80 EFT Tapping Statements for Abandonment

By: Tessa Cason

Narrated by: Virtual Voice

Length: 1 hr and 50 mins

Publisher's summary

Tessa established a life coaching practice in 1996, when life coaching was in its infancy. After several years, she realized that desire, exploration, and awareness did not equate to change and transformation for her clients.

Exploring the underlying cause of their pain, knowing their motivation to change, and defining who they wanted to become, did not create the changes in the lives of her clients they desired.

Her livelihood depended on the success of her clients. She realized she needed a tool, technique, or method to aid them in dealing with their stress, anxiety, self-esteem issues, not feeling empowered or successful. She knew she needed a tool to change the limiting beliefs.

She visited a friend who managed a bookstore and told her of my dilemma. She reached for a book, “People have been raving about this book on EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique.”

As she read the book and discovered that EFT was tapping our heads, she was unsure if this was the tool that would help my clients. She had some adventurous clients whom she taught how to tap. When every single client returned for their next appointment and shared how different their lives had been that week because of tapping, she took notice! She was intrigued.

She soon realized she found the right tool to change limiting beliefs!

As a life coach, working with hundred of clients one-on-one, day after day, year after year, she learned how to effectively utilize tapping. She learned that clearing an emotional memory was different from clearing beliefs. She learned for EFT Tapping to work, we needed to find and address the underlying cause of an issue.

EFT Tapping is a simple, yet highly effective tool to heal our issues by addressing the cause and not just the symptoms. Healing the symptoms does not heal the underlying cause.

Clients started asking for tapping homework. She wrote out statements for them to tap. Soon, she had a library of tapping statements on different emotional issues. Tapping statements are the words we say as we tap. Tapping statements can be combined to make tapping scripts.

This book has 120 tapping statements (bonus of 40 statements plus the original 80).

Feelings of abandonment can be sparked by the death of an individual, as well as the ending of a relationship. Even though we may have an intellectual understanding of death, there is still a feeling of abandonment when someone we treasure dies. For a small child, they do not understand death. They may still expect the parent to return at any time.

Our fear of abandonment could start with our birth. In the womb, we are warm and all of our needs are taken care of. Then all of a sudden we are thrust into a cold, bright world, cut off from our food source, spanked on the butt, made to cry, put on a cold, metal weighing machine, scrubbed cleaned, wrapped up, and placed in a crib all by ourselves. Now, how much fun was that to be born?!

There is something we can do about our fear of being abandoned. It is called EFT Tapping.

What others have said about Tessa’s Books:
* Tessa is a gifted and compassionate teacher and coach. I can't think of anyone who would not benefit from time spent with her or with her writings. EFT works. You can learn from one of the best, and these short but precise books are a great way to move ahead with EFT.

* Tessa has a profound way of working with EFT that is different and unique from other practitioners. I find her work to be exceptional.

* Very creative concept, I no longer have to figure out exactly what I want to say. It zero's in on our root issues so we can tap and thrive to a healthier more abundant life.

* Well written book. The author really explains EFT well. Before reading this book, I was a doubting Thomas about EFT. I read this book and then I tried the tapping. It worked!