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What does it mean to truly embrace who you are--beyond labels, beyond shame, beyond the story you've been told about yourself?

In this powerful and passionate episode of The Rebel Clinicians, John Cottrell and Jerry Buie explore the liberating journey of radical self-acceptance as gay men. With warmth, wisdom, and wit, they challenge the cultural conditioning that limits queer expression and offer an expansive vision of healing, identity, and queer empowerment.

From sacred sexuality and tantra to the stories we build around trauma, this episode calls listeners to recalibrate how they see themselves--not by the body they live in or the roles they perform, but by the magic they carry. You'll hear provocative reflections on:

- Why vulnerability can feel scarier than nudity

- How sexuality, spirituality, and queerness intersect as sacred

- The difference between being accepted and accepting yourself

- How to reclaim your power by naming your unique gifts

- Why breaking your own mold might be the most radical act of all

John and Jerry also ask a vital question: What would your Grindr profile say if it described your soul?

Join the conversation and reconnect with your own capacity for freedom, joy, and embodied queerness.

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🎙️ Mindfully Gay Podcast -- Episode Title: "What Is A Good Gay?"

Air Date: Friday, June 20, 2025

What does it really mean to be a "good gay"?

In this powerful new episode of the Mindfully Gay Podcast, John and Jerry wrestle with this loaded question--one that emerged during a retreat Jerry hosted with queer men from a wide range of backgrounds, cultures, and generations. Inspired by their honest, soul-searching conversations, the hosts bring this provocative topic to the table.

Together, they explore how the idea of a "good gay" is shaped by social expectations, cultural conditioning, and even internalized stereotypes within the LGBTQ+ community. They dive into the impact of heteronormative behavior, gay panic, and the pressure to "perform" a certain kind of gayness--whether that means being fabulous, fit, politically active, masculine, or palatable to others.

From identity policing to the perpetuation of harmful tropes, Jerry and John examine how the queer community sometimes mirrors the very norms it seeks to challenge. They don't promise easy answers--but they do open a space for honest reflection, thoughtful questions, and new possibilities for what queer authenticity could look like.

🔊 Listen to the full audio episode on [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com) or [Spotify](https://spotify.com)

📺 Watch the full video episode on YouTube at [Mindfully Gay Podcast](https://youtube.com/@MindfullyGayPodcast)

💬 After you listen, we'd love to hear from you: How would YOU answer the question -- "What is a good gay?"

🗓️ New episodes drop every Friday. Be sure to subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube so you never miss a conversation.

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What does it really mean to be a "good gay"?

In this powerful new episode of the Mindfully Gay Podcast, John and Jerry wrestle with this loaded question--one that emerged during a retreat Jerry hosted with queer men from a wide range of backgrounds, cultures, and generations. Inspired by their honest, soul-searching conversations, the hosts bring this provocative topic to the table.

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Coming Out, Showing Up, and Shining Bright -- LIVE at Generations Conference

Air Date: Friday, June 6, 2025

We're coming to you live from the Generations Conference in Salt Lake City for a powerful reunion episode of the Mindfully Gay Podcast with John, Jerry, and the long-awaited return of Nick!

In front of a live audience of clinicians, therapists, and LGBTQ+ allies, our trio tackles one of the most vital questions of our time:

Is coming out still necessary in today's world?

This candid conversation explores the evolution of coming out, the impact of ethnicity, religion, masculinity, and shame, and how experiences vary across age, culture, and geography. With raw honesty, humor, and heartfelt wisdom, John, Jerry, and Nick guide listeners through what it means to live authentically and love boldly in 2025.

You'll hear personal stories, emotional audience reflections, and powerful affirmations of queer resilience and community. From supporting trans youth and incarcerated queer clients, to celebrating gay blessings and radical love--this episode is a moving celebration of queer truth.

🎧 Listen to the full audio episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts

📺 Watch the video podcast on YouTube: [Mindfully Gay Podcast](https://www.youtube.com/@Mindfully_Gay)

💬 Follow us on Instagram: [@Mindfully_Gay](https://www.instagram.com/mindfully_gay)

🌈 Visit [MindfullyGay.com](https://www.MindfullyGay.com) for upcoming free social events and resources.

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"Coming Out, Showing Up, and Shining Bright" -- LIVE at Generations Conference on May 20, 2025

In this heartfelt live recording, co-hosts John, Jerry, and Nick reunite at the Generations Conference, a gathering for professionals in health, mental health, and addiction services. Speaking to a room of clinicians and allies, they explore the evolving experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals through candid dialogue and audience engagement.

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Coming Out, Rising Up: Uplifting Stories & Allyship in the LGBTQ+ Journey

Coming out doesn't always have to be framed in pain. In this heart-centered episode of the Mindfully Gay Podcast, airing May 23rd, John and Jerry take a fresh perspective on the coming out experience--one that honors both the challenges and the moments of joy, affirmation, and celebration that can emerge when someone claims their truth.

Sharing candid stories from their own journeys, John and Jerry reflect on the supportive voices, unexpected encouragement, and life-changing affirmation they received during their coming out processes. While they acknowledge the emotional weight and trauma that can often accompany this pivotal life event, they shine a light on the beauty and resilience that also exists within queer narratives.

They also explore what true allyship looks like--how friends, family, coworkers, and communities can show up with authenticity, openness, and love for those navigating the coming out process. Whether you're LGBTQ+ yourself or a supportive ally, this episode is filled with real talk, inspiration, and gentle guidance for being there for yourself and others.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, and watch the full video episode on YouTube (@Mindfully Gay Podcast). Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review to help others in our community find these stories.

Air Date: May 23, 2025

Available on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube

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Coming Out, Rising Up: Uplifting Stories & Allyship in the LGBTQ+ Journey

Coming out doesn't always have to be framed in pain. In this heart-centered episode of the Mindfully Gay Podcast, airing May 23rd, John and Jerry take a fresh perspective on the coming out experience--one that honors both the challenges and the moments of joy, affirmation, and celebration that can emerge when someone claims their truth.

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