Feeling called to coach but still questioning whether you're actually ready to do this?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down the three non-negotiables every coach has to master if you want to feel confident in sessions, trust that you can actually help your clients, and build a coaching business that makes real money—not just one that looks good on Instagram.

So many women doubt themselves not because they aren't capable, but because they don't yet have the structure, skills, or reps that create real confidence. Today, I'm giving you a high-level look at the three foundations I see in every successful coach—and why skipping even one of them is what keeps so many people stuck in fear, imposter syndrome, or overthinking every session.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/the-confident-coach-certification

What I Discuss:

• 05:29 The Three Cs of Coaching Mastery
• 07:02 Why confidence isn't something you "think" your way into, and how it actually comes from knowing your role as a coach and leading sessions with presence.
• 09:57 Structure, skill, and why winging it in sessions is the fastest way to lose trust in yourself and your clients
• 12:56 How practice, repetition, and real feedback create the kind of certainty that makes coaching feel calm instead of terrifying
• 17:17 How these three Cs are the foundation of the Confident Coach Certification and what it really takes to feel prepared, grounded, and legit as a coach

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

When a coaching session ends and you're left wondering, "Did I actually help her?"—this episode is for you.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down why coaching sessions sometimes feel flat (even when nothing technically went "wrong") and what's really happening beneath the surface when that doubt creeps in. I share the most common reasons sessions stall, what not to do when that happens, and how to confidently lead the conversation so you don't leave second-guessing yourself. We're talking about coaching leadership, structure, and how to re-anchor a session in real time—without forcing emotion, over-talking, or jumping into advice.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• Listen to Episode 449. The Difference Between a Coaching Conversation and a Chat Between Friends: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/449-the-difference-between-a-coaching-conversation/id1577282350?i=1000745718161

What I Discuss:

• 02:41 Why "flat" sessions are one of the most common coaching fears
• 03:22 What's actually happening when a session feels stuck
• 03:53 The three main reasons coaching conversations lose momentum
• 06:13 What not to do when you feel a session going off the rails
• 07:38 How to pause, reset, and guide the conversation forward
• 09:03 Why leadership—not intensity—is the key to powerful coaching
• 11:29 How to re-anchor a session without rescuing or over-explaining

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

If your coaching sessions feel supportive but you're not sure they're actually moving the needle, this episode will clear things up fast.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the biggest things that trips new coaches up: confusing a coaching conversation with a chat between friends. I talk about why this happens, how it affects your confidence, and what actually separates powerful coaching from well-meaning advice. We'll also get into the two fear buckets I see come up all the time for coaches, and why intentional leadership—not fixing or rescuing—is what creates real client transformation.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Listen to Episode 448. Why "Just Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice for New Coaches: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/448-why-just-be-yourself-is-terrible-advice-for-new-coaches/id1577282350?i=1000745266037
• Listen to Episode 447. What Coaching Sessions Actually Look Like (It's Simpler Than You Think): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/447-what-coaching-sessions-actually-look-like-its-simpler/id1577282350?i=1000744782104

What I Discuss:

• 02:57 The two main fear buckets that show up for coaches and how they quietly impact your sessions
• 04:23 The real difference between coaching and giving advice (and why it matters)
• 11:08 What intentional leadership actually looks like inside a coaching session
• 18:29 Final thoughts on why coaching isn't about fixing, rescuing, or overperforming

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Being told to "just be yourself" sounds supportive… until you're sitting in a live coaching session wondering what to say next and whether you're even helping the person in front of you.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down why "just be yourself" is actually some of the most misleading advice new coaches receive—and how it can quietly create more anxiety, overthinking, and imposter syndrome than confidence.

If you've been winging your sessions, second-guessing yourself afterward, or wondering if you're cut out for coaching at all, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• Listen to Episode 446. "Am I Even Helping My Clients?" Here's How to Tell: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/446-am-i-even-helping-my-clients-heres-how-to-tell/id1577282350?i=1000744263901
• Listen to Episode 447. What Coaching Sessions Actually Look Like (It's Simpler Than You Think): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/447-what-coaching-sessions-actually-look-like-its-simpler/id1577282350?i=1000744782104

What I Discuss:

• 02:47 Why "just be yourself" sounds supportive but often creates more confusion
• 04:23 How lack of structure leads to overthinking and post-session spirals
• 11:06 What actually builds confidence inside a coaching session
• 13:47 How competence (not vibes) is what calms your nervous system as a coach

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Coaching can feel intimidating—not because it's complicated, but because no one really explains what actually happens in a session.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm pulling back the curtain on what coaching sessions really look like and why they're far less intimidating than most new coaches imagine. We talk about the fear that comes up when you can't hide behind a screen, why that fear doesn't mean you're unqualified, and how having a simple, repeatable flow can completely change how confident you feel in the room. I also walk you through the three core phases of a coaching session, what your role actually is (and isn't), and how to stay in integrity without overstepping into therapy or advice-giving.

If you've been curious about coaching but feel stuck because you don't know what to say, how to lead, or how not to freeze in the moment, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Listen to Episode 446. "Am I Even Helping My Clients?" Here's How to Tell: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/446-am-i-even-helping-my-clients-heres-how-to-tell/id1577282350?i=1000744263901
• Listen to Episode 439. How to Ask Powerful Coaching Questions That Lead to Real Client Transformations (Even If You Feel Inexperienced): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/439-how-to-ask-powerful-coaching-questions-that-lead/id1577282350?i=1000741330260
• Listen to Episode 435. How to Handle Breakdowns in a Coaching Session (And Turn Them Into Breakthroughs): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/435-how-to-handle-breakdowns-in-a-coaching-session/id1577282350?i=1000739098630

What I Discuss:

• 02:31 Why fear around live coaching sessions is so common and why it actually means you care
• 04:51 Normalizing the fear of "being on the hook" in real sessions
• 07:04 The simple flow most confident coaching sessions follow
• 09:15 The three main phases of a coaching session (without scripts or pressure)
• 13:00 How to stay in integrity and avoid overstepping your role

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever walked away from a coaching session wondering if you actually helped…or if you just had a "nice conversation"?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the most common fears I hear from new (and even experienced) coaches: How do I know if my coaching is actually working? We're moving out of fear and into evidence, and I'm sharing practical, real-life ways to recognize client progress without overcomplicating it or turning coaching into a data-tracking nightmare.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026

What I Discuss:

• 02:57 Why so many coaches secretly fear they're not actually helping their clients
• 03:51 How to tell if your coaching is working (without overthinking it or needing a spreadsheet)
• 05:43 The three subtle but powerful shifts that signal real client transformation
• 09:19 Simple ways to track progress that don't turn coaching into therapy or data collection
• 11:39 Why awareness alone can be a massive win for your clients

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever felt called to coach but noticed a quiet fear creeping in the moment you imagine actually doing it? Not just fear of being seen—but fear of messing it up, getting it wrong, or being exposed?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm unpacking what's really underneath that fear so many new coaches feel. We talk about why confidence issues usually aren't about confidence at all, how coaching isn't about fixing people but guiding them, and why caring deeply can actually make the fear feel louder—not smaller. I also share how learning real coaching skills and structure changes everything, and why you don't have to eliminate fear before you start—you just need to understand it.

If you've been wanting to coach but keep hesitating because you're scared you'll do it wrong or won't be good enough, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 03:21 The deeper fears that show up as "confidence problems"
• 05:58 Why coaching isn't about fixing—but guiding
• 09:19 The fear of being exposed and what's really driving it
• 12:55 A free coaching bootcamp to help you build real skills
• 14:17 Final encouragement if fear has been holding you back

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Today, I'm having a very real, very honest conversation with you about what it actually takes to build a coaching business that works—without sugarcoating it, especially if you want to start coaching this 2026. This is the kind of tough-love talk I wish someone had given me earlier, and I'm sharing it now because 2026 deserves a different version of you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 00:37 A tough-love truth about why you didn't hit your goals
• 01:49 Why winging it keeps your coaching business stuck
• 04:26 How fear and imposter syndrome actually show up (and slow you down)
• 07:00 Why confidence comes from structure and reps—not hype
• 13:11 Final motivation as you look ahead to 2026

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com