If your coaching sessions feel supportive but you're not sure they're actually moving the needle, this episode will clear things up fast.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the biggest things that trips new coaches up: confusing a coaching conversation with a chat between friends. I talk about why this happens, how it affects your confidence, and what actually separates powerful coaching from well-meaning advice. We'll also get into the two fear buckets I see come up all the time for coaches, and why intentional leadership—not fixing or rescuing—is what creates real client transformation.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Listen to Episode 448. Why "Just Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice for New Coaches: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/448-why-just-be-yourself-is-terrible-advice-for-new-coaches/id1577282350?i=1000745266037
• Listen to Episode 447. What Coaching Sessions Actually Look Like (It's Simpler Than You Think): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/447-what-coaching-sessions-actually-look-like-its-simpler/id1577282350?i=1000744782104

What I Discuss:

• 02:57 The two main fear buckets that show up for coaches and how they quietly impact your sessions
• 04:23 The real difference between coaching and giving advice (and why it matters)
• 11:08 What intentional leadership actually looks like inside a coaching session
• 18:29 Final thoughts on why coaching isn't about fixing, rescuing, or overperforming

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Being told to "just be yourself" sounds supportive… until you're sitting in a live coaching session wondering what to say next and whether you're even helping the person in front of you.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down why "just be yourself" is actually some of the most misleading advice new coaches receive—and how it can quietly create more anxiety, overthinking, and imposter syndrome than confidence.

If you've been winging your sessions, second-guessing yourself afterward, or wondering if you're cut out for coaching at all, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• Listen to Episode 446. "Am I Even Helping My Clients?" Here's How to Tell: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/446-am-i-even-helping-my-clients-heres-how-to-tell/id1577282350?i=1000744263901
• Listen to Episode 447. What Coaching Sessions Actually Look Like (It's Simpler Than You Think): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/447-what-coaching-sessions-actually-look-like-its-simpler/id1577282350?i=1000744782104

What I Discuss:

• 02:47 Why "just be yourself" sounds supportive but often creates more confusion
• 04:23 How lack of structure leads to overthinking and post-session spirals
• 11:06 What actually builds confidence inside a coaching session
• 13:47 How competence (not vibes) is what calms your nervous system as a coach

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Coaching can feel intimidating—not because it's complicated, but because no one really explains what actually happens in a session.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm pulling back the curtain on what coaching sessions really look like and why they're far less intimidating than most new coaches imagine. We talk about the fear that comes up when you can't hide behind a screen, why that fear doesn't mean you're unqualified, and how having a simple, repeatable flow can completely change how confident you feel in the room. I also walk you through the three core phases of a coaching session, what your role actually is (and isn't), and how to stay in integrity without overstepping into therapy or advice-giving.

If you've been curious about coaching but feel stuck because you don't know what to say, how to lead, or how not to freeze in the moment, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Listen to Episode 446. "Am I Even Helping My Clients?" Here's How to Tell: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/446-am-i-even-helping-my-clients-heres-how-to-tell/id1577282350?i=1000744263901
• Listen to Episode 439. How to Ask Powerful Coaching Questions That Lead to Real Client Transformations (Even If You Feel Inexperienced): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/439-how-to-ask-powerful-coaching-questions-that-lead/id1577282350?i=1000741330260
• Listen to Episode 435. How to Handle Breakdowns in a Coaching Session (And Turn Them Into Breakthroughs): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/435-how-to-handle-breakdowns-in-a-coaching-session/id1577282350?i=1000739098630

What I Discuss:

• 02:31 Why fear around live coaching sessions is so common and why it actually means you care
• 04:51 Normalizing the fear of "being on the hook" in real sessions
• 07:04 The simple flow most confident coaching sessions follow
• 09:15 The three main phases of a coaching session (without scripts or pressure)
• 13:00 How to stay in integrity and avoid overstepping your role

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever walked away from a coaching session wondering if you actually helped…or if you just had a "nice conversation"?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the most common fears I hear from new (and even experienced) coaches: How do I know if my coaching is actually working? We're moving out of fear and into evidence, and I'm sharing practical, real-life ways to recognize client progress without overcomplicating it or turning coaching into a data-tracking nightmare.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026

What I Discuss:

• 02:57 Why so many coaches secretly fear they're not actually helping their clients
• 03:51 How to tell if your coaching is working (without overthinking it or needing a spreadsheet)
• 05:43 The three subtle but powerful shifts that signal real client transformation
• 09:19 Simple ways to track progress that don't turn coaching into therapy or data collection
• 11:39 Why awareness alone can be a massive win for your clients

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever felt called to coach but noticed a quiet fear creeping in the moment you imagine actually doing it? Not just fear of being seen—but fear of messing it up, getting it wrong, or being exposed?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm unpacking what's really underneath that fear so many new coaches feel. We talk about why confidence issues usually aren't about confidence at all, how coaching isn't about fixing people but guiding them, and why caring deeply can actually make the fear feel louder—not smaller. I also share how learning real coaching skills and structure changes everything, and why you don't have to eliminate fear before you start—you just need to understand it.

If you've been wanting to coach but keep hesitating because you're scared you'll do it wrong or won't be good enough, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 03:21 The deeper fears that show up as "confidence problems"
• 05:58 Why coaching isn't about fixing—but guiding
• 09:19 The fear of being exposed and what's really driving it
• 12:55 A free coaching bootcamp to help you build real skills
• 14:17 Final encouragement if fear has been holding you back

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Today, I'm having a very real, very honest conversation with you about what it actually takes to build a coaching business that works—without sugarcoating it, especially if you want to start coaching this 2026. This is the kind of tough-love talk I wish someone had given me earlier, and I'm sharing it now because 2026 deserves a different version of you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 00:37 A tough-love truth about why you didn't hit your goals
• 01:49 Why winging it keeps your coaching business stuck
• 04:26 How fear and imposter syndrome actually show up (and slow you down)
• 07:00 Why confidence comes from structure and reps—not hype
• 13:11 Final motivation as you look ahead to 2026

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever looked at how much work you're doing in your coaching business and thought, "Why am I so busy but still not getting clients?" If so, this episode is going to hit home.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down something I see all the time with new (and even not-so-new) coaches: staying busy with tasks that feel productive, but don't actually move the needle. We talk about why talking to real humans can feel way more intimidating than creating content or Canva graphics, what I call "safe productivity," and why confidence as a coach doesn't come from posting more.

If you've been doing all the things but still feel stuck, avoiding real conversations, or wondering why your effort isn't translating into clients, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 01:39 Why talking to real humans can feel scarier than posting content
• 04:38 The difference between safe productivity and real coaching work
• 08:11 How confidence is built through reps, structure, and practice
• 12:43 Final encouragement if you've been hiding behind busy work

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

In this episode, I talk about a question I hear all the time from women who want to coach but feel stuck: Do I need to be fully healed before I'm allowed to help someone else? Especially around the holidays—when emotions, reflection, grief, and hope can all collide—this doubt gets even louder.

If you've been feeling pulled to coach but keep stopping yourself because you're still healing, growing, or rebuilding, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Listen to The Confident Coach Secret Podcast Series: https://products.ambershaw.com/confident-coach

What I Discuss:

• 00:54 Why the holidays can bring up doubt, reflection, and big questions about what's next
• 02:15 Feeling the desire to coach while still navigating your own growth
• 04:12 The self-doubt that stops so many women from getting started
• 09:03 Why structure, practice, and boundaries matter more than being "fully healed"
• 15:42 A free gift to help you take the next step without waiting for perfection

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com