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We explore why anger surges when life does not match our expectations and how simple shifts in prediction, planning, and communication can help us stay grounded. Stories from trains, shops, golf courses, and home show how tiny triggers point to bigger patterns.

• the brain’s prediction error as a driver of anger
• everyday triggers that generalise into global frustration
• relationship clashes caused by hidden expectations
• how “calm down” backfires when someone is flooded
• scripts that help people feel heard and de-escalate
• injustice and respect as amplifiers of rage
• planning buffers and pessimistic prep to reduce triggers
• holidays as audits that surface unprocessed feelings
• building slack, naming needs, and debriefing patterns

Do come and join us on YouTube where you can see the video, and do come and say hi on Instagram and tell us when anger got the better of you and how you wished that it hadn’t, and what you might do in the future to stop this happening again

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Anxiety loves autopilot, and autopilot loves routine. We break that loop with tiny, doable shifts that put you back in the driver’s seat of your day—starting with your breath, your senses, and a few seconds of honest attention. As therapists, we share practical ways to calm a racing mind, including slow, sighing exhales you can use anywhere, micro nature pauses that fit between tasks, and sensory check-ins that bring you into the present without needing a long meditation session.

We get candid about how the best move is often the opposite of your urge: when you want to rush, pause; when you want to scroll, look up; when anxiety narrows your world, widen it with three seconds of sky. You’ll hear why novelty resets your brain’s patterns (yes, even an unexpectedly pungent cheese can become a mood shift), how to use small environmental cues to spark awareness, and why switching a simple routine—like wearing your watch on the other wrist—can snap you out of the haze. We also talk about travel and home, and how stepping away helps you appreciate what’s already good, right where you are.

To help you reshape your inputs, we offer a lightweight phone swap: send yourself a three-line email each day noting what’s okay or good, star it, and reread it instead of doomscrolling. Close the evening with a brief wind-down and a moment of gratitude to prime deeper rest and kinder dreams. These aren’t grand overhauls; they’re micro levers that shift state, build confidence, and make everyday life feel textured again. If you’re ready to interrupt the anxiety cycle with simple, repeatable habits, press play, try one tool, and tell us what changed. Subscribe, share with a friend who could use a calmer day, and leave a quick review to help others find the show.

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We share the one question that shifts perspective fast and helps us choose better actions in the moment. Through mornings, workouts, work boundaries, and big life choices, we show how honest answers cut stress and build agency.

• the core question that reframes thoughts and behavior
• awareness of thoughts driving feelings and anxiety
• swapping unhelpful morning scripts for simple motivators
• handling procrastination and exercise with truthful answers
• setting boundaries at work with authentic yes or no
• choosing social plans to match energy and values
• separating fear from wisdom in career moves
• applying the question to marriage and major decisions
• using honest reasons to power follow‑through
• building everyday habits from tiny helpful choices

So, as usual, come and see the video on YouTube where we have the YouTube version of the podcast, and please do write in and message us with text us with your thoughts
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A good laugh can feel like a reset button for the mind, but why does it work so well—and why do some spaces still treat joy like a liability? We dive into the science of endorphins, the psychology of pattern interrupts, and the social rules that tell us when it’s “acceptable” to smile. From nervous giggles in tough moments to the quiet relief of sharing a joke, we explore how humor helps us regulate emotions, widen perspective, and reconnect with ourselves when anxiety tightens its grip.

As therapists, we talk about how we use humor with care—laughing with clients, not at them—to gently loosen rigid stories and make room for choice. We unpack cultural and gendered stigma around visible joy, especially in professional settings, and why that bias costs us well-being. We also compare flavors of comedy, from dark humor to slapstick, and discuss how to curate content that actually nourishes your nervous system. Along the way, we touch on laughter yoga, the contagious lift of live comedy, the mindful power of softening your face, and how improv-style “yes, and” thinking builds resilience without denying reality.

If you’ve ever been told you “laugh too much,” or you’ve felt you had to hide your smile to be taken seriously, this conversation offers language, tools, and permission to reclaim joy. Leave with simple practices—micro-moments of comedy, a “sure-thing” clip list, social rituals that invite levity—so you can dose humor like daily care. Subscribe, share this episode with a friend who could use a lift, and tell us: what reliably makes you laugh?

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Your mind keeps knocking, even at 2 a.m.—book the appointment, fix the thing, worry about everything. We’ve been there, and we break down what actually helps when thoughts won’t let go: a deep sigh that resets your system, a “mind house” where you park tasks for later, and small, deliberate actions that pull you back into the present.

We talk about the paradox of stress—how doing less often makes anxiety louder—and why adding the right kind of activity changes the game. From a short walk to a gentle class, from chopping vegetables to ironing a shirt, we show how familiar, hands-on tasks quiet mental noise through sensory anchors and achievable steps. You’ll hear how writing things down turns open loops into closed tabs, and how a simple script—“Thanks, Brian, I’ll return to this at 7”—can soften self-talk and reduce rumination without pretending to erase your thoughts.

This conversation is warm, practical, and grounded in real life: busy schedules, low energy, and those moments when rest feels like another chore. We share stories, tiny tactics, and mindset shifts that make it easier to interrupt the loop and return to living—sight, smell, touch, and all. If you’ve felt stuck in analysis, crave calmer days, or want tools that work when willpower doesn’t, you’ll find them here.

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Ever caught yourself thinking you're beyond repair? That moment when life's roadmap seems to have vanished, leaving you disoriented and questioning your path forward? This raw and heartfelt conversation tackles the powerful distinction between feeling broken and being in the process of healing.

Drawing from a surprisingly relevant experience of driving without lane markings, we explore how disorienting life becomes when we lose our guideposts. Yet just as we can navigate uncertain roads by slowing down and trusting ourselves, we can navigate our healing journeys with similar patience and self-trust. We share why the metaphor of windswept trees perfectly captures human resilience—how despite being bent by life's storms, we continue growing, incorporating our twists and scars into our ongoing development.

Many listeners have expressed feeling fundamentally damaged by difficult childhoods, traumatic experiences, or profound losses. We challenge this perspective by exploring the Japanese art of kintsugi, where broken pottery is repaired with gold, creating something more beautiful than before. Your wounds, once acknowledged and tenderly addressed, become sources of unique strength rather than permanent damage.

The healing journey takes time—sometimes years—and requires generous self-compassion. Whether you're processing grief, recovering from trauma, or simply feeling lost, remember: you were born whole, and that wholeness remains your birthright. Today's pain doesn't define tomorrow's possibilities. Give yourself permission to heal at your own pace, to seek support when needed, and to recognize the remarkable resilience you already possess.

Have you been too hard on yourself lately? Perhaps it's time to place a hand on your heart and whisper, "It's okay. I'm healing now." Connect with us on YouTube and Instagram to continue this conversation and discover more resources for your healing journey.

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In this re run of one of our most popular episode we explore the concept of YOLO (You Only Live Once) and how its meaning has evolved from encouraging risk-taking to becoming a source of pressure and anxiety in modern life.

• Different interpretations of YOLO compared to phrases like "carpe diem"
• How YOLO creates pressure to constantly do more and experience everything
• The connection between YOLO and FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out)
• Why simple moments with loved ones often bring the most fulfillment
• The value of genuine connections versus superficial experiences
• How being present can make your one life feel longer and richer
• The fascinating parallel between dreams and living multiple lives
• Finding balance between seeking new experiences and allowing yourself to rest

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In this re run of one of our most popular episodes we explore how perfectionism can be dangerous, stopping us in our tracks and preventing us from living fully and joyfully despite its association with excellence.

• Perfectionism is a rising problem fueled by social media and comparison culture
• The "all or nothing" mentality prevents people from taking action or trying new things
• Perfectionism can lead to "analysis paralysis" where overthinking prevents progress
• Perfectionists often miss opportunities waiting for the "perfect moment" that never comes
• Waiting for perfect conditions can negatively impact health, relationships, and life experiences
• Social media creates unrealistic standards that make perfectionism worse
• Embracing imperfection creates space for meaningful memories and connections
• Finding beauty in imperfection mirrors nature, where "weeds" can actually be beautiful flowers
• Flexibility in thinking helps overcome toxic perfectionist tendencies
• Perfectionism affects not just the individual but everyone around them

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