How to Co-parent and Discipline Like Pros

A Step by Step Guide for Parents Apart to Co-parent and a Guide to Discipline Kids from Toddler to 8 Years

By: Alfie Thomas

Narrated by: Helpful Matthew

Length: 6 hrs and 38 mins

Publisher's summary

One of the biggest hurdles you'll face as a co-parent is addressing your children's behavior as a united front.... Discover exactly how to do it like experts:

Over 36 percent of marriages end in divorce–and that’s healthy. When a relationship is no longer working, it’s best for both the adults and the kids if Mom and Dad go their separate ways.

Getting divorced is never easy, though, and when you have kids, it gets a whole lot harder. The problem you face is that you’re divorcing your partner–you’re not divorcing your kids–so your extra challenge is going your separate ways while still keeping your parenting team strong.

That’s where co-parenting comes in…and it’s only as difficult as you allow it to be.

With a rising amount of celebrities shining a light on how it can be done (think Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin, or Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony), you might wonder if you and your ex have it in you to remain a formidable parenting unit while you’re living two separate lives.

You absolutely do. All you need is the knowledge you have already–that your child’s needs come first…plus some handy strategies to help you navigate the hurdles you’ll bump into along the way.

That’s exactly what you’ll find in this comprehensive guide to co-parenting–complete with essential disciplining strategies for managing those tough moments. Inside, you’ll discover:

• How to approach your divorce–with a clear idea of where you want to be and how to be the best for your children every step of the way
• "Divorce grief"–what to expect, and how to navigate it
• How to start with a clean slate and move forward with positive communication–and why this is so important
• Boundaries, scheduling, and rules–how to build a fool-proof co-parenting strategy
• A deeper understanding of what your kids are going through as you and your ex find your way through your divorce
• Why it’s okay to feel angry–and how to handle it gracefully

©2022 Mirabelle Nchangnwi (P)2023 Mirabelle Nchangnwi

Great tips for a difficult task

Parenting isn't easy, co-parenting can be even more challenging. This book does a great job of addressing some of the most common difficulties that people encounter when having to co-parent. The common sense advice which isn't so common these days and the practical strategies promoted in this book would do any parent good in whatever situation they find themselves in.

So Helpful

From negotiating a productive and amicable divorce to negotiating functional parenting plans, this book is a good road map for anyone that is facing the difficult task of re-organizing their family situation. Helpful Mathew does a great job of narrating this book and the empathy and thoughtfulness of the author rings through with comforting clarity.

Useful book, recommend!

From working through the ins and outs of divorce to all the stages of parenting up to the age of 8.
A really useful book that guides you through a tough situation and supports strategies to co-parent your child at different ages.
The author is clear and no nonsense and importantly non judgemental.

Great audiobook for parents.

I love the way the author breaks down from top to bottom all the steps that start from when a child is about to get angry to how you need to end the interaction. Unfortunately all the advice from friends and family didn't work but I'm glad I found this book, thanks to simple practical tips I changed my mindset and learned how to better manage my twins' expulsive anger.

refreshing perspective

This listening serves as a poignant reminder that divorce signifies not the conclusion but rather the dawn of a new chapter for both parents and their children. Throughout, there's a consistent emphasis on the paramount importance of putting your child's needs at the forefront, functioning as a reliable guiding light for navigating tough decisions. Within its covers, you'll discover invaluable practical strategies such as the art of starting afresh with a clean slate and fostering positive communication, both indispensable for a triumphant journey in co-parenting. Furthermore, the guide delves into the often underestimated facet of "divorce grief," providing insights into what to anticipate and offering graceful strategies for managing the emotional tumult. This book comes highly recommended for any parents grappling with the transition from divorce to effective co-parenting.

Empowering and Insightful - A Must-Read for Co-Par

As a co-parent striving to navigate the complexities of shared parenting and discipline, I found "How to Co-Parent and Discipline Like Pros" to be an incredibly valuable resource. This audio book has been nothing short of transformative for me, and I believe it's a must-have for anyone in a co-parenting situation.

The authors approach the topic with a perfect blend of professional expertise and compassionate understanding. They recognize the challenges co-parents face and offer practical, real-world advice that is both encouraging and easy to implement. Each chapter is packed with actionable tips that have already made a significant difference in how my co-parent and I interact and manage discipline.

What sets this audio book apart is its focus on effective communication and mutual respect. The authors emphasize the importance of presenting a united front for the benefit of the children, which has helped us avoid the common pitfalls of mixed messages and inconsistent discipline strategies.

The narration of the audio book is excellent - clear, engaging, and pleasant to listen to. It felt like having a wise, empathetic guide by my side, walking me through the steps to better co-parenting. The real-life examples and scenarios provided were relatable and insightful, making the content even more accessible and applicable.

"Co-Parent and Discipline Like Pros" has not only improved my relationship with my co-parent but also positively impacted my children's lives. We've seen a noticeable change in their behavior and overall happiness, which is the ultimate testament to the effectiveness of the strategies discussed.

In conclusion, this audio book is a treasure trove of wisdom for co-parents. It's an empowering guide that encourages collaboration, understanding, and growth. Whether you're just starting on your co-parenting journey or looking to improve your existing relationship, this audio book is an invaluable tool. Highly recommended!

Empathetic Parenting!

Wonderful book for those who find themselves navigating the challenges of co-parenting! As a single parent who shares custody of my child, this book resonated with me on a personal level. The author's step-by-step approach and the wealth of information provided in the book are immensely practical. The first part, which focuses on co-parenting, addresses not only the dynamics between separated parents but also the impact on the children involved. The personal anecdotes and real-life examples shared in the book made it easy for me to relate and implement the co-parenting strategies effectively. The second part, discussing discipline, offers a deep understanding of parenting styles and how to navigate different age groups. Highly recommended!

enlightening and informative

I never knew there was so much involved in Divorce. Taking time to explain the different types of divorce with their pros and cons is helpful to anyone considering divorce as an option.

As far as co-parenting, I've never been a part of it, whether as a parent or child, but I've seen the effects of both the good and toxic co-parenting. This audiobook sheds a lot of light on the different situations that can arise. And how to resolve them.

The author also took the time to include the discipline aspect of parenting. This audiobook has definitely opened my eyes to the difference between punishment and discipline. As well as covers the alternative methods that work for redirecting behavior. The methods can be implemented by both parents, separately or together, as long as both parents are in agreement with the discipline style.

This audiobook is an excellent resource. The information presented is judgment-free and in plain English. The suggestions presented are actionable and not extremely difficult, provided the parents are in the right mindset, which is where the self-care comes in.

CO-PARENTING WITH EASE!!

This is a helpful guide for parents navigating divorce and co-parenting. It emphasizes the importance of putting children's needs first and provides practical strategies for maintaining a strong parenting team despite living separate lives. I appreciate the practical strategies and advice provided, especially regarding communication and setting boundaries. It offers valuable insights and tools for ensuring a positive co-parenting relationship, which is crucial for the well-being of your children. Highly recommended!

This book should be mandatory for all parents!

This book has been a guiding light for me during a challenging time. Co-parenting felt daunting, but this guide made it so much more manageable. It's packed with practical advice on communication, setting boundaries, and understanding my child's perspective. If you're navigating divorce with kids involved, this comprehensive resource is a must-read. It not only provides essential strategies but also offers much-needed emotional support.