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The Butterfly Years
- A Journey Through Grief Toward Hope
- Narrated by: Katty Douraghy
- Length: 2 hrs and 57 mins
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The journey through grief is unique and does not follow a set time line or a clearly defined path.
In this raw, vulnerable memoir, Katty Douraghy chronicles her personal experience through grief after the death of six family members, including her parents and her stepparents, within a very short time frame.
The Butterfly Years infuses hope and lessons learned along the way to show a different perspective on grief and mourning. Whether you are experiencing grief in the early weeks of a loss or if your grief has transitioned over time to settle deep in your heart, The Butterfly Years reminds us that we are all on the journey through grief and toward hope together.
Katty Douraghy is an entrepreneur and facilitator whose life changed dramatically in 2011 when she started her journey through grief. Born in Iran and raised in England and the US, Katty explores the concepts of guilt and judgment and shares insights on grief and mourning across cultural expectations and customs.
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- janeal irving
- 09-21-23
Inspiring and hopeful!
Katty is wise, brilliant, tender, well researched, personal and genuine. I feel like I’ve just visited heart to heart with a dear friend. I have much to think about and am filled with introspective curiosity and peaceful hope. I look forward to beginning the butterfly years journal. Thank you for such a beautiful work!
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