The Unexpected Joy of Being Single

Locating Happily-Single Serenity

By: Catherine Gray

Narrated by: Catherine Gray

Having a secret single freak-out? Feeling the red, heart-shaped urgency intensify as the years roll on by? Oh hi! You're in the right place.

Over half of Brits aged 25-44 are now single. It's become the norm to remain solo until much later in life, given the average marriage ages of 35 (women) and 38 (men). Many of us are choosing never to marry at all.

But society, films, song lyrics and our parents are adamant that a happy ending has to be couple-shaped. That we're incomplete without an 'other half'*, like a bisected panto pony. Cue: single sorrow. Dating like it's a job. Spending half our lives waiting for somebody-we-fancy to text us back. Feeling haunted by the terms 'spinster' or 'confirmed bachelor'.

Catherine Gray took a whole year off dating to find single satisfaction. She lifted the lid on the reasons behind the global single revolution, explored the bizarre ways cultures single-shame, detached from 'all the good ones are gone!' panic and debunked the myth that married people are much happier.

Let's start the reverse brainwash, in order to locate - and luxuriate in - single happiness. Are you in?

*Spoiler: you're already whole.

©2018 Catherine Gray (P)2018 Octopus Publishing Group

Critic reviews

"This refreshing, unusual book needs to exist. A culture shift which repositions a single person as someone who is relationship-free, complete, and not lacking is long overdue." (The i )

"Absolutely f--king brilliant." (Florence Given)

Lovely

I love Catherine and the way she learn more about herself everyday and share with us.

I love every one of her books

Heart wrenching and beautiful, Catherine’s writing transports you to her world while reminding you of your own experiences. All of her books relate to everyone regardless of where you stand on singledom/sobriety/etc. because she isn’t trying to convince you of anything but gives you peace in your decisions, whatever they may be.

Like a validation bath

I needed this book. Thank you for finally saying and validating the things on my heart about my single existence and making it ok to just be how and who I am. Liberating!!

New and Old Friends

This was the right book at the right time for me. The author taps into the unconscious bias that may be weighing on those of us who are single women. I’m going to steal her phrase in support of engaging in an amazing life.

This is not for us 50 plus single women

I was disappointed Ted that the book focused so much on you’re only 35 or 40 and so it’s okay to be single….thought it would offer more o. How to find joy with being on your own.