In this episode, we dive into the vibrant Type 7 personality, also known as The Enthusiast or "the straw that stirs the drink" Type 7s are characterized by their exuberance and ability to juggle multiple interests, yet they often face challenges with escapism, FOMO (fear of missing out), and feelings of isolation, inadequeacy, exhaustion and frustration.

This episode is full of practical strategies for Type 7s to reframe their thoughts and navigate these emotions. Whether you're a Type 7 yourself, in a relationship with one, or parenting a spirited child, this episode offers insights on fostering deeper connections, managing overwhelm, and finding balance between spontaneity and introspection.

Discover how Type 7s can cultivate authenticity by embracing their true feelings and learning to savor the present moment. Drawing inspiration from characters like Moana and Tigger, Wendy shares how these personalities embody Type 7 traits and offer lessons in personal growth.

Tune in for personal anecdotes, practical tips, and inspiring stories that empower you on your Enneagram journey. Whether you're new to the Enneagram or seeking deeper insights into Type 7 dynamics, this episode promises to enrich your understanding and encourage growth in embracing your unique personality traits.

Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation celebrating the strengths and challenges of Type 7s, offering invaluable wisdom for navigating life with boundless energy and a thirst for new experiences.

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In this episode, we explore Enneagram Type 6, often called the Loyalist or the Loyal Skeptic. Type 6s, part of the head center, are concerned with safety and security, often struggling with fear and anxiety. We discuss five common thought patterns they face: Anxiety, Indecision, Insecurity, Distrust, and Overwhelm.

• Anxiety: Overthinking worst-case scenarios is common for Type 6s. Examples include Mike Wazowski from Monsters, Inc. and Marlin from Finding Nemo. Strategies to cope include facing fears directly, using grounding techniques, and practicing reality checking.
• Indecision: Chronic second-guessing affects Type 6s, who often prioritize others' happiness over their own choices. Focus on positive outcomes and learning from decisions can help.
• Insecurity: Seeking constant reassurance and feeling inadequate is typical. Woody from Toy Story illustrates this. Self-compassion and sharing insecurities with trusted friends are vital.
• Distrust: Difficulty trusting themselves and others can lead to paranoia. Phobic and counterphobic subtypes show different behaviors. Encouraging small steps and clear communication helps build trust.
• Overwhelm: Anxiety can lead to paralysis and inaction. Inside Out's Riley and Anna from Frozen 2 show this. Calming strategies and focusing on small, actionable steps are effective.

• Reframe anxious thoughts by confronting fears.
• Build decision-making confidence by celebrating small victories.
• Address insecurity with self-compassion and support from friends.
• Cultivate trust gradually with clear boundaries.
• Manage overwhelm with grounding techniques and incremental actions.

Join us for insights on Type 6, whether you are one, love one, or parent one, and learn how to manage and transform these thought patterns effectively.

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We discuss their core struggle, termed Avarice, which isn't about greed but rather a fear of depletion—be it emotional, energetic, or informational. This fear manifests as a reluctance to engage fully in social settings or to share their thoughts and feelings openly. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for reframing their top negative thoughts, such as fear of incompetence and distrust of the outside world, into more constructive emotions and actions.

Join us as we explore how neurodivergence, including potential links to the autism spectrum, can influence the Type 5 experience. We also touch on strategies for parenting and supporting Type 5 individuals, emphasizing the importance of respecting their need for privacy while gently encouraging social interaction.

For a deeper dive, check out Episode 18 on Transforming Your Thoughts, which complements this discussion on understanding and fostering growth through the Enneagram's insights into unconscious thought patterns.

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Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/category/resources/ or email me at WendyGossett.com

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Book: Your Child's Inner Drive: Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/

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