Should you go no contact with the narcissist's flying Monkeys?

When navigating narcissistic abuse, one of the most insidious tactics employed by narcissists is the use of "flying monkeys." These individuals, whether aware of it or not, are manipulated to do the narcissist's bidding. But are all flying monkeys toxic? In this blog, we’ll explore what flying monkeys are, how they function in narcissistic dynamics, and how to protect yourself from their influence.

In this episode we unpack...
*Are all flying Monkeys toxic?
*Should you go no contact with the narcissist's Flying Monkeys?
*Why does the narcissist need Flying Monkeys?
*How does the narcissist use Flying Monkeys to abuse you?
*Who will the narcissist use as a Flying Monkey?
And much more!!

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Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.

Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com
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The narcissist doesn't care if you have evidence!
When you as a victim find evidence of the narcissist's lies and betrayals it is natural to feel a sense of vindication. But what is likely to happen when you CONFRONT the narcissist with your evidence? Find out in this episode!

In this episode we discuss....
* How does the narcissist react to your proof?
* Will your evidence result in accountability?
* Will they continue to deny when they know you know?
* Is it worth presenting the evidence you have to the narcissist?
And much more!

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Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.

Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

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How do you cut ties with toxic Parents and other Family Members?

Going no contact with a narcissistic, toxic parent is difficult. It takes time to understand this parent is never going to change and that you have the right to stop the abuse. The fear, obligation and guilt the narcissistic parent instils in their adult child keeps their child stuck in the abusive environment, where they can never pay off the debt for being born.
In this episode I speak with Dr Sherrie Campbell, a TED speaker, and world expert on toxic families, who provides incredible insights and practical strategies to escape, and heal from this familial abuse.

In this discussion with Dr Sherrie we unpack......
*How the toxic parent conditions their child to 'tolerate' the abuse out of a sense of obligation.
*How the toxic parent attempts to destroy your self-worth, and why they MUST do this.
*The important of accepting who they are and grieving, and soooo much more!

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Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.

Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

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Why does the narcissist come back after they've discarded you? - The Hoover Manoeuvre explained.
The narcissist will 'hoover' you back (meaning to suck you back, the term being coined from the Hoover vacuum cleaner), to regain control of you, and to make sure you never forget about them.
Narcissists have a way of reappearing in your life, often when you least expect it. After enduring the pain and chaos of narcissistic abuse, it's natural to ask yourself, "Why do they come back?" Whether it's a sudden phone call, an unexpected visit, or a chance encounter at the grocery store, the narcissist's return can be bewildering, especially when they seemed so eager to move on with someone else.

In this episode we unpack...
* Why does the narcissist hoover you?
* The Trap of the "Let’s Just Be Friends" Line
* The Confusion of narcissistic Hoovering
* What are the classic strategies the narcissist uses to hoover you?
* What does it mean if you don't get hoovered?
* Does every victim of narcissistic abuse get hoovered?
* What happens each time you potentially fall for the hoover?
* How do you stop the narcissist from hoovering you?
* The Danger of Unblocking

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Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.

Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
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Going to court with a narcissist? - You need a lawyer who understands what you are going through!

In this episode I speak with Karin Walker. Karin is an award winning lawyer who understands the narcissistic abuse cycle and her expertise in representing victims has also culminated in her being the author of several books that provide invaluable information around navigating court with a narcissist.

It so important to get the right lawyer when you are dealing with a narcissist. Karin's advice in this episode will be invaluable for narcissistic abuse victims who are being litigated by their manipulative abuser who uses the family court system to extend the domestic violence.

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Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.

Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
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Adult children of Narcissists - How do they break free from the feelings of obligation and guilt?

The narcissist experiences feelings of envy, abandonment and subsequent anger toward their child and will sabotage the relationships of their adult children.
They will cause chaos in the relationships of their adult children to bring the focus back on to them. They need the unlimited source of attention from their adult child and it is a betrayal when their child is in a relationship that makes them happy.

In this episode we unpack...
* The obligation and guilt the adult child feels to continue to tolerate the abuse
* The pressure from outsiders to continue to tolerate the abuse.
* The struggles that adult children experiences trying to put boundaries in place with a toxic parent.

You can book an online appointment with me here

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Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.

Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
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Will the narcissist treat the next person better?

It is typical for all victims to think this given that they have have been blamed for the abuse. But are their fears justified?

In this episode we unpack...
*Why does every victim think the next person will get all of the 'good' side of the narcissist
* How do you override these very 'normal' feelings?
* Is the narcissist capable of change?

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Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.

Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
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Why do victims of domestic violence not trust the police?
A Detective Police Officer discusses the way forward with his empathic and professional model to stem the global epidemic of domestic violence.

An understanding of coercive Control, domestic violence, narcissistic abuse are not issues that the average person associates with police. Historically, discrimination, racism, and domestic violence stereotypes suggest the police 'have no idea' and take the situation in front of their domestic violence call out, for what it seems.

In this episode I discuss with Detective Police Officer Brandon Wootan the gaps in helping victims of domestic violence, not only with the first call from the victim, but an understanding, empathic response that validates the victim’s trauma and helps them to realise a better and more worthy ffuture.
(Apologies for the audio quality! There was no capacity whatsoever to reduce noise reduction. The discussion however, between myself and Brandon on the other side of the world will be worth it!)

If you found this episode informative, I would absolutely love it if you could rate this podcast, leave a review, and please share, Share, SHARE! Help to spread awareness around Narcissistic Abuse, so there's more support and justice for survivors!
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Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.

Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
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