• Navigating Challenges: The Opportunity Cost of Not Taking Action
    Aug 15 2024

    In this episode, Kelsey dives into the concept of challenges and their role in personal growth and evolution. She shares insights on how challenges can propel us forward and the importance of recognizing the opportunity cost of not taking them on. Kelsey discusses four essential questions to ask yourself when deciding whether to embrace a challenge: Will it bring you closer to your goals? Can the same result be achieved another way? Does the challenge help you develop desired skills? What might you miss out on if you don’t pursue it? Through these reflections, Kelsey encourages listeners to embrace growth, evaluate their paths, and take actionable steps toward personal development.

    TIMESTAMPS

    [00:00] Introduction: Embracing Challenges

    [01:08] Navigating Life's Seasons

    [02:50] Four Key Questions for Self-Improvement

    [02:58] Question 1: Will This Get Me Closer to My Goal?

    [04:27] Question 2: Is There an Easier Way?

    [05:19] Question 3: Skill Development and Desired Results

    [07:13] Question 4: What Am I Missing Out On?

    [09:27] Practical Examples and Final Thoughts

    [11:39] Conclusion: Taking Action and Evolving

    Achieve your goal in 60-days through the DREAM goals program and group accelerator!

    https://mommahasgoals.com/dream-goals


    CONNECT WITH KELSEY

    Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

    Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

    Download the app for Apple or Android

    Learn more at https://mommahasgoals.com/

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    13 mins
  • Counting Your Own Steps in Your Goals and Motherhood with Lisa Boettcher
    Aug 13 2024

    In this episode, we revisit the launch event of Momma Has Goals. Held in 2022, featuring a motivational speech by Lisa Boettcher. The event aimed to re-imagine mom life and empower mothers to pursue their goals, whether personal or professional. Lisa shares her journey of overcoming challenges, trusting her intuition, and taking meaningful steps toward her passion. The episode encourages listeners to define their own goals and to join the Dream Goals program for guidance and support over the next 60 days.

    [00:00] Introduction

    [01:09] The Launch Event and Initial Success

    [02:09] Guest Speaker: Lisa Boettcher's Inspiring Message

    [05:37] Lisa's Personal Story and Fun Facts

    [12:07] Steps to Achieving Your Goals

    [19:54] Empowerment and Taking the Next Step

    [27:14] Conclusion and Invitation to Dream Goals Program


    The DREAM Goals Program: https://mommahasgoals.com/dream-goals


    CONNECT WITH LISA

    https://lisaboettcher.com/

    Follow: @lisa.boettcher


    CONNECT WITH KELSEY

    Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

    Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

    Download the app for Apple or Android

    Learn more at https://mommahasgoals.com/


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    29 mins
  • Knowing When to Enter the Show Ring: Taking Small Steps and Finding Your Path
    Aug 8 2024

    In this episode, Kelsey shares how taking small steps and immersing yourself in a supportive community can help you achieve your goals. Using her son's experience at the county fair as an example, she illustrates the process of witnessing, learning, and taking action. Kelsey emphasizes the importance of finding your own path and not getting stuck searching for answers from others. She introduces the Dream Goals framework, which guides you to define success, research your needs, engineer the right path, act, and monitor your progress. Join Kelsey as she inspires you to take meaningful steps toward your goals, appreciate the journey, and thrive within a supportive community.

    TIMESTAMPS

    [00:00]Introduction and Setting the Stage

    [02:23] Witnessing, Learning, and Taking Action

    [06:05] Being the Representation

    [09:44] Embracing the Unknown

    [13:02] The Dream Goals Framework

    [15:46] Appreciating the Journey

    [18:36] Invitation to Join the Dream Goals Program

    Achieve your goal in 60-days through the DREAM goals program and group accelerator!

    https://mommahasgoals.com/dream-goals


    CONNECT WITH KELSEY

    Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

    Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

    Download the app for Apple or Android

    Learn more at https://mommahasgoals.com/

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    19 mins
  • Intimacy After Postpartum: Self-Love and Empowerment with Mandela Linder
    Aug 6 2024

    In this episode, Kelsey and special guest Mandela Linder explore postpartum emotions, the surprises of motherhood, and the importance of self-love and intimacy. They share personal stories about prioritizing well-being and emotional presence, even when it’s not perfect. Mandela talks about becoming intimate with oneself and loving your postpartum body. They also discuss balancing people-pleasing with maintaining healthy boundaries and nurturing the couple’s relationship for the family’s benefit. The conversation covers the benefits of sex and intimacy coaching, finding a coach whose values align with yours, and how holistic coaching can empower you in all areas of life. They emphasize modeling healthy communication and boundaries for children and the impact of speaking the same love language as your partner. Join Kelsey and Mandela for an inspiring conversation celebrating motherhood, self-love, and the importance of connection in building strong, fulfilling relationships.

    What you'll hear in this episode:

    [00:00] Introduction and Postpartum Roller Coaster

    [03:17] Self-Love and Intimacy: Prioritizing Emotional Well-being

    [06:32] Becoming Intimate with Yourself and Your Partner

    [09:01] Self-Love and Acceptance: Breaking Beauty Standards

    [11:57] Loving and Appreciating Your Postpartum Body

    [15:24] Maintaining Boundaries and Avoiding People-Pleasing

    [17:47] The Importance of Prioritizing the Couple's Relationship

    [23:37]The Transformative and Beautiful Aspects of Motherhood

    [26:04] The Role of Sex Coaching and Intimacy Coaching in Relationships

    [29:48] What You Should Know About Sex Coaching and Intimacy Coaching

    [35:10] Speaking the Same Love Language as Your Partner

    [40:04] Embracing Your Power as a Mother and Partner

    [42:49] Practicing Self-Love, Communication, and Connection in Relationships


    CONNECT WITH MANDELA

    https://mandelalinder.com/

    Follow Madela: @mandela_linder


    CONNECT WITH KELSEY

    Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

    Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

    Download the app for Apple or Android

    Learn more at https://mommahasgoals.com/

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    42 mins
  • Kickstart Your August Goals: The 5 Steps to Success
    Aug 1 2024

    As we kick off a new month, I’m thrilled to dive into the energy you’re bringing into the end of summer. This is a perfect time to restart, refresh, and focus on what’s on your heart. What do you want to accomplish in this season? In today’s episode, I’m sharing a recording from our recent community masterclass where we talked about not just setting goals but actually achieving them.

    TIME STAMPS

    [00:00] Introduction and Background

    [07:00] Overview of The 5 Teachings

    [11:00] Defining Your Goal

    [20:00] Building Your Resource Tool Kit

    [27:00] The #1 Reason People Don't Accomplish Their Goals

    [30:00] How to Speed Up Your Success

    [33:00] Stay Present While Reaching For More

    [37:00] The DREAM Goal Framework

    Learn more about the DREAM Goal Accelerator

    https://mommahasgoals.com/dream


    Join the Next Success Secrets Workshop:

    https://mommahasgoals.com/success-secrets


    CONNECT WITH KELSEY

    Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

    Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

    Download the app for Apple or Android

    Learn more at https://mommahasgoals.com/

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    44 mins
  • Transforming Relationships through Love Languages and Paving Your Own Path in Motherhood with Charise Freeman
    Jul 30 2024

    In this episode, Charise Freeman shares her journey of motherhood and the crucial role of finding supportive resources for both herself and her daughter. She discusses the transformative impact of understanding and applying love languages in their relationship, emphasizing how these can evolve over time. Charise offers practical strategies for using love languages with younger children and creating effective family systems. Additionally, she talks about her passion for helping others navigate trauma and build stronger parent-child connections. Tune in for valuable insights and resources to enhance your relationship with your children.

    What you'll hear in this episode:

    [00:00] The Power of Community and Connections

    [04:17] Transforming Relationships through Love Languages

    [20:30] Navigating Love Languages with Children of Different Ages

    [25:16]The Power of Love Languages

    [27:15] Effective Communication and Setting Boundaries

    [31:46] Building Self-Confidence and Advocating for Your Needs

    [38:24] Practical Strategies for Implementing Love Languages

    [41:30] Creating Systems to Distribute Responsibilities

    [ 45:21]Navigating Trauma and Building Stronger Connections


    CONNECT WITH CHARISE

    Follow: @growinginlovetogether

    Charise's free love language guide: https://mommahasgoals.com/resource/connection-with-your-family-utilizing-love-languages-beyond-with-charise-freeman/


    CONNECT WITH KELSEY

    Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

    Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

    Download the app for Apple or Android

    Learn more at https://mommahasgoals.com/

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    46 mins
  • Consistency Does Not Equal Perfection: Learning Through Messy Action
    Jul 25 2024

    In this episode, Kelsey shares an aha moment she had about taking action on goals, even when things aren't perfect. She talks about how we often hold ourselves back from taking action because we're waiting for the perfect conditions. She emphasizes the importance of embracing imperfection and taking messy action. Kelsey uses examples from her own life, such as recording a podcast with background noise and keeping a clean home, and how this shows up for our kids too! She encourages listeners to push past their fear of imperfection and take action toward their goals.

    TIMESTAMPS

    [00:00] Introduction: Aha Moment

    [02:25] Embracing Imperfection

    [05:14] Don't Wait for Perfect Conditions

    [08:06] Learning Through Messy Action

    [10:59] Consistency vs. Perfection

    [13:11] Taking Action Now

    [15:25] Creating What's on the Other Side

    [17:34] Conclusion: Success Secrets Workshop

    Upcoming FREE Success Secrets Workshop

    https://mommahasgoals.com/goal-workshop


    CONNECT WITH KELSEY

    Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

    Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

    Download the app for Apple or Android

    Learn more at https://mommahasgoals.com/

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    19 mins
  • Recognizing and Managing Burnout in Motherhood with Abbey Sangmeister
    Jul 23 2024

    In this episode we're chatting about the importance of slowing down and being present in motherhood to avoid burnout. We discuss how to reframe activities like feeding and getting ready as opportunities for connection and mindfulness. We also touch on the difference between being tired and burnt out. Abbey provides practical tips for managing overwhelm, such as giving yourself permission to slow down, incorporating self-care activities, and seeking support. Abbey emphasizes the need to find balance and prioritize what truly brings joy and fulfillment, rather than succumbing to societal expectations. We discuss the challenges of motherhood and how to navigate fear and decision-making as a parent. We explore the importance of slowing down, being honest with children about fears, and teaching them coping mechanisms. Abbey shares her journey of becoming a single mom by choice through IVF and offers advice for others considering this path. We also discuss the surprises and joys of motherhood and the need to prioritize self-care and enjoy the journey.

    What you'll hear in this episode:

    [00:00] Slowing Down and Finding Connection

    [04:27] Recognizing and Managing Burnout

    [06:35] Practical Tips for Self-Care and Support

    [18:51] Finding Balance and Prioritizing Joy

    [32:57] Navigating Fear and Decision-Making in Motherhood

    [36:01] Allowing Kids to Experience Life While Managing Fear

    [38:48] Balancing Risk and Reward in Parenting Choices

    [54:01] The Surprises and Joys of Motherhood

    [57:36] Prioritizing Self-Care and Enjoying the Journey

    [59:22] Seeking Support: Therapy and Coaching for Moms

    CONNECT WITH ABBEY

    Follow: @Evolvingwhole

    www.evolvingwhole.com

    Ambitious Mamas Collective: https://evolvingwhole.ck.page/05e545fcdd

    CONNECT WITH KELSEY

    Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

    Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

    Download the app for Apple or Android

    Learn more at https://mommahasgoals.com/

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    56 mins