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No matter how hard we try, many of us struggle to make love work with our partners. The problem, as clinical psychologist Dr. Ron Frederick explains, is that our brains are running on outdated software. Without us knowing it, our early relationship programming causes us to fear being more emotionally present and authentic with our partners - precisely what’s needed to build loving connections. But we don’t have to remain prisoners to our past.

What if we could learn to accept I don't know and embrace the possibility that the future is full of mystery, excitement, and unlimited opportunity? The Art of Uncertainty is an invitation to the listener to consider its essential message: learning to love the unknown by staying present in the moment....The only thing we can control is our next thought. What if we could learn how to be at peace with uncertainty and embrace the possibility that the future is full of mystery, excitement, and unlimited opportunity?

Social anxiety and shyness are a problem for many. With so much technology, it’s like we forget how to talk or interact with another face to face. Think back to the last time you considered approaching someone, but for some reason you didn’t. Even though you had something to say, you just couldn’t bring yourself to speak those words.

Conflict is everywhere—in our homes, at work, on our social media feeds. But conflict isn't inherently bad. in fact, it's a normal and healthy part of human relationships, but many of us aren't good at managing conflict in our everyday lives. In The Secret to Getting Along (And Why it's Easier Than You Think!), attorney Gabrielle Hartley brings more than two decades of divorce mediation experience to helping you learn how to resolve conflict in ways that strengthen your relationships, reflect your values, and lead to positive outcomes for everyone involved.

Ask for It explains why it's essential to ask (men do it all the time) and teaches you how to ask effectively, in ways that feel comfortable to you as a woman. Whether you currently avoid negotiating like the plague or consider yourself hard-charging and fearless, Babcock and Laschever's compelling stories of real women will help you recognize how much more you deserve.

So the question remains – is it possible to read people accurately and respond adequately to their signals? The answer is an obvious yes. You will, however, need to engage in some self-analysis and you’ll also have to pay attention to others. Once you become more present in everyday interactions, you will begin pinpointing cues and patterns of behavior that reveal a ton more than spoken word will ever be capable of.

Studies show that people who are good with words and can read other people’s emotions, needs, and vulnerabilities are more likely to get things done their way and live the life they’ve always wanted. That’s because those people have worked on their abilities to persuade and psychologically manipulate people around them with the most powerful mind-controlling techniques.

Gaining friends and influencing people need not be hard. You just have to be smart about what you do and don’t allow people known about you. Learn about introversion versus extroversion as well as the other preferences that shape the image people have about you. Understand your own decision-making process and how it’s reflected in your actions. This book will take you through reading body language and facial expressions - both macro and micro - in order to determine when someone is hiding something, lying, or just feeling plain nervous.

What Is It Costing You Not to Listen? will encourage you to examine how you are listening. You’ll discover that not only are many of the problems in your life due to not listening effectively, but listening helps to solve most problems. Christine Miles is a longtime expert in educating individuals and organizations on how to listen in ways that transform how they lead, sell, influence, and succeed in every aspect of life. Following the steps of her breakthrough Listening Path™ will provide you with a critical key to your success—understanding.

The enneagram is an effective personality classification system that describes the characteristics, behaviors, and core values of nine different personality types - enneatypes - each identified by a number. The Enneagram & You helps you identify your personality type so you can discover how to best interact with your family, friends, coworkers, and love interests.

We talk every day—and we often do it without thinking. But, as you well know, there are some things that are harder to talk about—especially issues pertaining to politics, culture, lifestyle, and diversity. This groundbreaking book will show you how to get to that important next level in difficult conversations, to talk in an authentic and straightforward way about culture and diversity, and to speak from the heart with tools from the head. You'll learn to navigate these difficult conversations, and take what you've learned beyond the conversation and out into the world.

Take charge of your life by using this guide to build male confidence. Are you unsure about who you are? Do people comment on your confidence, or do you ever wonder how you manage to attract women without putting any effort into it? Have you ever admired a confident, charismatic guy and wondered how he manages to keep everything under control? The Sigma Male Mentality is the best guide for understanding your confidence as a guy in a male hierarchy. Chris Finley will give an example of what it takes to be a Sigma male and his traits.

It's Them, Not You offers a pathway to heal your inner child and break free from past trauma. Whether your solution is to go 'no contact', place new boundaries or reconnect with community, this book is the ultimate handbook to help get unstuck and heal from the strongest wounds.

Defeating Narcissism explains in great detail what a narcissist is, and their behavior patterns. It also explains how to survive being with one through the use of tools and techniques that are not known by many people, including the way narcissists think and act.

Em A arte de ler mentes, Henrik Fexeus ensina tudo o que você precisa saber para influenciar pessoas e ler os sinais conscientes e inconscientes emitidos pelo corpo, pela mente, pela fala e pela personalidade de cada indíviduo.

No matter what the speaking challenge is, this inspirational book will help listeners perform with passion, power, and persuasion - at the top of their game. Whether chasing a job, planning a pitch, giving a speech at a wedding, or presenting to one or 1,000 people, listeners of It's Not What You Say will discover how to use the rule of three to win any audience over.

Publishers Weekly called Heather Hansen's first book, The Elegant Warrior, a "template for achieving personal and career goals". In Advocate to Win, Heather goes deeper. As an award-winning trial attorney, Heather quickly realized that she didn't win because she was an extraordinary advocate. She won because she gave her clients the tools to advocate for themselves. First, they needed to choose what they wanted. Next, they needed to believe in themselves and their ability to get it. And then, they could advocate to win.

Meet the 12 people that can accelerate your success - in business and in life. It's Who You Know is the long-awaited handbook to effective, productive, and influential networking.

What does "say it straight or you'll show it crooked" mean? In essence, it means that if I have a strong feeling or a desire, and I don't do something effective about it, I will end up, internally or externally, somehow demonstrating that feeling or desire in an ineffective manner. Unexpressed negative feelings and unfulfilled desires get acted out in ways that are inappropriate if we don't express or act on them in ways that are appropriate.

In a world bursting with diverse personalities, how do you truly connect, understand, and thrive alongside others? Dive into a transformative guide that demystifies the intricate dance of human interactions. This book introduces you to "Shapes", a tool born from a fusion of age-old temperament theories and modern behavioral insights.