• 385: Consider a Do Over
    Sep 24 2024

    Ever wished you could hit a "reset" button on a conversation gone wrong? 🔄

    I sure have! This week on the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast, I'm diving into the concept of a "do over" and sharing a personal story that might just change the way you approach misunderstandings.

    A couple of weeks ago, a simple misunderstanding about a dentist appointment spiraled into unnecessary frustration between me and my husband. Instead of letting it ruin our day, I proposed a "do over" – literally reenacting the conversation to see if we could handle it differently. 😲

    Curious to see how it turned out? Click here to tune into this week's episode and discover the power of resetting your reactions. You might just find yourself inspired to press "reset" the next time a conversation doesn't go as planned!

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    11 mins
  • 384: The Value of Self-Reflection
    Sep 17 2024

    This week on the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast, we're exploring the transformative power of self-reflection. I've been emphasizing how taking a moment to pause and consider our actions and thoughts can significantly impact our personal growth and awareness. 🤔

    In line with this theme, I'm excited to share a special episode featuring Jamie, a valued member of one of my communities. Jamie has graciously allowed us to delve into her journey of self-reflection and the profound changes it has brought to her life. 🌱

    Tune in to hear Jamie's story and discover how you, too, can harness the power of self-reflection to foster growth and make more mindful choices in life.

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    7 mins
  • 383: Consider How Important It Is
    Sep 10 2024

    Ever find yourself on the brink of a kitchen squabble over something as simple as boiling eggs?

    That happened to me recently, and it turned into an unexpected lesson in managing frustrations and choosing my battles.

    In the midst of me boiling some eggs, my husband came in out of nowhere and decided to switch pots to save energy—a small action that unexpectedly sparked a big internal reaction from me.

    I'm curious - would this have annoyed you?

    How do you think you would have reacted?

    Tune in to this week's "You Can Handle Anything" podcast to hear how I handle this very irritating situation with the help of The unSTUCK Method.

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    12 mins
  • 382: This World Needs to Take a STOP
    Sep 3 2024

    This week's episode of the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast will be different. After the heart-wrenching news of the execution of six hostages in Israel, including Hersh Goldberg-Polin, a friend of friends, I found myself deeply affected.

    In light of this, I invite you to join me in taking a moment to pause—a stop that feels necessary right now, not just for me but perhaps for many of us. 🌍

    In this episode, I share some music I've recently created, intended to accompany our moment of reflection.

    Thank you for your understanding, and I look forward to reconnecting with you next week.

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    11 mins
  • 381: Living from Possibility
    Aug 27 2024

    In this episode, I talk about living from possibility. Living from possibility means envisioning a better reality and actively shaping interactions to be more positive. It's about seeing past the cycle of negative experiences and using proactive communication to transform relationships. Embracing this approach can lead to more fulfilling connections, helping you move from conflict to harmony with confidence and ease.

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    7 mins
  • 380: Getting Stuck and Feeling Shame
    Aug 20 2024

    In this podcast episode, I explore the common yet often unspoken issue of shame that many people feel when confronting negative emotions, getting emotionally stuck, or facing relationship problems. It's incredibly normal to feel embarrassed about needing tools to manage one's emotional health, but this shame is truly unnecessary.

    Once individuals join a supportive community, they quickly realize that everyone faces similar challenges, and there is great power and relief in shared experiences. By acknowledging and accepting these feelings openly, members can move past shame and work towards genuine improvement and empowerment together. This collective journey highlights the universality of emotional struggles and the benefits of facing them head-on.

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    8 mins
  • 379: Use the Tool - It Works When You Use It!
    Aug 13 2024

    Have you ever signed up for a gym membership full of enthusiasm, only to see it go unused?

    That’s exactly what sometimes happens when it comes to using The unSTUCK Method. We know it's there, we know it can help us, we know it's within our reach and yet, we sometimes forget to use it.

    In this week’s "You Can Handle Anything!" podcast, I explain why embracing The unSTUCK Method in your daily life is essential for making real changes in how you respond to life’s emotional challenges.

    It's not just about knowing the steps, it's about actually applying them to your life.

    Every emotional situation is unique, and using the method consistently helps you navigate these effectively.

    This is a short episode in a 5-week series I created this month that came out of a recent conversation I had with a woman named Lisa.

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    7 mins
  • 378: Language and Your Well-Being
    Aug 6 2024

    In this podcast episode, I discuss the significant role of language in managing emotions and enhancing well-being. The term "stuck" is pivotal in my approach; recognizing when you're "stuck" on an emotion is crucial because it signals that there's a method to help you move forward. I encourage rephrasing emotional states, such as changing "I'm angry" to "I'm stuck on anger," to remind ourselves that emotions are temporary states we can navigate through.

    The ability to articulate feelings accurately not only helps in identifying emotions but also in adopting new perspectives to shift them. This mastery of language and its application in everyday life, as shared through personal and family experiences, underscores how powerful and transformative clear communication can be in resolving emotional challenges.

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    8 mins