between Ashtanga and Trauma Informed Yoga, discusses her experience teaching kids yoga and her Chloe the Yogi song and app, and shares her insights on yoga retreats, workshops, and festivals. Make sure to listen all the way through to the second half where we discuss discipline, marriage, self-development, mindfulness, boundaries, and breaking harmful cycles. Lara Land shares many upcoming and ongoing offerings in this episode including: The Complete Introduction to Ashtanga Yoga, Universal Power Yoga, Omega Institute, Catskill Mountain Yoga Festival, and coaching opportunities, plus her books, My Bliss Book and The Essential Guide to Trauma Sensitive Yoga. Yana is a certified trauma-informed and Vinyasa yoga instructor, photographer, and artist. Angela is an intuitive healer, herbalist, philanthropist, and resolute wellness guide. holds certifications in Core Power Yoga, THAY Trauma-Informed Yoga, Core Strength Yoga, Vinyasa Hot Yoga, and is a continued student in life. RYT Yoga Alliance --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your support is deeply appreciated! Find me, Lara, on my Website / Instagram You can support this podcast with any level of donation here. Order The Essential Guide to Trauma Sensitive Yoga: How to Create Safer Spaces for All
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    1 h y 5 m