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In this episode, hosts Susan and Ruby delve into the complex topic of self-sabotage, in answering this listener's question, "Does anyone else feel the need to self sabotage when you're feeling so much happiness and freedom? I'm not used to being happy and my mind wants to mess it up. Anyone else or am I alone in this?" The hosts explore the conditioning that makes it difficult to feel happy without expecting something negative to happen, and the impact of societal conditioning on self-acceptance.

They emphasize the importance of self-compassion and the role of experiences and data in empowering oneself to overcome self-sabotage behaviors. They highlight the significance of coaching calls, accountability, and community support in addressing setbacks and gaining self-compassion and hope.

The conversation focuses on understanding and overcoming self-sabotage, building self-compassion, and the role of community support in the alcohol-free journey. Listeners are invited to reflect on the cycle of self-sabotage, from cues and cravings to behaviors and rewards, and learn to break free from this cycle using self-compassion and objective analysis.

The hosts share their personal experiences with suppression of emotions and coping mechanisms like alcohol, emphasizing the importance of shifting focus from the past to the future and learning to feel and accept positive emotions.

Overall, the episode provides valuable insights and practical strategies for overcoming self-sabotage, building self-compassion, and finding support on the alcohol-free journey.

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Websites:
Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

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It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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In this episode of the "Feel It Alcohol Free" podcast, hosts Susan and Ruby delve into the internal dialogues and rationalizations that often lead individuals to reach for a drink. They answer this lively question from a listener, “Arrrgh!! Damn you, wine! I am struggling with that naughty voice in my head again, the one that says, "just have a glass. You've done brilliantly, so relax. Stop overthinking it. You deserve it." And I know better. But why am I having these thoughts?”

The hosts share their personal experiences with these permission giving thoughts and explore the origins of these thoughts in the amygdala and limbic or "lizard brain". they emphasize the importance of creating an environment that doesn't trigger the need for relief at the end of the day and share strategies for overcoming the urge to drink.

Join Susan and Ruby as they delve into the psychology of alcohol consumption and share their favorite ways to embrace an alcohol-free lifestyle. So, grab a refreshing drink and get ready to "feel lit" with the "Feel It Alcohol Free" podcast.

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We want to hear from you! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and ask us any questions you have about breaking free from wine or living an alcohol-free lifestyle. Your question could be the highlight of a future episode!

Grab your copy of our FREE WineFree Weekend Guide to help you on your alcohol free journey. https://feellitpodcast.com/Guide

Find community and connection on the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/feellitalcoholfreepodcast

Websites:
Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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Welcome to Episode 25 of the "Feel Lit Alcohol Free Podcast" with your hosts, Ruby and Susan. In this episode, they explore the concept of boredom and its connection to alcohol consumption. In answering a listener's question: "I went over 30 days about a year and a half ago. I'm losing control again. I have been for a while. Need to just stop. I want to be the best me I can be without alcohol keeping me from achieving it. I have realized that boredom is a huge trigger for me as I sat here on my normal day drinking Saturday. What strategies can help me cope with boredom, especially during the times when I drink out of being bored?"

Maybe you can relate? In answering the hosts share strategies for interrupting the cycle of boredom drinking and self-sabotage, emphasizing the importance of finding joy and pleasure without resorting to alcohol. The hosts delve into the impact of dopamine on the brain and the significance of gratitude. They encourage listeners to create a personalized toolbox of coping mechanisms and share their experiences with daily practices. In addition, Ruby and Susan discuss the importance of identifying projects and hobbies to engage in, the significance of physical movement, and the role of self-reflection in breaking the cycle of drinking. As alcohol freedom coaches, they aim to help listeners break free from alcohol and feel "lit," healthier, freer, and more in control. Tune in as they invite listeners to try their tactics, share feedback, and join them in their facebook group!

We want to hear from you! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and ask us any questions you have about breaking free from wine or living an alcohol-free lifestyle. Your question could be the highlight of a future episode!

Grab your copy of our FREE WineFree Weekend Guide to help you on your alcohol free journey. https://feellitpodcast.com/Guide

Find community and connection on the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/feellitalcoholfreepodcast

Websites:
Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.