• Project You Rule: Cultivating a Positive Self-Image
    Apr 25 2024

    In today's episode, I unpack the third important rule for our Project Weight Loss and that is the self-confidence in you rule, the vital "Project You" rule.

    This rule emphasizes the importance of cultivating a positive self-image. Self-confidence is paramount for both weight loss success and effective project management. By embracing self-love and checking self-criticism, we unlock our true potential and inspire those around us. Remember, nurturing a positive relationship with ourselves sets the foundation for all other relationships in our lives. It's not selfish; it's necessary. So, I offer, let's prioritize self-care and positivity, knowing that when we love ourselves unconditionally, we create a ripple effect of empowerment and fulfillment.

    Let’s go, let’s get it done.

    Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

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    16 mins
  • Seize the Day: How 24 Hours Can Change Your Life
    Apr 18 2024

    In this episode, I unpack the transformative potential of the 24-hour rule, exploring its impact on decision-making, emotional regulation, memory retention, and meal planning. Drawing from personal anecdotes and research insights, I reveal how this simple principle can revolutionize our approach to weight loss and holistic well-being. From learning to navigate major decisions with clarity and confidence to cultivating mindfulness in our dietary choices, the 24-hour rule serves as a powerful tool for empowering change and driving progress in Project Weight Loss and beyond.

    As we journey through the episode, we uncover practical strategies for implementing the 24-hour rule in various aspects of our lives, from professional endeavors to personal habits. By embracing imperfection and committing to continual growth, we harness the full potential of each day, propelling ourselves forward on the path to success and fulfillment. Tune in to discover how the 24-hour rule can unlock new opportunities, enhance resilience, and accelerate your transformation journey in Project Weight Loss and beyond.

    Harvard Business Review 12/2/2010

    Baylor College: Memory


    Let’s go, let’s get it done.

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    18 mins
  • PWL Rule #1: The 90-Second Secret
    Apr 11 2024

    In this episode, I unpack the 90-second rule and the concept of emotional management. This rule is so relevant to both our project management and weight loss journeys. Exploring the 90-second rule and drawing from Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor and Viktor Frankl's insights, I offer practical strategies for handling emotions effectively and therefore handling our reactivity and our success in our Project Weight Loss.

    I illustrate the benefits of applying the 90-second rule in real-life situations in order to make conscious decisions in both professional and personal contexts.

    Overall, I bring you valuable insights and actionable tips for achieving success by mastering emotions in various aspects of life to lose whatever can hold us back and weigh us down.

    Let’s go, let’s get it done.

    Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

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    23 mins
  • Milestones & Memories: Celebrating 100 Episodes Together
    Apr 4 2024

    Hello, my beautiful friends! Can you believe it? This is our 100th episode, and I'm filled with gratitude for each and every one of you. What a journey it's been, especially this week – it's been a roller coaster with a trip to the ER thrown in for good measure. But hey, we're all okay, and that's what matters.

    First and foremost, I
    want to extend a humble thank you to all of you for sticking with me and for
    sharing the podcast. It means the world to me. Some of you lovely listeners
    have even told me you've listened to certain episodes multiple times – thank you for that!
    So, for this special episode, I've put together a few clips from some of the
    most popular and your favorite episodes. I hope you enjoy them. And please
    forgive me if they're not perfect – this week has taught me to embrace B- work, especially when
    life throws curveballs.

    Each clip will be
    accompanied by the title and episode number, in case you want to revisit the
    full episodes later.

    So, without further
    ado, let's dive in:

    1. "Our Brains and Why We
    Overeat" – Episode 8

    2. "From Reasons to
    Seasons" – Episode 99

    3. "What the Heck Is a
    Life Coach?" – Episode 51

    4. "Let's Talk Fats"
    – Episode 64

    5. "Regrets" –
    Episode 41

    And last but certainly
    not least, the top episode: "Tamara Levitt: The Mindfulness
    Maester" – Episode 20

    And to wrap up this
    monumental episode, here's a quote to ponder: "Be yourself; everyone else
    is already taken" by Oscar Wilde.

    I love YOU so much.

    Thank you for being a part of this incredible journey. Here's to the next 100 episodes
    and beyond!

    Special Thank you to Andrey Rossi for the wonderful song, Seize the Day that you hear in between the clips.

    Let’s go, let’s get it done.

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    25 mins
  • From Reasons to Seasons: The People that People Our Lives
    Mar 28 2024

    In today's episode, we're going to unpack a topic that's close to my heart: the profound impact that relationships have on our project weight loss journey.

    Lately, I've been reflecting on the significance of the people in our lives, both in our professional and personal spheres. I've been contemplating retirement and it's got me thinking about the wonderful individuals who have crossed my path throughout my career.

    I also define what relationships mean to me.

    I've been inspired by the insights of Maester Drew Chalker, who suggests that people enter our lives for specific reasons, providing support and guidance during challenging times. Drew also talks about the concept of seasons in relationships, where individuals come into our lives to share, grow, and learn, but only for a period.

    I'm incredibly grateful for the lifelong relationships that have shaped me into who I am today. From family members to mentors and friends, each person has left an indelible mark on my life.

    As we wrap up, I encourage you to reflect on the people who have influenced your weight loss journey. Remember, our relationships shape how we perceive ourselves and the world around us.

    I'll leave you with a quote from Anaïs Nin "We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are."

    Thank you for joining me on this episode of the people that people our lives, and how they come into our lives for a reason, a season and a lifetime.


    I hope you'll take some time to share this episode with your loved ones and continue the conversation about the power of relationships in our wellness journey. Until next time, take care and stay well.


    Zig Ziglar : You Were Born to Overcome Life's Challenges

    Let’s go, let’s get it done.

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    18 mins
  • Powerful Emotions, Powerful Results
    Mar 21 2024

    In this episode of Project Weight Loss, I do a deep dive into the transformative power of some emotions on our Project Weight Loss journey. Exploring the emotions of discipline, courage, clarity, joy, gratitude, and certainty.

    I share insights on how these emotions can serve as guiding lights, empowering us to overcome any impediment and cultivate a healthier, happier life.

    I also share a summary of my VERITAS (truth) model, the system I use in Project Weight Loss.

    I invite you to join me on this enlightening journey of self-discovery and transformation.


    Together, let's harness the strength of our emotions to create lasting change and step into a brighter, more vibrant future. Don't miss out on this empowering episode filled with actionable advice and heartfelt encouragement for you to get ready and shed what weighs you down so you can embrace a life of wellness and fulfillment.

    VERITAS Episode Series

    Part 1 The How
    Part 2 The Pause & the Past
    Part 3 The System: VERITAS

    Let’s go, let’s get it done.

    Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

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    17 mins
  • Eagerly Live Your Best Life: Embracing the Gems
    Mar 14 2024

    In this week's episode, I speak to the concept of living our best lives amidst significant changes and challenges in our lives. From retiring from my government job to the change of my sister's move and home renovations with my honey, life's transitions on the surface can seem overwhelming. However, amidst the chaos, I reflect on the small, precious moments that define true happiness.

    Inspired by an unattributed social media post, I encourage you my listener to contemplate on your own interpretation of living your best lives.

    I share examples of what it means to me-it's the simple yet profound experiences that enrich our lives. Join me as I share heartfelt moments and insights, reminding us all to treasure life's gems.

    Until next week, keep on living your best lives, my dear friends.

    Signing off with warmth and love, your friend Fi.

    Let’s go, let’s get it done.

    Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

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    7 mins
  • Crave Less, Live More: Mastering the Art of Not Wanting
    Mar 7 2024

    In today's episode of Project Weight Loss, I, Fina Perez, your guide and coach, unpacked desires and cravings and the concept of not wanting to want to overeat or eat off plan. We unraveled over desire, focusing on the intense allure of cravings and the broader spectrum of desires, particularly in the context of our relationship with food. This exploration serves as a crucial foundation for our collective journey towards a healthier, more intentional life.

    As we our Project Weight Loss journey, I emphasized the significance of understanding these nuances. Over desires and cravings possess the potential to veer us away from our true desires. For me, it's about cultivating a healthy body and savoring a remarkable quality of life in the years ahead. From pinpointing when and where these desires typically surface to providing actionable strategies for overcoming them, this episode aims to empower you in conquering these challenges. Closing with the timeless wisdom of Plato and Seneca, we are reminded that the first and greatest victory is the conquest of oneself, a key to celebrating life without unnecessary cravings. Until our next insightful journey together, stay true to your path, nurture contentment, and wield the power to conquer yourself.

    Let’s go, let’s get it done.

    Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

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    25 mins