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We all want other people to like us and think well of us. But when we depend on the praise, admiration, or appreciation of others for our sense of self-worth, we become trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of people-pleasing relationships where we always give and rarely receive. The most common advice we hear - Start putting your own needs first! - doesn't work, because we do love helping other people!
Thankfully, the solution to the people pleaser's "problem" isn't to fundamentally change who you are - it's to fundamentally change where you find your worth. In this freeing book, Dr. Mike Bechtle shows you stop letting your fears of rejection, criticism, invisibility, or inadequacy drive your actions and start rebuilding your sense of self-worth from the inside out. When you do, you'll discover that what you once thought of as a struggle is actually a strength.
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- Navigate Any Situation, Lead with Confidence, and Create an Impact at Work
- De: Dr. Mike Bechtle
- Narrado por: Mike Bechtle
- Duración: 5 h y 9 m
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What if you could enter any room—a business meeting, a social situation, a conference, an interview—with complete confidence, knowing just what to say and how to act, yet still be 100 percent yourself? Sound impossible? It's not. It's not even complicated. In How to Read a Room, communication expert Dr. Mike Bechtle shares his simple four-step process for accurately assessing any situation so that you can be comfortable, confident, and genuinely you.
De: Dr. Mike Bechtle
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It's Better to Bite Your Tongue than Eat Your Words
- The No-Regrets Guide to Better Conversations
- De: Dr. Mike Bechtle
- Narrado por: Mike Bechtle
- Duración: 5 h y 30 m
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Ever come away from a conversation wishing you'd said something differently, something else, or just something? We've all had conversations that took an unproductive turn or avoided conversations that really needed to happen. If you want to become a better communicator, Dr. Mike Bechtle has good news: The art of confident conversation is something you can develop through simple, repeatable habits.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Awesome Book!
- De Amazon Customer en 12-03-22
De: Dr. Mike Bechtle
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Setting Boundaries with Difficult People
- A Survival Guide for People Pleasers
- De: David J. Lieberman
- Narrado por: Sean Pratt
- Duración: 33 m
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The New York Times bestselling author, Dr. David J. Lieberman, introduces a wonderful right-to-the-point mini audiobook that tells listeners how to put an end to boundary issues once and for all! What do you do when the person on the other end of your "No" flat out refuses to accept your "No"? You'll discover exactly what to say as well as learn the underlying psychology that motivates them to always ask, and you to always give in! Plus, you'll learn step-by-step what you can do about it.
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More Christian Propaganda
- De Mike en 04-04-16
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Stop People Pleasing
- And Find Your Power
- De: Hailey Magee
- Narrado por: Hailey Magee
- Duración: 11 h
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For most of Hailey Magee’s life, people-pleasing came so naturally to her that she didn’t even have a word for it. When somebody wanted something from her—even a stranger—she gave it, no matter how uncomfortable, exhausted, or resentful she felt inside. People-pleasing, she learned, was a coping mechanism that had kept her physically and emotionally safe in the past, but wreaked havoc on her life in the present—and she was committed to breaking the pattern once and for all.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Insightful and Incredibly Relatable
- De Floyd M. Cabanada en 05-25-24
De: Hailey Magee
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Stop People Pleasing
- Be Assertive, Stop Caring What Others Think, Beat Your Guilt, & Stop Being a Pushover
- De: Patrick King
- Narrado por: Steve Campbell
- Duración: 3 h y 44 m
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Stop People Pleasing is a frank look at people-pleasing tendencies - where they come from, how they manifest, and exactly what to do about them. Most importantly, the audiobook emphasizes real, actionable tactics to change your relationship with yourself and others.
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2 out of 5 stars
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OK Material, but a little Offputting
- De MDW 77 en 04-28-20
De: Patrick King
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Where to Draw the Line
- How to Set Healthy Boundaries Every Day
- De: Anne Katherine MA
- Narrado por: Donna Postel
- Duración: 8 h y 4 m
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In the perennial favorite Boundaries, Anne Katherine introduced the concept and importance of personal limits. In Where to Draw the Line, she takes the next step with a practical guide to establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries in a wide range of situations. With every encounter, we either demonstrate that we'll protect what we value, or that we'll give ourselves away. Healthy boundaries preserve our integrity. Unlike defenses, which isolate us from our true selves and from those we love, boundaries filter out harm.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Good book mostly but breaks an important boundary
- De Olivia Aldridge en 04-28-19
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People Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Give Them the Keys
- De: Mike Bechtle
- Narrado por: Mike Bechtle
- Duración: 5 h y 32 m
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You don't have to be controlled by difficult people! Strange as it may seem, other people are not nearly as committed to our happiness as we are. In fact, sometimes it seems like they’re on a mission to make us miserable! There’s always that one person. The one who hijacks our emotions. The one who seems to thrive on drama. If we could just “fix” that person, everything would be better. But we can’t fix other people. We can only make choices about ourselves.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Riddles With Religious Overtones
- De Y. Martin en 05-22-13
De: Mike Bechtle
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You Become What You Think About
- How Your Mind Creates the World You Live in
- De: Vic Johnson
- Narrado por: Erik Synnestvedt
- Duración: 2 h y 24 m
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Without the cooperation of your subconscious - the deep recesses of your inner self - change can be difficult to impossible. You might consciously have tried to lose weight. But if your subconscious mind was fixated on fattening food and how difficult exercise was, the experience was probably a challenge or a dismal failure. Therefore, changing one or more aspects of your life can’t occur until you affect change on your subconscious.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Not recommended
- De Computer Nut en 07-30-14
De: Vic Johnson
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Loving People
- How to Love and Be Loved
- De: John Townsend
- Narrado por: Matthew Josdal
- Duración: 7 h y 34 m
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Best-selling author Dr. John Townsend teaches you that love can actually be learned and gives you the steps and tools to become skilled in love. Using his trademark stories to flesh out the important principles, Dr. Townsend covers receiving love, connecting love, healing love, confronting love, romantic love, and surrendering love. Through his teaching, listeners will discover - and start enjoying - the words, actions, and experiences of authentic love.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Very insightful
- De Amazon Customer en 05-17-19
De: John Townsend
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Loving Him without Losing You
- How to Stop Disappearing and Start Being Yourself
- De: Beverly Engel
- Narrado por: Lessa Lamb
- Duración: 12 h y 45 m
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Do you frequently find yourself putting your lover's needs ahead of your own? Do you tend to lose yourself in your romantic relationships? Have you ever neglected your career, your friends, or even your health while in the midst of a love affair? Now, in this landmark book, Beverly Engel examines the intricate reasons why so many women submerge themselves in their relationships with men - and offers a straightforward, empowering program that you can use to free yourself from the powerful grip of this all-too-common problem and rediscover yourself as a Woman of Substance.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Highly recommend
- De Hidalgo en 04-02-25
De: Beverly Engel
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From People Pleaser to Soul Pleaser
- Six Steps to Being Who You Are Meant to Be
- De: Tracy Secombe
- Narrado por: Tracy Secombe
- Duración: 5 h y 46 m
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What if you could create a life that you love? Better yet, what if you could learn to do this by tuning into your soul for guidance, instead of looking outside of yourself for approval? Your life is not your own if you always care what others think.
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3 out of 5 stars
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I wanted to like it but found it very triggering
- De gabrielle lilly en 04-27-23
De: Tracy Secombe
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The Disease to Please
- Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome
- De: Harriet Braiker
- Narrado por: Bernadette Dunne
- Duración: 4 h y 20 m
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Best-selling author and frequent Oprah guest Dr. Harriet Braiker offers help for anyone who has ever felt the resentment of giving 100 percent of themselves to others and getting nothing in return. The Disease to Please explodes the dangerous myth that “people-pleasing” is a benign problem. It is the first book to treat people pleasing as a serious psychological syndrome, and it breaks new ground in its approach to offer a cure.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Best book for People Pleasers
- De Amazon Customer en 04-05-22
De: Harriet Braiker
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The 6 Habits of Growth
- De: Brendon Burchard
- Narrado por: Brendon Burchard
- Duración: 5 h y 4 m
- Grabación Original
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The world’s leading high-performance coach and multiple New York Times best-selling author Brendon Burchard delivers the six habits of personal growth that will help you create the life of your dreams. Forged from Brendon Burchard’s personal experiences, data from his GrowthDay app, and his many years as a high-performance coach, The 6 Habits of Growth presents the tools you need to construct the life of your dreams.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Don’t bother
- De B. Sharpe en 10-30-22
De: Brendon Burchard
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Disarming the Narcissist (Third Edition)
- Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed
- De: Wendy T. Behary LCSW, Jeffrey Young PhD - foreword, Daniel J. Siegel MD - preface
- Narrado por: Joana Garcia
- Duración: 8 h y 56 m
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Now a self-help classic, Disarming the Narcissist is a practical, step-by-step communication guide to help you cope with and confront the narcissist in your life. Based on fan feedback, this fully revised and updated third edition features new information on shame, hypersexuality, and infidelity in narcissism; legal information to help you if you are divorcing a narcissist; and the impact of narcissism on children.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Makes me dislike Narcissists even more!
- De Kirsty Gastrow en 06-23-22
De: Wendy T. Behary LCSW, y otros
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Getting Past Your Past
- Take Control of Your Life With Self-Help Techniques from EMDR Therapy
- De: Francine Shapiro
- Narrado por: Karen White
- Duración: 12 h y 2 m
- Versión completa
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Whether we've experienced small setbacks or major traumas, we are all influenced by memories and experiences we may not remember or don't fully understand. Getting Past Your Past offers practical procedures that demystify the human condition and empower listeners looking to achieve real change. An easy conversational style, humor, and fascinating real life stories make it simple to understand the brain science behind why we get stuck in various ways and what we can about it.
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3 out of 5 stars
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NOT ENOUGH ON SOLUTIONS
- De MZHOLLAND en 08-20-12
De: Francine Shapiro
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Try Softer
- A Fresh Approach to Move Us out of Anxiety, Stress, and Survival Mode-and into a Life of Connection and Joy
- De: Aundi Kolber
- Narrado por: Aundi Kolber
- Duración: 5 h y 57 m
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In Try Softer, you'll learn how to: know and set emotional and relational boundaries; make sense of the difficult experiences you've had; identify your attachment style-and how that affects your relationships today; move through emotions rather than get stuck by them; and grow in self-compassion and talk back to your inner critic. Trying softer is sacred work. And while it won't be perfect or easy, it will be worth it. Because this is what we were made for: a living, breathing, moving, feeling, connected, beautifully incarnational life.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Trauma therapy simplified for us all!
- De Amazon Customer en 06-03-21
De: Aundi Kolber
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Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members
- Tools to Maintain Boundaries, Deal with Criticism, and Heal from Shame After Ties Have Been Cut
- De: Sherrie Campbell PhD, Wendy T. Behary LCSW - foreword
- Narrado por: Sherrie Campbell
- Duración: 7 h y 13 m
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Do you have a toxic family member? Do you feel like cutting ties with this person—even as painful and scary as that may sound—would dramatically increase your well-being and improve your life? You're not alone. In Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members, psychologist and toxic family survivor Sherrie Campbell offers effective strategies for setting strong boundaries after ending contact with a toxic family member, and provides powerful tools to help you heal from shame, self-doubt, and stigma. You'll find the validation you need to embrace your decision with pride.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Taking my power back
- De INDIGENOUSLY EDS en 04-13-24
De: Sherrie Campbell PhD, y otros
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- Mommy_3
- 06-22-23
Great book very helpful!!!
I really wish I had read this book in my twenties! It was very helpful. I took a lot away from it.
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- Josh
- 02-20-23
Loved it!
It came at a pivotal time for me. I’ve been needing to make some changes and this book has been helping me to see clearly what are my motives behind each decision I make. I’m going to buy the actual book to go through it again. This will be a process but I’m grateful for the help to see more clearly.
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- Janet Hash
- 12-31-22
What is a good fit worth reading?
It is a good book.
That was good information. I think I would recommend it to be worthwhile to read.
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- Ricszy
- 05-21-21
Worth the Listen or Read!
The author lists some very practical tips for people pleasers! I will be purchasing the actual paperback after listening to the Audible version.
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- bob
- 09-26-23
It should be noted that this is good for business
The business aspects in the closing chapters for either entrepreneurship or sales are very clear and encouraging.
Well worded!
Thank you very much
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- Cathleen
- 02-22-21
So helpful!!
Loved this positive, encouraging and resourceful book. It gives insight to the challenges and strengths of a people pleaser and then a plan to bring about healthy change and perspective! I am sure I will be returning to the material to listen again as change is implemented!
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- robertgadea
- 02-20-22
l loved it
It's been the first book i've listed to from this author and I love it. There is a lot of powerful information and advise here. I recommend this book. :)
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- Jetton R HUGHES
- 09-05-22
Fantastic read for someone wanting to change
Take the time to read this audible. The book is so insightful and will push you to change day by day.
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- Carrie
- 06-06-22
worth the read
Was a good read/listen. insightful and relative. Will listen again. Thanks fir sharing your knowledge.
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- Sheri Hart
- 06-24-21
Life changing
I'm reading again today. It was like it was straight up written for me. Now to do the work. Thanks for this book!!!
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