Have you ever wondered if your grieving experience is “normal” or struggled to find the right words about loss?

This week, I'm joined by clinical psychologist and grief specialist, Dr. Monika Wieliczko. We have an open conversation about the realities of grief. Together, we explore why grief often feels isolating, how and why society shies away from openly discussing bereavement, and the profound ways grief can affect both mind and body.

Drawing on personal stories and clinical expertise, we dispel common myths (like the famous stages of grief model) and emphasise that there is no single correct way to grieve. Monika also shares a free online resource, the Grief MOT, designed to help individuals check in on their grief journey and access helpful tools.

Highlights include:
05:56 Understanding grief responses
11:39 The Surreal state of loss
14:24 Examining the stages of grief
20:10 When grief becomes traumatic
25:17 Secondary losses and practical challenges
29:29 The cognitive impact of grief
33:06 Resources for grief support - The Grief MOT

This week's guest:
Dr Monika Wieliczko is a Chartered Clinical Psychologist. She has worked within the NHS as well as private and charitable organisations in the UK since 2011. She trained at various universities across the UK and Poland and completed her doctoral studies at the Canterbury Christ Church University.

Apart from running her private practice, Monika works part-time in a secondary care mental health service in South East London where she specialises in helping people with complex mental health presentations including depression, anxiety, trauma and personality disorders. Monika is also a visiting lecturer at The Institute of Psychiatry in London delivering teaching for trainee clinical psychologists.

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Are you wondering if your mood swings, sleepless nights, or sudden changes in your body might be more than just “life stress”?

This week, I'm joined by Dr. Gill Shields, an experienced NHS GP and British Menopause Society specialist.

Gill sheds light on what perimenopause really is, busting myths about hot sweats being the defining symptom and revealing that there are over 70 recognised symptoms - many of which are overlooked or misunderstood. We discuss why you don’t need a blood test to validate how you’re feeling, the misleading legacy of past HRT research, and the importance of individualised care. Gill also sheds light on what happens to our weight in perimenopause, and the lifestyle changes that can help support your body and your mind during this time of life.

By the end of the episode you'll know when it’s time to visit the doctor, how to advocate for yourself in healthcare settings, and why being well-informed is key to getting the support you deserve.

Highlights include:
2:01 Understanding perimenopause symptoms
06:20 When to see your doctor
10:17 Lifestyle changes and supplement efficacy
17:16 Weight gain and body changes
23:56 The truth about HRT
30:56 Common misconceptions and final advice

This week's guest:
Dr Gill Shields completed her medical training at Imperial College London in 2006 and went onto work in several London hospitals before completing her GP training in 2011.

Along with her MBBS/BSc/MRCGP she has Diplomas in Obstetrics and Gynaecology, Sexual and Reproductive health and has FSRH letters of competence in IUDs (coils) SDI (contraceptive implants). She holds the Faculty of Sexual Reproductive Health Advanced Menopause Certificate and is a British Menopause Society specialist.

Dr Gill Shields is a GP partner within the NHS and PCN Women’s Health Lead. She runs regular specialist menopause clinics, group menopause consultations and general women’s health clinics. She enjoys listening to her patients and helping them make the best decisions around their health with support of the most up to date evidence based medicine.

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Are you tired of tossing and turning and want to know if a good night's sleep is ever possible?

In the first episode of season 4 of the Hello Therapy podcast, I'm joined by clinical psychologist and sleep specialist Dr. Maja Schaedel where we unravel the mysteries and challenges of sleep. Maja shares her extensive experience from the NHS Sleep Disorder Centre and her private Good Sleep Clinic, offering practical insights into why sleep is so essential for our health, how different sleep disorders manifest across age groups, and what we can do to improve our nightly rest.

You'll will learn about the surprising links between sleep and conditions like dementia and anxiety, the realities of insomnia, and actionable strategies for managing sleep disruptions, plus some myth-busting around sleep routines. Whether you've struggled with sleepless nights or just want to understand how to sleep better, this episode is full of valuable tips and eye-opening science.

Highlights include:
08:55 Common sleep disorders explained
19:18 Teen sleep patterns and challenges
28:59 Understanding sleep efficiency
37:46 Strategies for 3am wake-ups
50:22 Mental health and sleep connection
57:30 Top tips for better sleep
01:02:16 Sleep retreats and professional passion

This week's guest:
Dr Maja Schaedel is a clinical psychologist and a sleep expert and has worked with people with sleep difficulties for over 20 years. She runs The Good Sleep Clinic and she founded The Good Sleep Retreat in 2023. Maja also works as the lead psychologist in one of the UK’s leading NHS sleep disorder centres at Guy’s & St Thomas’ Hospital. She regularly speaks on the subject of sleep in the media, including The Telegraph, The Independent, Harper’s Bazaar, Vogue, BBC 4’s Woman’s Hour and Channel 5’s “Breaking the Taboos” on sleep in the menopause.

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Feeling lost, directionless, or unsure of what’s next?

In the final Summer Session, I am breaking down one of life’s biggest questions: How do I figure out what I really want?

This episode offers practical tools and mindset shifts to help you find clarity and reconnect with your sense of purpose—without the pressure of finding "the one right thing." Through the lens of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), I explore how chasing constant happiness and avoiding discomfort can leave us stuck - and how meaning often lies on the other side of uncertainty.

Instead of waiting for a lightning bolt of clarity, this episode encourages you to take small, values-aligned actions that help you feel more grounded and authentic in your choices.

What you’ll learn in this episode:
✅ Why there’s no single “right” purpose—and that’s freeing
✅ How the “happiness trap” keeps us feeling stuck
✅ Seven practical tools for finding direction and meaning
✅ How to notice what energizes vs. depletes you
✅ Why values—not goals—are the real compass
✅ The role of discomfort and struggle in meaningful growth
✅ How to make aligned decisions even in uncertainty

Who this episode is for:
This conversation is especially helpful for people who:

• Feel adrift, stuck, or uncertain about life direction
• Are facing a major transition or decision
• Struggle with perfectionism or pressure to “find their purpose”
• Want tools rooted in real psychology, not toxic positivity
• Crave grounded, compassionate advice for life clarity

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Feeling unmotivated? Struggling to get started on tasks you know you need to do?

In the second episode of the Summer Sessions, we dive into the psychology of motivation and what to do when you just “can’t be bothered.” Whether you're facing burnout, procrastination, or low energy, you'll learn five evidence-based strategies to overcome mental blocks and take action—even when you’re not in the mood.

This is your practical guide to boosting motivation, breaking through resistance, and building momentum, one small step at a time.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ Why waiting to "feel motivated" is a trap - and what to do instead
✅ 5 proven strategies to kickstart action when you're stuck
✅ How to make overwhelming tasks feel manageable
✅ Why visualizing the process (not just the outcome) drives better results
✅ How your core values play a key role in increasing motivation
✅ A powerful mindset shift to break out of the motivation slump fast

Who This Episode Is For:
This episode is perfect for anyone who:

• Feels stuck in a rut
• Struggles with procrastination
• Wants to learn how to self-motivate on tough days
• Is interested in the psychology of motivation and behaviour change

Highlights Include:
1:34 Breaking down the motivation question
3:37 The wedding cake approach
5:33 Values and the drive system
10:03 The game-changer: action despite feelings

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Wish you could feel more confident in yourself but don’t know where to start?

In this first episode of Hello Therapy’s Summer Sessions, I explore the truth about confidence: it’s not something you’re born with - it’s something you build.

Through evidence-based psychology and practical mindset tools, you’ll learn how to boost self-confidence in real, sustainable ways. Whether you’re doubting yourself at work, in relationships, or in everyday situations, this episode offers compassionate, actionable strategies to help you shift from self-doubt to self-belief.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ Why confidence is a skill - not a personality trait
✅ How body language and posture influence your self-belief
✅ Simple ways to set the stage for a confident mindset
✅ How to talk to yourself like a compassionate coach - not a critic
✅ The small action rule: why doing is the secret to believing
✅ Alternatives to “fake it till you make it” that actually work

Who This Episode Is For:
This episode is ideal for anyone who:

• Struggles with self-doubt or imposter syndrome
• Wants to build authentic confidence
• Is tired of surface-level advice and wants grounded, psychological insight
• Is beginning personal development work and wants clear, encouraging support

Highlights include:
1:41 Understanding confidence and its challenges
3:53 Tip 1: Power of posture
6:17 Tip 2: Setting the confidence mindset
8:30 Tip 3: Channel your inner cheerleader
10:35 Tip 4: Take action now

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Have you ever experienced mysterious physical symptoms that doctors just can’t explain?

This week, I'm joined by Clinical Psychologist, Dr Hannah Sugarman. We unravel the complexities of medically unexplained symptoms (MUS). We demystify what these symptoms are, discuss the stigma and psychological impact around diagnoses like Functional Neurological Disorder and chronic pain, and explore how the mind and body are deeply connected, even when tests come back clear.

Highlights include:
8:46 Defining medically unexplained symptoms (MUS) and common presentations
15:09 The healthcare system's shortcomings
22:24 Trauma, stress and physical symptoms
28:42 Finding support and resources
33:25 Hope for managing symptoms

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This week's guest:
Dr. Hannah Sugarman is a Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years of experience. From the beginning of her career, she’s been fascinated by how the brain influences our thoughts, emotions, and behaviours. Early on, much of her work focused on neuropsychology, supporting people with neurological conditions and brain injuries. Over time, her passion grew for understanding the complex and often misunderstood link between the mind and body, especially for those dealing with physical symptoms that don’t have clear medical explanations. In addition to her neuropsychology work with individuals, families, and professionals, Hannah works with individual adults experiencing mental health problems and medically unexplained symptoms in one to one therapy.

Hannah is currently in independent practice, working with clients remotely, in the community and in person at Central Health London. Hannah is passionate about supporting individuals who are dealing with symptoms that medical tests can’t seem to explain.

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Misconceptions about OCD are widespread, often reduced to stereotypes like excessive hand washing or tidiness.

In this episode I am dispelling myths and uncovering what its really like to live with OCD, drawing upon two decades of therapy room insights. I discuss the significant ways OCD can disrupt daily life, how it can affect mental health, and undermine a person’s sense of self and identity.

Highlights include:

04:26 OCD and other mental health issues

06:02 How OCD attacks your sense of self

08:44 OCD as a shapeshifter

*Watch the video of this episode HERE.

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5 Hidden Trick of OCD

OCD, Autism and ADHD

Breaking the Cycle of Obsessional Doubts with iCBT

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