How to Handle a Narcissist
Understanding and Dealing With a Range of Narcissistic Personalities (Narcissism Books)
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Allison Jeffery
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Theresa Jackson
About this listen
This is an informed guide founded in emotional intelligence, that will help you understand, handle, and deal with extreme narcissists. Most of us show some degree of self-enhancing tendencies, but emotional abuse, emotional blackmail, and manipulation do not form part of most people's narcissistic reactions. Taking a spectral approach to narcissism, How to Handle a Narcissist combines the latest research with real-life stories and practical advice. This guide will empower and enable you to stop emotional abuse, providing you with enough objectivity to step away from any emotional roller coaster you may be experiencing, by taking a proactive role.
Research findings will show you what works when dealing with narcissists at different points on the narcissistic spectrum, rather than only those who have narcissistic personality disorder. Whether the narcissistic person in your life is your partner, a narcissistic family member, narcissistic boss or friend, this book will help you to understand what you need to do to regain control of your boundaries, and guide the relationship in whichever direction is best for yourself and others. This book does not intend to help you become a negative influence on others, but aims instead to help you take the higher road by understanding and disarming the narcissist. In this way you are able to take back control of your boundaries and empower yourself, without compromising your values.
Here is a preview of what you’ll learn:
- Learn how to identify and differentiate between healthy and extreme narcissism, and determine how the narcissist in your life ranks for both.
- Discover how narcissism can be considered a dependence on narcissistic supply, mirroring a dependence on alcohol or other drugs.
- Find out what the narcissist wants from you.
- Discover practical research-based methods to making life easier with the narcissist.
- Hear about other people's experiences with narcissists, and what they subsequently learnt.
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- Amazon Customer
- 06-12-21
Concise and Clear
This book provided an exceptional overview of the topic and research, along with reasonable and practical strategies. A small investment of time, with an excellent return.
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- Jennifer D
- 12-28-21
Not very helpful
This book only dealt with an oversimplification of one kind of narcissist. I didn’t find it very helpful.
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- Apoliana Scoggins
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Terrible
The content is not very useful, we need more facts and teaching on how and why. I wish it was easier to return and get something else.
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